It’s one of those problems that is a major problem, until it is suddenly not. Being a single guy seemed like a hopeless cause, until you finally found someone. There isn’t a magic formula, but there are things that certainly make it a little easier than others.
As a step in the direction I went to a tabletop club, already met a few people. For now I am not even looking at it as being on the look for women. I'm looking for people. Met 6 people already to see again later.
Exactly, putting yourself out there and building relationships opens more opportunities for other relationships. College for me was a time I met a lot of people because my friendships overlapped with other friendships which led to meeting new people and making other new friends. Once you are no longer school aged, it requires a lot more effort to have that same sort of parlaying effect, because people as a whole are less social.
