Lidocaine play or reducing cock sensation?

[emme8]

Does anyone use any tricks for decreasing their partners sensation during sex?

I really appreciate the feel of a real penis for sex, my toys just don't feel right. Sometimes I just really desire real sex. But if I could numb him up so he couldn't really feel enough to get off, it would be fantastic.

Any suggestions?

I've tried this with a condom, but it I ended up with diminished sensations and the label states its incompatible with condoms.
https://www.k-y.com/products/k-y-duration-desensitizing-delay-spray-for-men

 

[twister947]

Just guessing here, but it seems like anything you put on his cock to numb it will have a corresponding effect on you.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Just guessing here, but it seems like anything you put on his cock to numb it will have a corresponding effect on you.

I think so too.

Apply salt liberally to this suggestion, because depending on what else you have planned this can be a bad idea or just not suitable for you, but with some men even a small amount of alcohol applied on the inside so to speak, can have this effect.

 

[pumperguy191]

On another site, it is recommended to use a numbing cream. Apply liberally to his cock, wait a couple minutes then Apply a condom. Lay back and enjoy

 

[Goldenfinger]

On another site, it is recommended to use a numbing cream. Apply liberally to his cock, wait a couple minutes then Apply a condom. Lay back and enjoy

That’s the ticket. Numbing cream under the condom and viagra.

 

[Athalia]

I remember fucking a boy who had a condom with some sort of numbing lotion on the inside. It didn't feel any different for me, but he complained that he wasn't getting any sensation at all, and it was hard for him to keep an erection (and he was in his early twenties, when they don't have any trouble achieving boners). So it does work, sort of, but it may not have the erotic kick you're looking for.

Being sexually curious at that age, I would have liked to experiment with him by putting the condom on inside out, but he only had one of them. I have achieved similar numbing with ice dildos, but what I liked was the sensation of going from very cold to very warm in a very short period of time when my lover fucked me. I don't think you could get that with something as long-lasting as a numbing cream.

Or maybe what you need with him is a clever invention called the Ice Vagina: https://www.literotica.com/s/ginnies-ice-play

 

[sweettalk4u]

I remember fucking a boy who had a condom with some sort of numbing lotion on the inside. It didn't feel any different for me, but he complained that he wasn't getting any sensation at all, and it was hard for him to keep an erection (and he was in his early twenties, when they don't have any trouble achieving boners). So it does work, sort of, but it may not have the erotic kick you're looking for.

Being sexually curious at that age, I would have liked to experiment with him by putting the condom on inside out, but he only had one of them. I have achieved similar numbing with ice dildos, but what I liked was the sensation of going from very cold to very warm in a very short period of time when my lover fucked me. I don't think you could get that with something as long-lasting as a numbing cream.

Or maybe what you need with him is a clever invention called the Ice Vagina: https://www.literotica.com/s/ginnies-ice-play

It’s one thing I use to take them deeper into submission. To get them fuller and more focused on every task I give them

 

[emme8]

It’s one thing I use to take them deeper into submission. To get them fuller and more focused on every task I give them

Which product?

We love like the idea of him being mostly for my pleasure. For him to be able to focus on me. For me to orgasm with PIV sex, but for him to get less physical pleasure.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Which product?

We love like the idea of him being mostly for my pleasure. For him to be able to focus on me. For me to orgasm with PIV sex, but for him to get less physical pleasure.

Most all anti itch creams will numb
Some more than others and it can take a few minutes
Caging works well too

 

[emme8]

The problem is I want cock so I let him out of his cage and he focuses more on holding back that fucking me.
He does last longer if I milk him 1st but sometimes I want a quickie.


I will try the anti itch cream.

 

[sweettalk4u]

The problem is I want cock so I let him out of his cage and he focuses more on holding back that fucking me.
He does last longer if I milk him 1st but sometimes I want a quickie.


I will try the anti itch cream.

Numbing cream applied as you jack him off. Then caged and allow the cream to dry. Then release with condom.