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Naked Hunny
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No I dont think I look good Naked but i definitely look better than I did 6 months ago when the doctors finally told me I could start exercising again. As everyone knows the birth in my daughter resulted in me having a fractured pelvis. But ok back to the question in the past 6 months I have lost 50 lbs even though im not as thin as I was before my pregnancy yet I am glad that I lost some of that weight!!Got some more to go though then ill be a happier camper!!
Good god a 5 pound baby would fall out of me if I stood up to fast! My last one was 10 lbs 9 ozs and 5 days overdue. Let me tell you that doctor will never heard the end of that for letting me push out a baby the size of a big Thanksgiving turkey! lol So needless to say, my stomach isn't exactly something I'm proud of. Let's just say there are parts of me under construction and does anyone know a good plastic surgeon! (joking)
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UGH! Bring no mirrors!
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Latina
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At the risk of sounding tiresome, I mostly like my looks. I've said that before, and I've been told to shut up about it, but hey, you guys ASKED!
At 50 and post-menopause, my 38Cs have YET to sag, which is like some kind of a miracle to me. My insatiable sex drive hasn't sagged either, and in fact is stronger now than ever before in my life, mostly because I am cherished daily AND I need not fear pregnancy (No room at the inn? No longer have the inn to have rooms in, anyway!) or STDs.
Back to the question of looks. When I work out regularly, my waist is 28, when I don't it's something larger. Wish it could be 24 like those centerfold models but even 28+ is nice. When I sit down, my tummy wrinkles-up a bit, it probably wouldn't if I lost 4 inches, but that will probably never happen and I can accept that. I like my butt, mostly because HE loves my butt, and exercising keeps my butt high and my ass-creases at the tops of my legs sharp and well-defined, so I am the beneficiary of much affection showered on that part of me, which brings a meaasure of joy and comfort to my life. We both shower with a body wash that keeps our skin soft and smooth, which increases the enjoyment of touching each other all over, and I guess that (along with daily exercise) is the one thing we do to fight signs of aging.
I like that I have a naturally-dark (Mexican) complexion, I can't STAND what's-her-name (Sela Ward) in the Sprint commercials (you know the one where she tries to be Tom Cruise in Mission:Impossible descending by rope from the ceiling) whose face is ghostly white and looks so unhealthy. I would NEVER want to look like that, a porcelain-doll complexion. My complexion is more like Selma Hayek (Wild Wild West) or singer Maria Concheta Alonzo (who is only 7 years to the day younger than me, and still looks AMAZING). I also hate that my dark shapely legs sometimes show my veins in certain lighting (it's called getting older).
I didn't think I was sexy after my first husband died, but after hearing it just about daily from my second husband for over four years now, I've now come to believe it. I wear subtle makeup to enhance what I have naturally, but I don't go for the thick pancaking to hide my age (Mimi from The Drew Carrie Show, or Tammy Fae Baker--definitely NOT teh look for me!). I'm HAPPY to have reached 50, neither my mother nor my step-mother lived to that age, so I feel blessed. I do not dye my hair, which so far is still VERY dark brown bordering on black. And I will NOT have cosmetic surgery: what I can't control by strict diet and exercise, I'll just let go. I'll wear my age with pride, because I am loved and don't need to be someone I'm not. Wearing sexy clothes helps me feel sexier, too: short skirts, short shorts, my slit-side jeans micro-miniskirt that is really a pair of micro-mini shorts (attached under the skirt; these are sometimes called skorts, for skirt-shorts)(drives him WILD when I wear it), long skirts with high slits, low-cut blouses, etc. If I dress sexy and feel sexy, then I AM sexy.
But it is the INNER person that counts more: some friends say I care TOO much about being kind and caring to others. I took in (adopted) a 6-months-old boy whom nobody wanted and raised him, he is now 13 and I still love him deeply. I help my sister (a twice-divorced single mom) every weekend by watching her two toddlers while she works, taking them to play makes me FEEL so young and carefree. Frank & I do various volunteer work. The world is such a scrwed-up place for so many people, I try to help where I can, and I think it is THAT, more than my body, which makes me a beautiful person. I admit I'm no saint, I just quietly do my small part to make my corner of the world a better place. Just imagine what we could achieve if we each did that, brightened our corner of the world as we pass through it, how great this world could be. Strive to have a beautiful SOUL, and the beauty of your face & figure become less important (but they DO still matter A LOT, too).
As for sexy, it is not just about how I look, but the sexy things my brain cooks-up to do with my husband. It's true, your brain is your most powerful sex organ. I put that creative sexual brain-energy to work with Frank, and in writing my stories that appear on Literotica. And the love and lust I get back are MORE than worth what I put out there.
To paraphrase Forrest Gump, sexy is as sexy does. (Hump, Forrest, HUUUUMMMMP!)
-- Latina
At 50 and post-menopause, my 38Cs have YET to sag, which is like some kind of a miracle to me. My insatiable sex drive hasn't sagged either, and in fact is stronger now than ever before in my life, mostly because I am cherished daily AND I need not fear pregnancy (No room at the inn? No longer have the inn to have rooms in, anyway!) or STDs.
Back to the question of looks. When I work out regularly, my waist is 28, when I don't it's something larger. Wish it could be 24 like those centerfold models but even 28+ is nice. When I sit down, my tummy wrinkles-up a bit, it probably wouldn't if I lost 4 inches, but that will probably never happen and I can accept that. I like my butt, mostly because HE loves my butt, and exercising keeps my butt high and my ass-creases at the tops of my legs sharp and well-defined, so I am the beneficiary of much affection showered on that part of me, which brings a meaasure of joy and comfort to my life. We both shower with a body wash that keeps our skin soft and smooth, which increases the enjoyment of touching each other all over, and I guess that (along with daily exercise) is the one thing we do to fight signs of aging.
I like that I have a naturally-dark (Mexican) complexion, I can't STAND what's-her-name (Sela Ward) in the Sprint commercials (you know the one where she tries to be Tom Cruise in Mission:Impossible descending by rope from the ceiling) whose face is ghostly white and looks so unhealthy. I would NEVER want to look like that, a porcelain-doll complexion. My complexion is more like Selma Hayek (Wild Wild West) or singer Maria Concheta Alonzo (who is only 7 years to the day younger than me, and still looks AMAZING). I also hate that my dark shapely legs sometimes show my veins in certain lighting (it's called getting older).
I didn't think I was sexy after my first husband died, but after hearing it just about daily from my second husband for over four years now, I've now come to believe it. I wear subtle makeup to enhance what I have naturally, but I don't go for the thick pancaking to hide my age (Mimi from The Drew Carrie Show, or Tammy Fae Baker--definitely NOT teh look for me!). I'm HAPPY to have reached 50, neither my mother nor my step-mother lived to that age, so I feel blessed. I do not dye my hair, which so far is still VERY dark brown bordering on black. And I will NOT have cosmetic surgery: what I can't control by strict diet and exercise, I'll just let go. I'll wear my age with pride, because I am loved and don't need to be someone I'm not. Wearing sexy clothes helps me feel sexier, too: short skirts, short shorts, my slit-side jeans micro-miniskirt that is really a pair of micro-mini shorts (attached under the skirt; these are sometimes called skorts, for skirt-shorts)(drives him WILD when I wear it), long skirts with high slits, low-cut blouses, etc. If I dress sexy and feel sexy, then I AM sexy.
But it is the INNER person that counts more: some friends say I care TOO much about being kind and caring to others. I took in (adopted) a 6-months-old boy whom nobody wanted and raised him, he is now 13 and I still love him deeply. I help my sister (a twice-divorced single mom) every weekend by watching her two toddlers while she works, taking them to play makes me FEEL so young and carefree. Frank & I do various volunteer work. The world is such a scrwed-up place for so many people, I try to help where I can, and I think it is THAT, more than my body, which makes me a beautiful person. I admit I'm no saint, I just quietly do my small part to make my corner of the world a better place. Just imagine what we could achieve if we each did that, brightened our corner of the world as we pass through it, how great this world could be. Strive to have a beautiful SOUL, and the beauty of your face & figure become less important (but they DO still matter A LOT, too).
As for sexy, it is not just about how I look, but the sexy things my brain cooks-up to do with my husband. It's true, your brain is your most powerful sex organ. I put that creative sexual brain-energy to work with Frank, and in writing my stories that appear on Literotica. And the love and lust I get back are MORE than worth what I put out there.
To paraphrase Forrest Gump, sexy is as sexy does. (Hump, Forrest, HUUUUMMMMP!)
-- Latina
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Not happy but comfortable
I am not in the best shape I have ever been in but I am far from embarassed by my body.
Lets face it, none of us (well almost none of us) are 20 anymore and at our physical peak. But I still think its important to be comfortable with your body even if it isn't perfect.
It wouldn't hurt me any to spend a few hours a week in the gym. I feel the best when i'm about 195, I went 203 on sunday but its not like i'm gonna' obsess about it.
As long as your condition is not detremental to your general health it is important to feel good about your body and to not judge others based upon it. We are all eventualy going to sag and droop so I feel that its something I will not judge a partner or mate by.
[Edited by Expertise on 10-04-2000 at 11:24 AM]
I am not in the best shape I have ever been in but I am far from embarassed by my body.
Lets face it, none of us (well almost none of us) are 20 anymore and at our physical peak. But I still think its important to be comfortable with your body even if it isn't perfect.
It wouldn't hurt me any to spend a few hours a week in the gym. I feel the best when i'm about 195, I went 203 on sunday but its not like i'm gonna' obsess about it.
As long as your condition is not detremental to your general health it is important to feel good about your body and to not judge others based upon it. We are all eventualy going to sag and droop so I feel that its something I will not judge a partner or mate by.
[Edited by Expertise on 10-04-2000 at 11:24 AM]
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Re: UGH! Bring no mirrors!
Stretch Marks = Tongue maps.
As for me, I'm comfortable inside my body, but it's not something you'll find on billboards or romance novel covers.
Luscious Lionness said:
Stretch Marks = Tongue maps.
As for me, I'm comfortable inside my body, but it's not something you'll find on billboards or romance novel covers.
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What a question!
LGN?
Yes, I do. Definitely.
Where, you may ask?
1) In a black hole
2) In a vacuum (and not in the way KillerMuffin usually describes! After all, I think that vacuum situation only works for men anyway.)
3) Laying flat on my back- slightly tilted back too- as viewed from above (the wonderful and kind effects of gravity, you know)
4) In a really dark room in a society where everyone is legally blind
5) In an alternate universe
So...
Yes, I do. Definitely. Ask anyone. Well, no I didn't really mean that.
In my eyes. I just don't understand why no one else seems to agree!
LGN?
Yes, I do. Definitely.
Where, you may ask?
1) In a black hole
2) In a vacuum (and not in the way KillerMuffin usually describes! After all, I think that vacuum situation only works for men anyway.)
3) Laying flat on my back- slightly tilted back too- as viewed from above (the wonderful and kind effects of gravity, you know)
4) In a really dark room in a society where everyone is legally blind
5) In an alternate universe
So...
Yes, I do. Definitely. Ask anyone. Well, no I didn't really mean that.
In my eyes. I just don't understand why no one else seems to agree!
Thumper
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I think I do....
...and so do all the gay guys...*see KM's thread*
Hey there are a few ladies here that may know...but yeah I ain't too bad for nigh on 40 and three kids LOL
Hey CB what does MSU stand for? My daughter goes to an MSU....
[Edited by Thumper on 10-04-2000 at 02:27 PM]
...and so do all the gay guys...*see KM's thread*
Hey there are a few ladies here that may know...but yeah I ain't too bad for nigh on 40 and three kids LOL
Hey CB what does MSU stand for? My daughter goes to an MSU....
[Edited by Thumper on 10-04-2000 at 02:27 PM]
Jade said:
Jade, other than Kevin Spacey, who gave you the idea for LGN?
To answer your question, yes I feel I do.
I hate sounding immodest but good genetics and lots of damn work went into this body! I can save my feelings of insecurity for other areas.
Although, I will be 35 in about six weeks and it gets harder and harder(was that a good word choice?) to maintain my own desired level of fitness! BTW Jade, you are beautiful and do LGN and I sure as hell am not the only one here who thinks that!
[Edited by Dreamer1 on 10-04-2000 at 04:15 PM]
