lets talk about cyber

[Guest]

Cyber-ring? Like, a virtual marriage?

yes

and a virtual honeymoon

 

[joeys-game]

Do you?
Is it fun?
Part of your sexlife?
Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?
Do you consider yourself good at it?
Regular partner?
What makes someone good at cybering?
Do you consider it cheating?
Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?
Is it for real or just words on a screen?
Do you think we're any better at it because we write?
Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?

Discuss please.

Do You? yes
Is it fun? absolutely.
A unique part of it , sure.
Its a nice to, depends on the person involved.
Yes, i'm good at it..
Regular partner. yes.
I think you have to know the other person. The better you know them, thier likes, dislikes..the better it is.
Is it cheating? probably, to a certain extent.
Something i would like to do in real life but probably wouldn't unless my reallife partner was okay with it.
Its real to a certain level, your not talking to a robot.
We love the written word so i think, yes , we are better at it.
To physically touch? no.

 

[Recidiva]

yes

and a virtual honeymoon

I prefer marriage with manacles instead of rings, but that's the sort of option you have online that you don't really get real life.

And wearing his soul as a ring.

 

[FallingToFly]

I prefer marriage with manacles instead of rings, but that's the sort of option you have online that you don't really get real life.

And wearing his soul as a ring.

You sound suspiciously familiar....

 

[AchtungNight]

I'm mostly with signscott on cybering. I've enjoyed it at times, but there have also been times when I haven't. I need the right partner. I prefer discussing fantasies, reading, writing, and of course the real thing.

Do you?

I have. Not often, but I have.

Is it fun?

Yes, at times.

Part of your sexlife?

A small one.

Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?

Just nice.

Do you consider yourself good at it?

Yeah, I guess. I really don't know. No one has ever complained, but you can't be sure about things when you can't see the other person.

Regular partner?

No.

What makes someone good at cybering?

A vivid imagination, a good knowledge of sex, and a healthy libido.

Do you consider it cheating?

No. But then, I'm not married.

Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?

Fantasy mostly. I have acted out some of it in RL though.

Is it for real or just words on a screen?

Depends on your point of view. I think it can be either.

Do you think we're any better at it because we write?

Maybe. Then again, we can't really see who we're chatting with, so we can't see their responses. It's different with characters.

Is touch necesary in order to say that you are making love?

No. I've made love to girls without touching them many times. With words, with my eyes, and with a feather (Thank you, Josh Hartnett. ).

 

[Recidiva]

You sound suspiciously familiar....

I like to think if I ever assaulted someone, they'd remember.

 

[FallingToFly]

I like to think if I ever assaulted someone, they'd remember.

LOL... *giggles*

You just sound like people I roleplay with, darlin', that's all.

 

[Recidiva]

LOL... *giggles*

You just sound like people I roleplay with, darlin', that's all.

Yaaay!

We're very strange, but fun people. I would have to say a breed apart, though. One of my first OOC questions to my husband online when he was heading out with a "woman" that was thought to be a "guy" was a whispered..."Isn't she really a guy?"

To which he responded..."So?"

Loved him from that moment on.

 

[rgraham666]

I have a few logs saved of my sessions with one sweet young lady.

Several of my erotic couplings stories grew out of those.

 

[ibhard]

Is it fun?
- sure; i wouldn't if it wasn't

Part of your sexlife?
- just to my online self

Is it a need, necessity or a nice to?
- it's a 'nice to'

Do you consider yourself good at it?
- absolutely

Regular partner?
- yes, a couple

What makes someone good at cybering?
- familiarity of the other person, timing, intensity and writing skill

Do you consider it cheating?
- maybe. it's not something i'd do in front of my partner then again i don't let anyone regularly watch me masturbate either.

Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?
- eh? not sure what that question is about.

Is it for real or just words on a screen?
- it's real enough there is a physical reaction due to the effect of the words. so yes, real enough for me.

Do you think we're any better at it because we write?
- of course, but practice makes perfect.

Is touch necessary in order to say that you are making love?
- you can touch people with words and those words can be of love so i guess it's not necessary to touch physically to 'make love'.

 

[matriarch]

Do you?
Is it fun?
Part of your sexlife?
Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?
Do you consider yourself good at it?
Regular partner?
What makes someone good at cybering?
Do you consider it cheating?
Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?
Is it for real or just words on a screen?
Do you think we're any better at it because we write?
Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?

Discuss please.

I used to.
Yes.
Was.
Was need, necessity and nice.
That'd be telling.
Now, yes.
Imagination and empathy
Oh, that's a bottomless pit of a question. Depends on the person.
It's for real.
Maybe.
No.

 

[TheEarl]

• Do you?
  I did. Don't at the moment, although not ruling it out in the future.
• Is it fun?
  More fun than being alone. Less fun than being truly together.
• Part of your sexlife?
  Not at the moment. I could see it being, in the right circumstances.
• Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?
  Nice to.
• Do you consider yourself good at it?
  Pretty good. It's ad hoc storytelling, which I'm fair certain I'm okay at.
• Regular partner?
  Not really. There used to be.
• What makes someone good at cybering?
  Good imagination. An ability to make it very real through words. An ability to type one-handed
• Do you consider it cheating?
  Yes. Very yes.
• Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?
  Little of column a...
• Is it for real or just words on a screen?
  In between. I wouldn't class it as real, but there's certainly something there.
• Do you think we're any better at it because we write?
  Hell yes.
• Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?
  No. I have a fairly wide definition of making love. I've not been in love with any of my cyberring fuck-buddies. However, in at least one case I was in fairly deep like. If the requisite emotions were there I'd say it could classify as making love. I'd miss the cuddling though.

The Earl

 

[ravenshadow13]

Cyber

Do you? Yes
Is it fun? Of course!
Part of your sexlife? Hm.. Somewhat
Is it a need, necesity or a nice to? It's a nice to.
Do you consider yourself good at it? I would say so...
Regular partner? A few
What makes someone good at cybering? Spelling, detail
Do you consider it cheating? Nope
Fantasy, or what you would do in real life? A little of both
Is it for real or just words on a screen? It's for real in my mind..
Do you think we're any better at it because we write? Yes
Is touch necessary in order to say that you are making love? Nope

 

[Guest]

• Do you?

Yes, just nothing recently (by recently I mean like since February or so)

• Is it fun?

Yes

• Part of your sexlife?

When I was participating in it yes.

• Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?

nice to

• Do you consider yourself good at it?

Never had any complaints

• Regular partner?

Not now

• What makes someone good at cybering?

Their mind, their heart, their ability to type out what they would wish to do and have done. Their ability to suspend belief and make what is coming through in words just as exciting as if you were doing it in person.

• Do you consider it cheating?

This is a tricky one for me...
- If I am in a committed relationship and I am NOT telling my SO and it is ONLY online... maybe
- If I am in a committed relationship and I am NOT telling my SO and it crosses into RT meaning the phone or something... yes
- If they are in a committed relationship and they are NOT telling their SO and its only online... maybe
- If they are in a committed relationahip and they are NOT telling their SO and it crosses into RT meaning the phone or something... yes

The reason for my maybe is fairly simple... agreements maybe made and such that would make the NOT telling okay even if it went to the phone

• Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?

I would do it in RT.... My sex life is anything but vanilla

• Is it for real or just words on a screen?

Tactfully.... I can orgasm from cyber sex.... so I am going to say real

• Do you think we're any better at it because we write?

yes, I think that writers in general are better at it and I think that Liters would be even more so

• Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?

Nope

I like someone else here... I have been in the past an avid role player and if the role play called for it well then okay.... I have with friends and sometimes I have when we both needed it... ya know the need to because you both need to konw that someoen cares about you and loves you even if its just for that moment

 

[Nirvanadragones]

I am sorry I could not respond earlier to this thread. I have been otherwise engaged. That should answer all of your questions. Multiplelily

 

[Recidiva]

I am sorry I could not respond earlier to this thread. I have been otherwise engaged. That should answer all of your questions. Multiplelily

Transcripts, please!

 

[Guest]

* bump *

 

[Guest]

 

[Liar]

Ok...answers:

Did.
Sure.
Naah.
Nice.
Naah.
No.
Pacing.
Yes.
Same.
Real-ish.
Yes.
No.

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

Do you?
A few times, when I was maybe fourteen.
Is it fun?
Eh, real sex is better. Cyber just seemed kind of awkward when I did it back then, it was very forced.
Part of your sexlife?
Nope.
Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?
None of the above.
Do you consider yourself good at it?
As good as anyone, I guess.
Regular partner?
Nope
What makes someone good at cybering?
Selective ability to not laugh at the notion of one typing sexually suggestive things to someone online, so they can grope themselves.
Do you consider it cheating?
I would, yes.
Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?
Between the two? Fantasy.
Is it for real or just words on a screen?
Words.
Do you think we're any better at it because we write?
Nope.
Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?
As I don't dig the term "making love", my opinion of "yes" would be without much merit.

 

[scottmcc]

Do you?

On occasion.

Is it fun?

If you do it right.

Part of your sexlife?

I don't have a sex-life, so i guess.

Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?

A nice to.

Do you consider yourself good at it?

I would hope so.

Regular partner?

No, I don't do it regularly enough to have a regular partner.

What makes someone good at cybering?

Writing, imagination, and experience helps.

Do you consider it cheating?

No, I consider it on the same level as the stories here.

Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?

I try to walk a fine line. No one wants real all the time, that is why you are cybering.

Is it for real or just words on a screen?

Depends. It could be just dirty talk to one side and the other side could be seriously getting off on it.

Do you think we're any better at it because we write?

Yeah, practice helps.

Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?

This is kind of like the myth of the male orgasm, it is hard to prove and hard to disprove.

 

[SensualCealy]

I like your post tx beautiful. How does ability to read others come in handy? just checkin.

If you are good at picking out peoples personallities not just the way they act on line, it makes it good for both of you. What I had meant by my answer was, when a guy comes on and says, "Hey baby, wanna see my cock?" well you know he just wants to get off and doesnt care how.
If a guy comes on and asks questions that pertain to you specifically like, "So, how are you? What do you do for a living? Are you looking for something serious or are you here just to have fun? Stuff like that then you know you are going to get more out of the time you spend with him than a cum shot! lmao

Thats why when I use to cyber I would chat for a bit and ask if they want to play a game. Ask questions then they have to answer, they ask a question then you have to answer. Like truth or dare I guess. You learn alot in a short time and if they dont have time or take to long to answer then they arent worth your time.

Another 2cents, I have lots of pennies! lol
C

 

[English Lady]

Do you?

I did, I honestly can't remember the last time I had cyber sex.

Is it fun?

Oh, it certainly can be, I've also had a couple of experiences that bored me to tears*L*

Part of your sexlife?

Currently, no.

Is it a need, necesity or a nice to?

With a good partner it's nice to

Do you consider yourself good at it?

Not especially, but I'v never had any complaints and I have had many, many compliments, so I mustn't be too bad.

Regular partner?

No, but then I don't have any occassionals either *L*

What makes someone good at cybering?

Imagination, a knowledge of how the female body works, the ability to flirt wildly and also the patience to enjoy the foreplay and not just forge ahead to the cum shot scene!!!
Do you consider it cheating?

Not at all. It's something hubby and I've discussed and we're both happy to let the othr do what they want as long as it stays online -new rules apply to real life
Fantasy, or what you would do in real life?

An element of both as that is the beauty of cyber sex, you have no constraints but those of your imagination.
Is it for real or just words on a screen?

Words on a screen which create a bubble of some kind of semi-reality. Just because it's not happening physically to me doesn't mean it's not effecting me.

Do you think we're any better at it because we write?

I think my imagination is the main thing that makes me good, not necessarily the fact I'm a writer.

Is touch necesarry in order to say that you are making love?

I think, for me, yes.