Let's really chat

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

Hey there, I'm Sha.

43, 5.2, curvy, confident, and comfortable in my own brown skin. I'm a woman who can hold a meaningful conversation, laugh at myself, handle life's responsibilities, and still appreciate a little adventure when the right person comes along.

I value intelligence, emotional maturity, good communication, and a man who knows who he is. Attraction starts with the mind for me. If you can challenge my thoughts, make me laugh, and keep me interested in a conversation, you're already ahead of the game.

While I appreciate the dynamics and trust that can come with the BDSM lifestyle, it's only one piece of a much bigger picture. I'm looking for genuine connection, chemistry, friendship, passion, and someone who understands that the best relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and authentic desire.

I enjoy good conversation, learning new things, spontaneous moments, and people who are as curious about life as they are about the person sitting across from them.

If you're confident without being arrogant, intelligent without needing to prove it, and looking for something real with a woman who knows her worth, send me a message.

Tell me something interesting about yourself. Bonus points if it's something I haven't heard before.
— Sha

 

[Just_Derek26]

Isn’t it bad enough that guys posts in the personals outnumber the ladies 10-1, without phantom posters.

 

[ericalauren]

Have you had any luck finding someone yet?

 

[wintergrain]

Hey there, I'm Sha.

43, 5.2, curvy, confident, and comfortable in my own brown skin. I'm a woman who can hold a meaningful conversation, laugh at myself, handle life's responsibilities, and still appreciate a little adventure when the right person comes along.

I value intelligence, emotional maturity, good communication, and a man who knows who he is. Attraction starts with the mind for me. If you can challenge my thoughts, make me laugh, and keep me interested in a conversation, you're already ahead of the game.

While I appreciate the dynamics and trust that can come with the BDSM lifestyle, it's only one piece of a much bigger picture. I'm looking for genuine connection, chemistry, friendship, passion, and someone who understands that the best relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and authentic desire.

I enjoy good conversation, learning new things, spontaneous moments, and people who are as curious about life as they are about the person sitting across from them.

If you're confident without being arrogant, intelligent without needing to prove it, and looking for something real with a woman who knows her worth, send me a message.

Tell me something interesting about yourself. Bonus points if it's something I haven't heard before.
— Sha

Hello Sha

Senior Humble southern white gentleman here who would love to chat with you and see where it may lead, I'm definitely not arrogant, I never try to pretend I'm somebody I'm not just to impress anyone

I'm not into BDSM but I do believe in genuine connections based on trust and mutual respect, without trust and respect you have nothing,

Something interesting you haven't heard before?, here goes: I have always had a secret admiration for ladies of color since my teenage years but was always too shy and afraid to act on it because of societal norms and racial predacious, I'm old enough now that I don't care what others might think.

AL

 

[LoneMilf]

Isn’t it bad enough that guys posts in the personals outnumber the ladies 10-1, without phantom posters.

It's only been a few days - she could still turn out to be the real thing. Maybe she's just busy answering the barrage of PMs I'm sure she's gotten by now Although I agree, 15 posts in 4 years doesn't exactly bode well...

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Heads up, the OP has a 2023 post that was moved to the Mod Queue in which they were asking people to give funds via CashApp or PayPal. They stated it was for a charitable cause, but you know, pretty odd for their second post here.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

It's only been a few days - she could still turn out to be the real thing. Maybe she's just busy answering the barrage of PMs I'm sure she's gotten by now Although I agree, 15 posts in 4 years doesn't exactly bode well...

Heads up, the OP has a 2023 post that was moved to the Mod Queue in which they were asking people to give funds via CashApp or PayPal. They stated it was for a charitable cause, but you know, pretty odd for their second post here.

And this will deter guys how ???

 

[LoneMilf]

And this will deter guys how ???

Common sense?
Nevermind, doesn't go with erections, I know

 

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

Have you had any luck finding someone yet?

Not yet

 

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

Isn’t it bad enough that guys posts in the personals outnumber the ladies 10-1, without phantom posters.

I don't really understand your post, but after reading some of those comment to it, I guess it's that you don't think that. I'm real, that's cool. As far as me posting here and taking gaps in between, that's because some people enjoy real life. Things not just online, so I've had an extensive relationship offline that took me away, and I journey here when I see fit. Sorry. If that doesn't set well with you or with others here, but deal with it or not. There's plenty of other posts to comment on and share your feelings about

 

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

Heads up, the OP has a 2023 post that was moved to the Mod Queue in which they were asking people to give funds via CashApp or PayPal. They stated it was for a charitable cause, but you know, pretty odd for their second post here.

I'm thinking that maybe this was meant for someone else's post. But if not thanks for the traction

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I'm thinking that maybe this was meant for someone else's post. But if not thanks for the traction

I don’t post if I’m not sure. Your second post here at Lit was seeking funds for a cause no one would be able to verify. Receipt attached.

Incidentally, the email address on the original post didn’t belong to a non-profit.

 

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

I don’t post if I’m not sure. Your second post here at Lit was seeking funds for a cause no one would be able to verify. Receipt attached.

Incidentally, the email address on the original post didn’t belong to a non-profit.

Oh, thanks for checking me and making sure you verify that you're so awesome. And if anyone wants to verify nonprofit, all they have to do is ask me about it. And that wasn't from 2023 as your first post stated , it was 2022. So that's why I didn't see that. But I am glad that you have time in the millions of posts that you're doing to stroll through my message and find it i guess my posting on here from 4 years ago. Really rubbed you the wrong way LOL

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Oh, thanks for checking me and making sure you verify that you're so awesome. And if anyone wants to verify nonprofit, all they have to do is ask me about it. And that wasn't from 2023 as your first post stated , it was 2022. So that's why I didn't see that. But I am glad that you have time in the millions of posts that you're doing to stroll through my message and find it i guess my posting on here from 4 years ago. Really rubbed you the wrong way LOL

Lol, it was from 2023. You joined in 2022. This isn’t a site that allows things like this and it’s super weird to post it when you were brand new. Keep bumping this thread up, though. I like that people will see it.

Incidentally, I moderate this forum and remove a lot of posts from catfish and scammers. It’s actually my responsibility. You aren’t special. Just want to make sure people are aware that you did this highly unusual thing that they can’t see anymore because it was removed by a moderator.

 

[Sweetsoutherndelight]

Lol, it was from 2023. You joined in 2022. This isn’t a site that allows things like this and it’s super weird to post it when you were brand new. Keep bumping this thread up, though. I like that people will see it.

Well, i'm glad that you like that. People will see this. It's pretty entertaining for me. I mean, what exactly are people using this site for but i'm glad that we have people like you to police the sight to keep it safe from everyone. My goodness, my post from those many years ago is the lease of anybody's concerns or worries on this platform

 

[ToPleaseHim]

 

[RDM97756]

I will second that; I appreciate all the hard work you do @ToPleaseHim ! You are a rockstar!