Lessons learned...

[Zamdrist]

about dating relationships and myself...

In no particular order:

Just because a thought is irrational, doesn't mean we don't have them.

Knowing what you don't want is just as important as knowing what you do want.

Men (Most, not all) believe that the more beautiful a woman is, the more we are attracted to a particular woman...the better the sex will be. This of course, is not true. Just because the dessert looks tasty, doesn't mean it will be.

In fact, the few times I've been with a woman who I am highly attracted to...it was somewhat uncomfortable, almost as though I didn't belong 'here' or didn't 'deserve' this. (See my note on irrational thoughts)

No amount of common interests, practicalities can take the place of chemistry.

Thank you. Flame away

 

[alexandraaah]

I was just wondering about you today.

I'd ask how things are, but I think I'll just wait and see for myself.

Unless you want to tell me.

 

[Siren]

 

[perks]

You're right about bondage

 

[Guest]

No flames. I think your insight is painfully true.
*hugs*

 

[Kitte]

Hey Zam man!!!

My therapist says, just because a thought is irrational it doesnt negate its existance.

Long time no see I figured you were out playing with your new starter pistol....you know all the bang none of the bullets?

 

[cybergirly]

I think knowing what you don't want is MORE important than knowing what you want.

 

[Zamdrist]

alexandraaah:

Going well, just been dating, haven't been with anyone for any good length of time. I have a date tomorrow I'm really looking forward to though, everything seems to be in place, except chemistry...which we shall see tomorrow.

Kitte: Too funny! Starter Pistol...lol!

Personally, I think knowing what you DO want and DON'T want are equally important.

There are things, people and personalities 'out there' that we didn't know we wanted or did not want. The only way to find out is to get out there and experience them.

Just my opinions

 

[intrigued]

about dating relationships and myself...

In no particular order:

Just because a thought is irrational, doesn't mean we don't have them.

Knowing what you don't want is just as important as knowing what you do want.

Men (Most, not all) believe that the more beautiful a woman is, the more we are attracted to a particular woman...the better the sex will be. This of course, is not true. Just because the dessert looks tasty, doesn't mean it will be.

In fact, the few times I've been with a woman who I am highly attracted to...it was somewhat uncomfortable, almost as though I didn't belong 'here' or didn't 'deserve' this. (See my note on irrational thoughts)

No amount of common interests, practicalities can take the place of chemistry.

Thank you. Flame away

Ahh...another beauty of a post from Zam. You have been missed.

 

[Zamdrist]

Re: Re: Lessons learned...

Ahh...another beauty of a post from Zam. You have been missed.

There's that lovely gal

 

[intrigued]

Re: Re: Re: Lessons learned...

There's that lovely gal

Thank you Zam, it really is a treat to read a post from you, I have always enjoyed you...you are so very cool.

I will never forget your dance post, you had me tinkling!

 

[Zamdrist]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Lessons learned...

Thank you Zam, it really is a treat to read a post from you, I have always enjoyed you...you are so very cool.

I will never forget your dance post, you had me tinkling!

Thanks I didn't know I made such an impression

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