Less than five

[NickAxel]

How do you make your partner cum in five minutes or less ?

 

[LoneMilf]

If your partner is female: Foreplay + vibrator

If your partner is male: Too many options to list them all

 

[PennyThompson]

If your partner is male: Too many options to list them all

How do you stop him from cumming in five minutes

 

[Bigbobnc]

How do you stop him from cumming in five minutes

Not sure if that’s possible until he gets older, and even then….

 

[Lucien_Al]

My wife can cum in under 5 minutes with clitoral and gspot stimulation and lots of nipple action. We actively avoid doing this as she finds a second orgasm really intense and will sometimes get a real headache from it. These days to combat that we both edge for about an hour before she cums.

 

[Pabiporffor]

I assume you're talking about females here. The question is, really when does sex actually start? Is it at penetration? Physical Foreplay? Mental foreplay? Lets look at it this way. If you've been looking at porn all afternoon and I offer you a BJ how long are you going to last? Probably not as long as you usually would.

It's the same with us girls. If we've been mentally stimulated enough before we do anything physical then we're more likely to orgasm quickly. In short get us aroused before you get your dick out.

 

[jassybb]

I can make my husband ejaculate in way less than 5 minutes haha.

I find it cute when he ejaculates super quickly sometimes, the expression on his face gives me a good chuckle too.

Its not easy for him to give me an orgasm in 5 mins though, i have to be seriously turned on & in the zone mentally for that to happen.

 

[LovelyLadyBits]

How do you make your partner cum in five minutes or less ?

My question is WHY would you want them too ?

 

[Britva415]

How do you make your partner cum in five minutes or less ?

Are you asking this just to hear good stories or are you actually looking for a how-to?

When I have made a partner come in less than five minutes, it wasn't just a five-minute-start-to-finish rush job. It was always preceded by a build-up of anticipation, teasing, knowing looks, verbal promises, chaste-but-suggestive touches, or many other forms of good quality outside-the-bedroom foreplay.

The way to make a woman come in less than five minutes is to make the effort to make her want to come in less than five minutes.

 

[Britva415]

Either that, or, to not start the timer until five minutes before she comes.

 

[SusanHoward]

I most often get my reward in five minutes or less!

 

[ShaneoD]

I can make my husband ejaculate in way less than 5 minutes haha.

I find it cute when he ejaculates super quickly sometimes, the expression on his face gives me a good chuckle too.

Its not easy for him to give me an orgasm in 5 mins though, i have to be seriously turned on & in the zone mentally for that to happen.

The way you say that "make" him, so it's the plan, I can only imagine some of the ways you achieve your goal

 

[Husky_Embrace]

Leave her alone with her toys for 5 minutes.

In all seriousness, it depends on the woman. I had one for whom sex was incredibly private, so having someone there was not helping her get into a good mental state. She enjoyed it still, but orgasms were rare because of her state of mind.

Another had "mini orgasms" every minute or two. It was really weird. She said there was no big difference in experience between the big and the small ones, however good she let the big ones look.

If I try to make a woman come as quick as possible (which is rare), I'll use some simple steps.

1. Get her in the mood.
2. Like, *really* in the mood.
3. Go down on her.
4. Keep interacting with her, so she knows she's the centre of the world.
5. ***Light*** touches of the tongue on the clit. Hold the pattern so she can enjoy it. Switch at times to keep it interesting. Sliding on the sides, rolling over it, just a tip or the whole tongue from top to bottom. Lightness of touch may vary if the clit is deeper/covered. Use what you have.
6. Continue until orgasm. If it doesn't work, do not shy away from other things as an intermezzo or orgasm route. Cuddle, penetration, grab some water for both of you, grab a toy. You name it.

As for myself, all she needs to do is ask. I have a long breath, but after years know some techniques that help me come quick. It isn't necessarily as good. I like that long build up, feeling it all release. But if need be, I can go quick.

A woman rarely has me come quick on her own.

 

[twister947]

I cannot get the image of an egg timer out of my head.

 

[Husky_Embrace]

I cannot get the image of an egg timer out of my head.

Oddly fitting. <Ding!> You're eggs are done. See you in 9 months.

After hearing how men on average come after 2 minutes of penetration we were joking a lot about it, up to the point we set timers to see how long it actually took us. If we say "do you have 2 minutes?" we know what time it is.

 

[Boat1]

How do you stop him from cumming in five minutes

Bring up the topic of his ex wife. That'll wilt a good hardon.

 

[Currentlysingle1]

If your partner is female: Foreplay + vibrator

If your partner is male: Too many options to list them all

For the female if the male is attentive to all body parts that I think is better for female in my perspective, men do your job

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Sometimes, (especially if she’s turned on enough to beg), I like to give her a quick, small o to prime the pump ( so to speak) for many more. But I also love teasing and denial leading to a Monster O too…..

My question is WHY would you want them too ?

 

[DarkestParts]

My wife can cum in under 5 minutes with clitoral and gspot stimulation and lots of nipple action. We actively avoid doing this as she finds a second orgasm really intense and will sometimes get a real headache from it. These days to combat that we both edge for about an hour before she cums.

I'm not the only woman who sometimes gets a headache from orgasm? For me it thankfully only happens if I space my orgasms too close together. I thought it had to be just me. If I don't try to go too hard and fast I can still get in several good "o"s.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I'm not the only woman who sometimes gets a headache from orgasm? For me it thankfully only happens if I space my orgasms too close together. I thought it had to be just me. If I don't try to go too hard and fast I can still get in several good "o"s.

We had not factored the time between them into this. Thanks for the suggestion, will try and space them out. How long do you typically wait without the dreaded headache?

 

[DarkestParts]

We had not factored the time between them into this. Thanks for the suggestion, will try and space them out. How long do you typically wait without the dreaded headache?

I don't have to wait long really I just have to not force it or rush. Maybe a couple minutes of rest to bring my heart rate down a bit? I'm guessing it's linked to blood pressure given the way my headache feels. I figured that out when a play partner wanted me to keep pushing myself after I had come and wanted a break. Don't get me wrong, I was plenty willing to continue and was going hard and fast with my toys. The second orgasm, or maybe it was third, was great but then my head started pounding and I realized there was a tolerance level there that I had reached. I think a big part of it for me was that I was forcing myself instead of listening to my body the way I usually do. If I take cues from my body and just let it happen the way it wants to, I'm good. I love the marathon sessions. Several "o"s in a row are the best! Sometimes the second one is the best. Other times it's the fifth. It all just depends on the playtime

 

[NickAxel]

I don't have to wait long really I just have to not force it or rush. Maybe a couple minutes of rest to bring my heart rate down a bit? I'm guessing it's linked to blood pressure given the way my headache feels. I figured that out when a play partner wanted me to keep pushing myself after I had come and wanted a break. Don't get me wrong, I was plenty willing to continue and was going hard and fast with my toys. The second orgasm, or maybe it was third, was great but then my head started pounding and I realized there was a tolerance level there that I had reached. I think a big part of it for me was that I was forcing myself instead of listening to my body the way I usually do. If I take cues from my body and just let it happen the way it wants to, I'm good. I love the marathon sessions. Several "o"s in a row are the best! Sometimes the second one is the best. Other times it's the fifth. It all just depends on the playtime

I like the use of ‘Play Partner’ to describe a lover.

 

[jbird4]

Ask Muddy Waters.