Lesbian/Bi/Gay Domme/sub

[MsWorthy]

Lesbian/Bi/Gay Dom/me/sub

I thought about making a thread for the alternative-alternative sexual lifestyles (*smiles*), but I didn't want to exclude anyone, so....everyone is welcome to post on any topic dealing with ANY interest/curiosity/desire in same sex bdsm.

Is this too exclusionary?

 

[DustyWolfe]

*grins* Cool!

Well, I guess Jen and I are a bit unusual. It's not often you see a soft butch as a submissive to a female Domme

 

[MsWorthy]

*grins* Cool!

Well, I guess Jen and I are a bit unusual. It's not often you see a soft butch as a submissive to a female Domme

I am quite attracted to butch/soft butch, Dusty, so in my experience, it isn't too unusual. My partner is soft butch.

Welcome to the thread. I hope you will contribute when someone has a question.

*smiles*

 

[MzChrista]

Cool beans. This place got more lesbos than the El Vez fan Club

 

[MzChrista]

*grins* Cool!

Well, I guess Jen and I are a bit unusual. It's not often you see a soft butch as a submissive to a female Domme

Its all good. Anyone got eyeballs can see you two got it going on.

 

[MsWorthy]

Welcome, MzC. I know you will be able to help many with any questions they may have. I am glad you are here.

 

[MzChrista]

Welcome, MzC. I know you will be able to help many with any questions they may have. I am glad you are here.

Thanks MsW I think this was a great idea.

 

[JenJ]

*grins* Cool!

Well, I guess Jen and I are a bit unusual. It's not often you see a soft butch as a submissive to a female Domme

Nice thread.

Thank you both for yes we are well suited to each other.

 

[James Blandings]

I will be more than happy to be the token bi male in this crowd!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Bi Domme checking in!

 

[Never]

Re: Lesbian/Bi/Gay Dom/me/sub

MsWorthy:
"Is this too exclusionary?"

Not if you make an exception for me.

 

[RisiaSkye]

If I declare myself Bi Switch, are you gonna throw tomatoes?

Stones?

What if I haven't really had a significant intimate relationship with a woman in ages, my last girlfriend broke my heart and ran away, and my current object of lust is rejecting me for a butch I can't stand? Am I still allowed in the treehouse?

*sigh* I probably should have avoided this thread. It's just depressing me. Not to worry, happy facade back in place toute suite!

 

[Never]

I'll throw tomatos. You know I'm into that.

 

[Shadowsdream]

RisiaSkye

Nope, no tomato throwing...just a little scrutinization as I look at you and say to myself...who in the world would be idiotic enough to break your heart? Or run away? Silly them!

 

[Never]

Ditto that.

I'll even find someone else to toss a tomato at. Just because I like you.

 

[Rick DeVille]

Life decisions are personal.

Be careful who you share with, otherwise you get the juicy red fruit



(Or worse)

 

[Shadowsdream]

(Nope, no tomato throwing...just a little scrutinization as I look at you and say to myself...who in the world would be idiotic enough to break your heart? Or run away? Silly them!)

Not asking for personal information...My way of speaking may make those who wish to read more into it than there is see what is not there.

Hopefully it is not being read that I have any real desire for the details that in no way impact My life nor do I share more than what is comfortable with Myself and the ones who kneel for Me have decided WE wish to share.

Generalities cannot be escaped or there would be nothing to contribute or to learn from each other.

 

["angel" eve]

enter the bi switch

greetings to all.

bi switch of the female gender (too bad i can't sit on the fence about that one as well ^_~ )
only 9 about 9 months real time experience but i'll help where i can.

 

[cellis]

If I declare myself Bi Switch, are you gonna throw tomatoes?

Stones?

What if I haven't really had a significant intimate relationship with a woman in ages, my last girlfriend broke my heart and ran away, and my current object of lust is rejecting me for a butch I can't stand? Am I still allowed in the treehouse?

*sigh* I probably should have avoided this thread. It's just depressing me. Not to worry, happy facade back in place toute suite!

Bi Switch here as well...

Although my current (I don't seem to know what to call her) seems to have a bad case of cold feet... I am hopeful..

I wonder does this put me in the tomatoes and stones catagory?

I certainly hope not, I would really like to play in the treehouse.

 

[CarolineOh]

Well, now that we have assembled this wonderful group, perhaps some questions would be in order.
What, if any thing, makes the bdsm practiced between women or between gay men different from what heteros do? Are there some practices or customs that are more or less prevalent? Are there bdsm rituals that are uniquely gay or lesbian in nature?

 

[petrel]

Bi Switch - but does it ocunt if I always play sub in my curent relationship and my last relationship with a woman was over 3 years ago?

I don't do butch or femme - I guess i sit on the fence with this one too!

 

[MsWorthy]

Well, now that we have assembled this wonderful group, perhaps some questions would be in order.
What, if any thing, makes the bdsm practiced between women or between gay men different from what heteros do? Are there some practices or customs that are more or less prevalent? Are there bdsm rituals that are uniquely gay or lesbian in nature?

I do not use any rituals in our relationship. Having a child in the home prevents most outward/obvious displays of our power exchange.

Other than the obvious obsession with oral sex in hetero relationships, I am not aware of any overt differences.

*smiles*

 

[DustyWolfe]

Its all good. Anyone got eyeballs can see you two got it going on.

*giggles and blushes* Thank you

 

[DustyWolfe]

I am quite attracted to butch/soft butch, Dusty, so in my experience, it isn't too unusual. My partner is soft butch.

Welcome to the thread. I hope you will contribute when someone has a question.

*smiles*

Very very cool

Of course I will contribute

 

[DustyWolfe]

Well, now that we have assembled this wonderful group, perhaps some questions would be in order.
What, if any thing, makes the bdsm practiced between women or between gay men different from what heteros do? Are there some practices or customs that are more or less prevalent? Are there bdsm rituals that are uniquely gay or lesbian in nature?

Things really aren't that different, except maybe the use of a strapon which I wouldn't think would be very commone with a Male Domme/female sub.. Though quite prevalent when the roles are reversed.

One thing I have noticed coming from the straight community is the way that Daddi's are viewed. It seems that they are viewed as being much more sadistic. Which in most cases are true. Why are lesbian Daddy's like that? I have no idea.

Hmmm.. thinking... I can't think of anything uncommon in mine and Jen's relationship. Though in some cases, I feel that a woman is much more sensual with another woman than a man towards a woman or vice versa in this sort of play. There's a lot more physical contact from what I have noticed. I could be wrong though.