Les wanting to experience being Bi...any guys interseted in helping

[Amy1122]

Looking and reading about all these BI individuals makes me want to experience it at least once. I have never been with a guy. I am 27...where do I start???

 

[foxdie54]

depends on the context. do you want a guy for yourself or do you want to bring in a guy for you and your lady friend?

 

[Amy1122]

I think I would like to be with a guy but now that I have decided I feel scared. I just want to try it once. I am not sure how to tell a guy what I need

 

[Elengil]

Would it make it easier if the "guy" was a transgendered girl?

There would likely be less adjustment, granted some of us are less than interested in using those parts... But none of that scruffy hair, on the face or body, and often a bit of breast development. So kind of more of a middle ground it that would help any...

 

[Amy1122]

I am not sure. I think I should approach a guy I know and who knows I am a les, he might understand and not take advantage off me

 

[pretender51]

I should think telling a guy what you need isn't much different than telling another girl. Granted, some of the parts of different and would come into play, but the basics remain the same. Touch, smell, taste. The trickiest part, I should think, would be finding a man you can trust. One who's actually gonna listen to you and time the time to do what's right by you. Other than that, I assume you know how you like to be touched and what drives you sexually. It's simply trusting enough to communicate it.

 

[Amy1122]

You are right. Problem is that the one person person I trust completely is my Uncle A. He's about 41 and married to my dad's sister. They have 2 kids. I confide in him a lot and he never judges me and is always objective

 

[pretender51]

If I might make a suggestion. Are there any males you're comfortable and friendly with here on Lit? If so, I might suggest a virtual session. Perhaps something to help you warm and loosen to the idea of being with a man. You might be able to get some sense on how to act and how to interact in a virtual environment. I think perhaps writing down your thoughts in an interactive way might help you. Plus, it's a relatively safe medium. You can't be physically wounded. You can learn what a man likes and how a man might react to you.

 

[Amy1122]

Unfortunatley I don't...can I ask you to please find me someone and ask them to pm me...pleeeze

 

[pretender51]

If I knew someone, I certainly would. My circle of friends isn't exactly solid. And simply posting a "Help wanted" thread would probably bring you all the people you wouldn't want helping you. I would offer, but hey, I'm probably a dirty perv that can't be trusted.

 

[dr_nick1978]

I think I would like to be with a guy but now that I have decided I feel scared. I just want to try it once. I am not sure how to tell a guy what I need

I guess what you should do depends on what you need. If you just want the physical side of things I can't imagine it would be too hard for you to pick up a guy in a bar or club?

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[ElykMan22]

Unfortunatley I don't...can I ask you to please find me someone and ask them to pm me...pleeeze

If you would like, I have been told by many women I am gifted at virtual sex chatting... We could chat and get to know each other first, to make each other comfortable.

 

[SallyIsHere]

hmm

What's wrong with being a lesbian? If you don't really want to be with a man, it wont work very well.