Bi Man interested in a Trans woman for LTR.

[Tobefreeisbliss]

I have come to the conclusion that I enjoy sex with a man, more than a woman. However I don’t feel emotionally connected with men, as I do with women. This is not a fantasy for me, but I want to take this idea, and explore it. I am not out if you will, nor do I ever want to be either.

I have been reading stories here, even published the beginning of my life long bisexuality. I tried the swinger lifestyle with a former female partner, and though we had so much fun it ended badly. Meeting women for me is fairly easy, I am not hard on the eyes, and I am well mannered. But my integrity, and honesty are challenged when in a relationship. How can I give 100% of myself to her, without revealing my sexual attractions? My last relationship, and partner constantly saying I was hiding something. But she was also LGBQTIA+ bigoted. I was hiding something, something she would never understand, or accept.

So here I am, a mature bisexual man, and an invisible one also. I would like to have a conversation with a Trans Woman, and explore the possibility of an LTR where we live as man, and woman. Invisibly if possible. To the world around us we appear as a loving couple, connected, and achieving goals. I have an adventurous character both in life, and sexually. Outdoorsman, camper, Jeep enthusiast, community minded, and kind.

Is there a trans woman out there seeking a loving LTR, living her life as a woman invisibly, and craves a loving relationship? I am looking forward to chatting, forming the desire to meet, and connect hearts with her. There is far to much hatred in our world, we see it daily without looking for it, and I want nothing more than to live a good life with her. Does staying invisible attract you beautiful, let’s chat. Thanks ( Note; I live in Canada, and preference is a Canadian Trans Woman).

 

[Suzyheels]

Canada is a big country. I live on the East coast of USA

 

[womaneater58]

I'm in Wisconsin and would be very interested in meeting a trans woman.

 

[Suzyheels]

I find it difficult meeting a man for anything long term. Fantasy fiction and photoshop have created a false image of life. Most guys are on the DL and/or already in a relationship that they are not going to leave.

It seems like every person who states they want a relationship expects everything to meet some fantasy idealized expectation. Instead just like most relationships, this is a journey not a gift wrapped perfect package.

Unlike many other relationships, being trans brings challenges that many partners don’t usually consider.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I find it difficult meeting a man for anything long term. Fantasy fiction and photoshop have created a false image of life. Most guys are on the DL and/or already in a relationship that they are not going to leave.

It seems like every person who states they want a relationship expects everything to meet some fantasy idealized expectation. Instead just like most relationships, this is a journey not a gift wrapped perfect package.

Unlike many other relationships, being trans brings challenges that many partners don’t usually consider.

Absolutely true, most men or even women don't consider trans women's feelings.

However, trans women and TVs are equally guilty, I've had so many of them ghost me when I wanted to meet or just stop chatting to me altogether.

 

[Suzyheels]

It is an inverted logic tree. Instead of advertising what a person offers on dating site, it is all about “I want ….”

I have better success listing the items I feel the person I am searching for will find important.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It is an inverted logic tree. Instead of advertising what a person offers on dating site, it is all about “I want ….”

I have better success listing the items I feel the person I am searching for will find important.

To be fair everyone thinks about what they want, even the ones who say everyone thinks about what they want. I've been guilty of this all the time even when I role play or look for partners and lovers. I do try to be good at submissive to what a dominant wants, but I usually do it only when they're the fantasies I want too. I know it's a bit selfish and I'm topping from the bottom, but that's how a lot of Dom/mes behave too. So many of them have pushed their wants without any love or understanding on everyone else.