Leaving Lit

[tn_8tiv]

I'm not so presumptious to believe that anyone cares, but I'm leaving Lit. Too many heartaches here so I think it's time to move on. I have really enjoyed my time on Lit and have made some good friends. I will miss those of you who have been my friends.

Hope everyone has a great time in the future.

Goodbye and good luck.

 

[Jewelz]

TN!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry to hear this news. Maybe some time away is just what you need. But please consider a return. You are a fun guy! Heartaches are no fun and I am sorry that you have experienced them. I know all too well what you are going through...BUT believe me, it does get better. I met my love here.

And for the record...some of us do care!! *hugs* and iffn ya need to talk , friend, you know how to reach me. I wish you nothing but happiness!

 

[hatara]

Awe tn I am going to miss you and I am sorry that you have been hurt. I hate to see you leave though. I would love to talk to you. I have all the major chat programs. Pm me if you like and I will give you my name for whatever chat program you have.

 

[knightstalker]

Take a break but don't leave ..I have had my share of heart aches here as well and I have learned that i make a much better friend than an online love so I tend to just be friendly now and leave it at that and it seems to work for me..Although with all the lovley ladies at lit it is hard to not fall for some of them ..

 

[Angelofsex]

Oh sweetheart, please don't leave............Iam sure going to miss you..........So sad I am...........Yes do what kS said just take a break.......but don't leave.

 

[wildrose70]

althou I have never had the pleasure of meeting you...it always makes me sad to see people leave.....I agree...maybe some time away would help....I came close to leaving a few times myself....but now I'm glad I didnt....please re-consider

 

[prettygrneyes]

I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!I do care!!!!
hey Tn???what's wrong babe???
awww I am so sad to see you leave,even know we have not talked in a long tyme,I been looking for you and asking about you,I hope you come back soon.Please if you want to talk ,please PM me ok...or IM me ok...take care and if you do decide to leave , please take good care of yourself and know that you will be missed.hurry back!!!
Love ya!
~PGE~

 

[1sexylady]

I'm not so presumptious to believe that anyone cares, but I'm leaving Lit. Too many heartaches here so I think it's time to move on. I have really enjoyed my time on Lit and have made some good friends. I will miss those of you who have been my friends.

Hope everyone has a great time in the future.

Goodbye and good luck.

Awwww tn_8tiv...Please don't go...we all love you here....You would create a big hole in the Lit family...

 

[artful]

I'm not so presumptious to believe that anyone cares, but I'm leaving Lit. Too many heartaches here so I think it's time to move on. I have really enjoyed my time on Lit and have made some good friends. I will miss those of you who have been my friends.

Hope everyone has a great time in the future.

Goodbye and good luck.

tn,...Being 58 years old,...I DO have some experience dealing with heartache. There is NO known cure for it,...EXCEPT time. ALL the best friends in the world,...don't make it EASIER to deal with,...or hurt LESS. Only TIME can do it !!! But *FRIENDS* can give you the NEEDED strength and support to try again, and again, and again, and again, and again. Till finally,...you WILL find one who is RIGHT for you. It has taken me over 20 years to find MY Dream,...don't give up and run away,...expose yourself,...feel the pain,...cry,(I have), believe me,...it's ALL worth it. Yeah,...I don't know you,...but I know how bad it can hurt,...many of us do. Hang in there,...and I don't mean to offend ANYONE,...but don't take a break,...now is the time for courage,...step back up to the plate and take another swing,...hell the next pitch might be HIT for a *home Run* !!!

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Re: Leaving Lit

tn,...Being 58 years old,...I DO have some experience dealing with heartache. There is NO known cure for it,...EXCEPT time. ALL the best friends in the world,...don't make it EASIER to deal with,...or hurt LESS. Only TIME can do it !!! But *FRIENDS* can give you the NEEDED strength and support to try again, and again, and again, and again, and again. Till finally,...you WILL find one who is RIGHT for you. It has taken me over 20 years to find MY Dream,...don't give up and run away,...expose yourself,...feel the pain,...cry,(I have), believe me,...it's ALL worth it. Yeah,...I don't know you,...but I know how bad it can hurt,...many of us do. Hang in there,...and I don't mean to offend ANYONE,...but don't take a break,...now is the time for courage,...step back up to the plate and take another swing,...hell the next pitch might be HIT for a *home Run* !!!

Artful....I have tears in my eyes reading this and your a sweetheart...

He is right so read it and then read it again...

 

[tigerjen]

tn....please don't leave!

Please don't leave me or the gang at the Love Cafe!!!
Who am I going to look forward to serving a cup of
coffee or a Grey Goose martini to? I think that you are
one of the sweetest people here that I've met on Lit,
and maybe some time off would do you good.......but
please please come back.......you know that I will miss
you lots.....*cry*

oh yea.....who's gonna call me "babydoll" like you do?

and es

tigerjen

 

[lilrosie lips]

Tn... I don't want you to go either.... but if you must ... please remember that you are loved.... and I will welcome you back with a full heart and warm arms if you choose to come back....

{{{{hugs}}}} and many 's

 

[Ladybird]

Tn we don't know each other well, but I have read your posts.. you have something very positive to contribute to this site. It would be a great loss for all of us if you were to leave.

I know the pain of heartache too, and like knightstalker, I now choose to have friendships only online.

Reconsider hon, you have many friends here, and when you are hurting, it's friends that you need.

Sharon x

 

[MissTaken]

tn_8tiv

You will be sorely missed. If after some tme, you decide to come back, you will be welcomed with open arms.

And if returning to lit isn't an option, come see dear ole' Miss T. I will welcome you with open arms.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Re: Leaving Lit

tn,...Being 58 years old,...I DO have some experience dealing with heartache. There is NO known cure for it,...EXCEPT time. ALL the best friends in the world,...don't make it EASIER to deal with,...or hurt LESS. Only TIME can do it !!! But *FRIENDS* can give you the NEEDED strength and support to try again, and again, and again, and again, and again. Till finally,...you WILL find one who is RIGHT for you. It has taken me over 20 years to find MY Dream,...don't give up and run away,...expose yourself,...feel the pain,...cry,(I have), believe me,...it's ALL worth it. Yeah,...I don't know you,...but I know how bad it can hurt,...many of us do. Hang in there,...and I don't mean to offend ANYONE,...but don't take a break,...now is the time for courage,...step back up to the plate and take another swing,...hell the next pitch might be HIT for a *home Run* !!!

You hit it on the head.......the heart bleeds until it heals and the pain goes away.........you never forget but it does get better.....I have been hurt a few times by people I care for here and online I met..........that is why, I really hate to open my heart and let them in..........because it is very painful..........but just know we love and care about you.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Leaving Lit

You hit it on the head.......the heart bleeds until it heals and the pain goes away.........you never forget but it does get better.....I have been hurt a few times by people I care for here and online I met..........that is why, I really hate to open my heart and let them in..........because it is very painful..........but just know we love and care about you.

Yes, I have had similar experiences. I would love to say that it gets easier. IT doesn't. I am told that I have built certain walls that need to come down.

Who knows? But pain is what tells us we are alive and loving. I have frequently advised on other serious threads that the only way to deal with hurt and pain is to embrace it, nurture it and grow with it.

I am sorry you have to go through this, tn_8tiv. And hope you can reconsider. We will miss you!

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

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[RavenStorm]

TN hon. Don't go. I will miss you greatly. I loved reading your posts and talking to you. You are such a sweetheart and will be greatly missed.

 

[Ram Unreal]

Goodbye and good luck. Dreams are with you.
xxxx

 

[~Dream~]

I feel the Love here TN_8Tiv

and it's all for you sweety!! please come visit at Jewelz or the midwesterners thread,we will welcome you with open arms sweety,honest!1 Imet the love of my life here at Lit,Artful..How awesome is that?? huh? Please stay babe.I'll be your friend.. I'm a darn good one too

 

[peppermint_barbi]

I will miss you soooo much baby

Sweetheart-
You know I luv ya...and I will miss you so much but I do understand and you know how to get a hold of me whenever you need me...I always here for ya.......You do what you need to and you know I will be there to help you through it....You have been the sweetest, kindest and one of the most caring people that I have met.....

Sorry, took so long to find this...been gone a couple of days....but I am here for ya 24/7...you know that baby.

Luv ya hon....

 

[tn_8tiv]

I'm overwhelmed by the love and kindness you have all shown. I guess I was being too impulsive. For the special someone in my life, I love you darling. I'm back.

 

[tigerjen]

I'm overwhelmed by the love and kindness you have all shown. I guess I was being too impulsive. For the special someone in my life, I love you darling. I'm back.

tn.......you are back for real, lovey???

x infinite!!!



tigerjen

 

[MissTaken]

I'm overwhelmed by the love and kindness you have all shown. I guess I was being too impulsive. For the special someone in my life, I love you darling. I'm back.

Great news!


Many hugs and kisses and tender loving moments to you!


She is a lucky lady.

 

[tigerjen]

Oohhhh tn!!

A nice cup of coffee is waiting for you at the Love Cafe....
w/ some of your favorite "sweet cream n' sugar"