Leashes

[Shadowsdream]

It would interest Me to hear about emotions and experiences derived from the use of leashing in play or rituals.

My toy brings his leash to Me each morning before he makes the coffee. The sound of it clicking on his collar takes him immediately into the zone he craves. One firm tug to confirm My ownership brings the first whimper of the morning.

 

[artful]

It would interest Me to hear about emotions and experiences derived from the use of leashing in play or rituals.

My toy brings his leash to Me each morning before he makes the coffee. The sound of it clicking on his collar takes him immediately into the zone he craves. One firm tug to confirm My ownership brings the first whimper of the morning.

Though I purchased a leash,...JUST for Dream,...I have not as of yet used it. I have never used one on a sub before,...but when the *MOMENT* is right,...I will! *chuckle*

 

[Shadowsdream]

Art

If You ever go to a BDSM event with two subs leashed it can be a wonderful moment dancing with both of them at the same time..pulling one at a time to you...and twirling under their leashes...I have cleared many dance floors with the Dom/sub tango!

 

[artful]

Shadows

I love the pic in your new Av,...do you STILL have her? (or is that a him?)

 

[WillowPuss]

I have a black leather leash.

Its purpose is thus two fold ... to lead me , and, if necessary, it can be unclipped, doubled over and used as a belt.

Because of circumstances, it has only been used at play time so far.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Art

That is a him...I think it is the hair that could fool one into thinking he is a her...I only allow a trim of the hair twice a year.

There will be a her as well eventually.

Willow

I am certain when your day comes to be able to live more openly at home your heaven will increase ten fold.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Leashing is used as part of the ritual of my boy entering my apartment. he removes his clothing, and assumes the kneeling position, and I put on his collar and leash, which I keep for him.

It seems his whole demeanor changes when the collar and leash are in place.

Ebony

 

[Ebonyfire]

Leashing is used as part of the ritual of my boy entering my apartment. he removes his clothing, and assumes the kneeling position, and I put on his collar and leash, which I keep for him.

It seems his whole demeanor changes when the collar and leash are in place.

Ebony

which reminds me I need one for bitch boy now. LOL

A Domme's work is never done.

Eb

 

["angel" eve]

but what's in the mind?

i've enjoyed the fantasy of a collar and leash for nearly a year, and finally had the chance to experince it recently. i enjoyed it immensely, it causes me to forget about being dom, forget being me, and i become submissive to my mistress. it is so simple, and so intense mentaly.

however, i mentioned being on a leash as part of a fantasy story i wrote one day to a former boyfriend, one lazy afternoon. the idea of having me on a leash was compltely repulsive to him. he didn't like the idea. didn't want to consider it. didn't want to even talk about it in the context of a fantasy desire of mine. his complete distain of the idea of a leash amazed me. frustrated me too of course, but i still haven't really figured out what the mental implications might have been to him.

i had my girl "leashed" or the essence of leashed, as i was making her a rope dress. i played for awhile with the rope that held her in my control. and i enjoyed it. truly enjoyed it.

i know that not everyone is into the same things, but do any doms or subs have any feelings about the mental asspects of leashes? or what there experiences have been?

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: but what's in the mind?

i've enjoyed the fantasy of a collar and leash for nearly a year, and finally had the chance to experince it recently. i enjoyed it immensely, it causes me to forget about being dom, forget being me, and i become submissive to my mistress. it is so simple, and so intense mentaly.

however, i mentioned being on a leash as part of a fantasy story i wrote one day to a former boyfriend, one lazy afternoon. the idea of having me on a leash was compltely repulsive to him. he didn't like the idea. didn't want to consider it. didn't want to even talk about it in the context of a fantasy desire of mine. his complete distain of the idea of a leash amazed me. frustrated me too of course, but i still haven't really figured out what the mental implications might have been to him.

i had my girl "leashed" or the essence of leashed, as i was making her a rope dress. i played for awhile with the rope that held her in my control. and i enjoyed it. truly enjoyed it.

i know that not everyone is into the same things, but do any doms or subs have any feelings about the mental asspects of leashes? or what there experiences have been?

As you have seen both Ebony and I use leashes..both of Us use them to enhance the experience for the submissives that We train.
When I pick up the leash I hold the subs eyes until they drop self consciously. I remain quite while I allow their desire for that added control to take place. Just moments but it feels like a lifetime. I lift the head with My finger in the ring at the front of the training collar. My eyes locked with theirs as the leash and ring become as one.
The sound is like thunder as I release the snap, a firm tug confirms My added control. It is a magic moment that intensifies the experience for both the submissive and Myself.

 

[Trainerman]

wait for the update

My pet will wear a leash some of the time when she visits soon. She already has a collar and being held in place by a leash or rope to it is something that has been experienced.

From my point of view, I find it an extremely potent and erotic visual( and I love good visually appealing pictures as part of a scene)...good to look at and to emphasise my control and the gift of her submission. You would have to ask her how it feels...but if she sees this thread I am sure she will contribute.

When she visits she will be wearing a leash some of the time whilst outdoors...but I am a very private person, so this will be done selectively.

I am quite willing to give you an update then......<<<< wink>>>

Dave

 

[Daddyslilpet]

A leash is something that we have not actively brought into our time. However, the other night He used several of our restraints together to lead me around by. I was blindfolded and being led by just this "leash" was a very interesting experience. I would have to say that yes it would most likely put me in sub mode quickly.

I also think that the verbal "leash" is a very effective tool. One word from Master and I feel the same feelings.

just a thought.
dixi

 

["angel" eve]

thank you for the responses. i'm looking forward to more though, and more details.... not to mention any names, sir-to-k, sorry it slipped.

the poetic response you gave is beautiful Shadowsdream. i have a fantasy much like that in my own mind.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: wait for the update

My pet will wear a leash some of the time when she visits soon. She already has a collar and being held in place by a leash or rope to it is something that has been experienced.

From my point of view, I find it an extremely potent and erotic visual( and I love good visually appealing pictures as part of a scene)...good to look at and to emphasise my control and the gift of her submission. You would have to ask her how it feels...but if she sees this thread I am sure she will contribute.

When she visits she will be wearing a leash some of the time whilst outdoors...but I am a very private person, so this will be done selectively.

I am quite willing to give you an update then......<<<< wink>>>

Dave

Thank You for participating in this conversation Dave...and I look forward for the update!
Agreed that the visual is a very potent erotic essense of Domination over submission. Not only the symbolic acceptance of the gift or the presentation of it. But the tangible length of control going from Your hand to the collar!
Another view.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Re: wait for the update

From my point of view, I find it an extremely potent and erotic visual( and I love good visually appealing pictures as part of a scene)...good to look at and to emphasise my control and the gift of her submission. You would have to ask her how it feels...but if she sees this thread I am sure she will contribute.
Dave

Ahhh, How well You know me Sir!
Yes, I love it when My-Sir tells me to place HIS collar around my neck. When I am collared,I know that I belong to HIM.
Each time I move my head I feel it, a constant reminder of my submission to HIM. Adding a leash to that intensifies the sensation. At this point, the reality that I am HIS toy, to use as HE pleases really comes home. I am now prepared to leave myself behind and please HIM in every way HE desires. Granted that the collar and leash aren't really necessary for me to submit fully, but they do enhance the scene. Although, I admit if MY-Sir would allow it I'd wear HIS collar 24/7! LOL Can't get enough of submitting to HIM.
And in reply to Shadow's Dream, I also find this a great start to the day. I'm looking forward to October when I can bring MY-Sir HIS coffee,my collar, and leash to HIM each morning. HMMM, nice thoughts of future days!

-kym-

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: but what's in the mind?

As you have seen both Ebony and I use leashes..both of Us use them to enhance the experience for the submissives that We train.
When I pick up the leash I hold the subs eyes until they drop self consciously. I remain quite while I allow their desire for that added control to take place. Just moments but it feels like a lifetime. I lift the head with My finger in the ring at the front of the training collar. My eyes locked with theirs as the leash and ring become as one.
The sound is like thunder as I release the snap, a firm tug confirms My added control. It is a magic moment that intensifies the experience for both the submissive and Myself.

I often find that when tormenting sissy, I will somehow always find the time to rein him in by his leash and put my face close to his and allow him to look me in the eye. It is a very sensual moment.

Eb

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: wait for the update

Ahhh, How well You know me Sir!
Yes, I love it when My-Sir tells me to place HIS collar around my neck. When I am collared,I know that I belong to HIM.
Each time I move my head I feel it, a constant reminder of my submission to HIM. Adding a leash to that intensifies the sensation. At this point, the reality that I am HIS toy, to use as HE pleases really comes home. I am now prepared to leave myself behind and please HIM in every way HE desires. Granted that the collar and leash aren't really necessary for me to submit fully, but they do enhance the scene. Although, I admit if MY-Sir would allow it I'd wear HIS collar 24/7! LOL Can't get enough of submitting to HIM.
And in reply to Shadow's Dream, I also find this a great start to the day. I'm looking forward to October when I can bring MY-Sir HIS coffee,my collar, and leash to HIM each morning. HMMM, nice thoughts of future days!

I can see why your Master is very proud of you. How obvious you make it that He alone without bondage, holds you in the palm of His hand.
Thank you for explaining your emotions around the collar and leashing and I for one look forward to hearing both sides of the next adventure so beautifully shared.
There is just something about the nickname that you use that always feeds Me joy. By the way ~~~grin~~

-kym-

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Shadow's Dream, MY-Sir is more than my Dom. HE is my best friend as well. I can communicate with HIM as I have never been able to communicate with anyone before. I know that my well being is important to HIM and HE only wants what is best for me. Because of HIM, I am able to express desires that I have kept locked inside for years.
I trust HIM with my life, and joyfully submit to HIM.

-kym-

 

[MissTaken]

The cool leather being placed against the heat of my neck does transport me to never land in a hurry. Add the leash and a gentle tug and I ready to do his bidding.

Before actually doing this, I found it to be repulsive. Ahhh the things we learn as we grow!

 

[Shadowsdream]

The cool leather being placed against the heat of my neck does transport me to never land in a hurry. Add the leash and a gentle tug and I ready to do his bidding.

Before actually doing this, I found it to be repulsive. Ahhh the things we learn as we grow!

One of the reasons soft limits change over time is that the fantasy of how one might feel seldom lives up to the reality.

Thank you for adding to the conversation so delightfully MissT

 

[Shadowsdream]

Shadow's Dream, MY-Sir is more than my Dom. HE is my best friend as well. I can communicate with HIM as I have never been able to communicate with anyone before. I know that my well being is important to HIM and HE only wants what is best for me. Because of HIM, I am able to express desires that I have kept locked inside for years.
I trust HIM with my life, and joyfully submit to HIM.

-kym-

I definately see the mutual respect and devotion in this relationship. It is with a ~~smile~~~that I watch the interaction of emotions that palpatate between Y/you. It is a wonderful delight that you share with U/us.

 

[spankableBelle]

It would interest Me to hear about emotions and experiences derived from the use of leashing in play or rituals.

My toy brings his leash to Me each morning before he makes the coffee. The sound of it clicking on his collar takes him immediately into the zone he craves. One firm tug to confirm My ownership brings the first whimper of the morning.

i do not have anything to add to this conversation in terms of actual experience...yet

When i first began learning and venturing into the nature of my submission and D/s in general, i had many limits...one being a leash...no way was i ever going to feel submissive enough to allow someone to lead me around by one...i saw it as humiliation, degradation...and the few Doms that i have encountered in the past had never inspired me to look at it differently or to that level of submission...

i can say though, my recent experiences in getting to know Soron have changed some of my thoughts and feelings and previously held opinions of my submission...and what were once only desires and wants have truly become needs, simply because before they were never within my realm of 'grasp'ability...but

With that being said, and the encouraging nature of this journey of discovery with Him, my perception of humiliation and degradation of leashes has changed and should a collar ever wrap around my neck, i will welcome with humble pride a leash attached, for the other end rests in HIS hand...

 

[Trainerman]

Re: Re: Leashes

Originally posted by spankableBelle

......... my perception of humiliation and degradation of leashes has changed and should a collar ever wrap around my neck, i will welcome with humble pride a leash attached, for the other end rests in HIS hand...

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Ah yes...isn't that it 'in a nutshell'?. It is the hand that holds the leash that matters.




Dave

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Leashes

Ah yes...isn't that it 'in a nutshell'?. It is the hand that holds the leash that matters.




Dave

Yes, Dave, it is...~smile~

 

[Skitten]

leashing

MASTER WIZARD, and I have just started using our leash. And when he tells me to get naked and lie with him and clips the leash on I know then, that we are going to play hard in our new dungeon and that MASTER is in total control and I love that feeling.