Learn Role play

[lovemomboops]

i tried role play chat for few times..but i lack some thing so the chats ended short....need to learn the trick for extended chats

 

[Jada59]

I'm with you. I can't do it.

 

[davion2308]

It's like anything else

It takes practice. There is a level of goofiness or silliness that you're doing something very few of us ever did.

Sure, some Lit folks were in drama in high school but for the most part, we're generally a certain kind of person and that's comfortable. Moving outside of that, sexually-charged or not, can be uncomfortable.

Play it out. Keep practicing. Learn the part, create a person and BE that person. it's like the Sims but in real life but not really.

I can do it even though I don't love it all that much. I can put on a mask and be a different person to create some interest or some novelty.

You can too!

 

[ElizaBennet33]

Role Playing

I didn't know I could RP until someone wrote to me, pretending to be a character in a fake story and I just put myself in the story as another character and wrote back. His response was "You can RP!" and I thought to myself "I can? Is this what RP'ing means?" Lol

This went back and forth for a few days and I found it so much fun. Since then, we've done countless RPs together and I realised that I had found someone who ignited my creativity. Every time he wrote a passage, I felt so inspired that the words just poured out. I don't even do much writing so to find I enjoyed RP'ing was a big surprise.

Maybe you just haven't written with someone who can get your creative juices flowing? Or maybe the scenarios just don't float your boat so you can't respond?

I don't think it's for everyone's though as it is make believe and acting to some extent and I have quite a vivid imagination.

 

[cyberking001]

I love RP and I have helped a lot of RP newbies. I do all my RPs
online by writing in chat rooms, i.e. not on the phone (voice) or in
social media rooms such as KIK. That is me, your mileage may vary.

The first step is that you must really believe in it and want to try it.
If you are sceptical, that is fine ... if you don't think you will like it,
then you won't.

Second, find someone who is experienced in RP and who seems
patient when you first meet. Essentially, RP is one person (you)
living out a fantasy and the other person helping to fulfill it. So,
let your fantasy come loose... what age are you or do you want
to be, who turns you on now or turned you on at that age, what
did you want to do with this person, or have this person do to you?
Set it up so that the outcome will be as satisfying in fantasy as
it would have been in reality. Make sure that you do specify in
advance to your RP partner any personal limits that you have.

Then, just act it out. Put yourself into the mind of the person you
want to be and just behave exactly as you would (have) if that person
is/was really there with you, doing what you want. Don't force it,
just let it roll. Or, as Ringo Starr and Buck Owens (pop or country,
your choice! used to sing.... "And all I have to do is.... Act Naturally."

Give it a shot, and post back here to let us know how it goes.
Don't be afraid to ask for more advice if it doesn't go as hoped
the first time, and keep on trying it, as every time you do, it
will get better

Sam

 

[EmilysJournal]

I have to confess. Role play is kind of a mystery. I’ve been asked about it a few times but really don’t know enough about how it all works to see if it’s even something I would be interested in.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I am not very good at role playing in the actual bedroom because it seems fake and put-on, but by accident I found I am pretty good at doing so online.

I am a writer for one, so I understand details, but as a personality trait, I also like to please people. Not so much in humiliation, but figuring out what they may want, and then delivering that to them, in words.

To me, that is the fun part, the discovering who THEY are, what they really want, and then delivering it to them.

 

[jaF0]

I don't do it because I don't feel I can continue a role long enough or devote the time to a single thread that is based on continuous interaction.

Suggestions:

Read as many of them as you can. Observe the interaction. Try playing one of the characters on you own off-line without posting in a 'closed' storyline. There are a number of 'open' ones where you might be able to try your hand as an occasional character.

Consider that you're on stage in a play or a skit with no script and all line are improvisation.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have to confess. Role play is kind of a mystery. I’ve been asked about it a few times but really don’t know enough about how it all works to see if it’s even something I would be interested in.

You may like it. A lot of women do because they can role play out fantasies that just not would be safe in real life. Like say a lady that has a rape fantasy. A lot of women must because it is one of the top five fantasies of women, but in role play, it is obviously more safe.

But the other person also has to be reserved. If I was to role play that with a lady for example, it would not so much be about the roughness of the sex, but rather the woman being so wanted.

If the connection is there mentally, it can be really good. But the person role playing must be right, because it is not about THEM, but rather you, and allowing you to have a writhing orgasm from drawing out slowly by wordsmithing, you deep down desires. The fact that it is anonymous, makes it safe to share those desires.

 

[Salacious_Scribe]

Roleplay is to writers as improv is to actors.

AT least that's how I look at it. I use roleplay as a way to practice my writing. IT makes me create and work with characters I have no control over.

Haven't seen any interesting RP's pop up lately. IF anyone (even a newbie) wants to try it out let me know.

 

[Rosa2019]

In role playing we get to transcend the rigid and restricted way of thinking and doing things in life offline, hence in RP we get to live in a more relaxed inner life. There would be no concept or words as 'Infidelity' or "cheating".

If someone likes to do an RP with me based on a scenario of an open relationship Welcome to write a short paragraph to start out or PM me for a discussion.

 

[Rosa2019]

For those who would like to practice RP, here's a thread where we can play with one another: Short Scenes In Interactions