~Dream~
Loving My Soulmate Scott
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- May 21, 2002
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I believe that a person can do anything,if they put their focus into how to do it ,instead of why they cannot.
Maintaining a long-distance relationship is alot of very hard work and takes 2 people who are thouroughly committed to putting in alot of time and effort to make it last..
Relationships recquire us to be bold,to assert,to committ..problems from not having alot of physical interaction are inevitable.There is however no such thing as a "perfect relationship"which is utterly secure ,happy and binding..By the very nature of a relationship ,let alone it be a long-distance one,this cannot be.
How can we expect that our loved one will always desire to be with us?
How do we expect to find someone who will Always find happiness in the same things in which we find happiness?
Will they care about the same people,have the same interests,want to be doing the same activities as us?
I think huge huge amounts of trust and respect is called for here,perhaps sometimes more than we are really willing to give at any given moment.
However,in order for a relationship to survive"2 people must BOTH desire to resolve the disagreements and frustrations that go along with being so far apart.
Problems can be overcome with courage,patience,trust and genuine love..
We need courage to meet what comes and know that"Whatever it is'IT WILL NOT LAST FOREVER.."..
Nothing lasts forever,not pain,not joy,not even life..People in LDR'S need to accept the fact that the only way anything will help their realtionship to last and grow stronger is ifthey BOTH put their all into it..
If a couple has enough strength to take full responsibility for their failures as well as their successes,then self-respect and love is nurtured and grows..
It is up to "US',the couple involved in the LDR togive Our relationship a chance..there is nothing greater in life than loving one another (even while actually living far apart) and being loved in return..is there pain involved?
of course there is..Is it worth the pain? as I have experienced it so far I must give a resounding YES!! YES!! nothing or noone completes my heart and fills my soul like my Master Artful..if I have to go through the pain of being seperated from Him as I am now..I only know it WILL all be worth it in the end..being apart will not last forever... no pain.. no gain and I have ALOT to gain..my very happiness..
*any thoughts from anyone involved currently in an LDR would be greatly appreciated..
Maintaining a long-distance relationship is alot of very hard work and takes 2 people who are thouroughly committed to putting in alot of time and effort to make it last..
Relationships recquire us to be bold,to assert,to committ..problems from not having alot of physical interaction are inevitable.There is however no such thing as a "perfect relationship"which is utterly secure ,happy and binding..By the very nature of a relationship ,let alone it be a long-distance one,this cannot be.
How can we expect that our loved one will always desire to be with us?
How do we expect to find someone who will Always find happiness in the same things in which we find happiness?
Will they care about the same people,have the same interests,want to be doing the same activities as us?
I think huge huge amounts of trust and respect is called for here,perhaps sometimes more than we are really willing to give at any given moment.
However,in order for a relationship to survive"2 people must BOTH desire to resolve the disagreements and frustrations that go along with being so far apart.
Problems can be overcome with courage,patience,trust and genuine love..
We need courage to meet what comes and know that"Whatever it is'IT WILL NOT LAST FOREVER.."..
Nothing lasts forever,not pain,not joy,not even life..People in LDR'S need to accept the fact that the only way anything will help their realtionship to last and grow stronger is ifthey BOTH put their all into it..
If a couple has enough strength to take full responsibility for their failures as well as their successes,then self-respect and love is nurtured and grows..
It is up to "US',the couple involved in the LDR togive Our relationship a chance..there is nothing greater in life than loving one another (even while actually living far apart) and being loved in return..is there pain involved?
of course there is..Is it worth the pain? as I have experienced it so far I must give a resounding YES!! YES!! nothing or noone completes my heart and fills my soul like my Master Artful..if I have to go through the pain of being seperated from Him as I am now..I only know it WILL all be worth it in the end..being apart will not last forever... no pain.. no gain and I have ALOT to gain..my very happiness..


*any thoughts from anyone involved currently in an LDR would be greatly appreciated..