Latinos?

[Cipher]

Hey there beautiful...... *huggs* welcome back...

thought maybe you got wasted on the drinks.....

Nope. Far from wasted. But thanks for the thought

Thanks, Feels good to be back..LoL

What's up in here??? Am i interrupting something

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Indentity crisis. I had one when i was mad young..but then as i got older..i got to know myself, and appreciate myself..like i had told you that one time..to some latinos/latinas, i wasn't latin enough..and to some jamaicans i wasn't "west indian" enough..i came out with greenish brown eyes and light skin..i was never accepted..but then i accepted me for who i was, regardless what people said against me, i was always going to remain who i was. I carry that same attitude now. You don't like shit about me, well hell, DON'T LOOK..my profile says it all. I'm me and i LOVE me. I don't care if no one thinks i'm the bomb or what not, what other's think of me has always mattered little. After all, i live MY life for me. NO ONE is doing shit for me in life..but ME.
So, basically..what you think of you is just what it is..you can be who and what you want to be.
And that..is my final answer.

Very nice Cipher....I know just how u feel. I discovered when I turned 22 that nobody was gonna live my life for me....and nobody was DEFINITELY not gonna pay my way or pave the road ahead of me...***** WAS IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE hard....but its also what u make of it....I have a friend who is depressed and on Prozac right now. She complains about how sad she is, but the girl won't take her meds...plus whenever we do ask her to go places with us, she doesn't want to go. She's always calling into work...won't get out of bed....I mean, I understand that she is depressed, but how the hell is she gonna get better if she won't take the first step. Its getting harder and harder to try to help someone who won't help themselves. I don't wanna cut her out of my life, but god, sometimes I have to think about me. The only bad thing about my sign....I'M TOO DAMNED NICE !!!

 

[inmage]

Indentity crisis. I had one when i was mad young..but then as i got older..i got to know myself, and appreciate myself..like i had told you that one time..to some latinos/latinas, i wasn't latin enough..and to some jamaicans i wasn't "west indian" enough..i came out with greenish brown eyes and light skin..i was never accepted..but then i accepted me for who i was, regardless what people said against me, i was always going to remain who i was. I carry that same attitude now. You don't like shit about me, well hell, DON'T LOOK..my profile says it all. I'm me and i LOVE me. I don't care if no one thinks i'm the bomb or what not, what other's think of me has always mattered little. After all, i live MY life for me. NO ONE is doing shit for me in life..but ME.
So, basically..what you think of you is just what it is..you can be who and what you want to be.
And that..is my final answer.

Amen...

a philosophy I have yet to grasp... I have been trying but its just not the way I am made... I have always been a slow learner when it comes to things... don't know why, I just am... but oh well.. I am strong enough to deal with it so it works for me..




'and that's all I have to say about that' (Gump)

 

[Cipher]

WOW HI girl...... I'm almost at 100 can't wait where do u find all those cool ass av's at??

How was your day?

Hi

My day was good thanks Hope yours was too.

Hmm where do i find them..i find them everywhere..i do searches for "Goth avs" or "Vampire images" or "Vampire av's"..I just type in anything goth..and whatever comes up comes up..i don't have a set sight..google.com is where i've been lately..and here's the lit avatar sight..everyone from here goes there..
Freeavatars.net i believe it is
Happy av shopping!!

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Nope. Far from wasted. But thanks for the thought

Thanks, Feels good to be back..LoL

What's up in here??? Am i interrupting something

HELL NAW!! Not interupting....inmage and I were just getting to know one another....we're both suffering from insomnia. Apparently you are too we were talking bout my family and stuff thats all

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Oh, speaking of that....INMAGE U GOT MAIL

 

[inmage]

Very nice Cipher....I know just how u feel. I discovered when I turned 22 that nobody was gonna live my life for me....and nobody was DEFINITELY not gonna pay my way or pave the road ahead of me...***** WAS IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE hard....but its also what u make of it....I have a friend who is depressed and on Prozac right now. She complains about how sad she is, but the girl won't take her meds...plus whenever we do ask her to go places with us, she doesn't want to go. She's always calling into work...won't get out of bed....I mean, I understand that she is depressed, but how the hell is she gonna get better if she won't take the first step. Its getting harder and harder to try to help someone who won't help themselves. I don't wanna cut her out of my life, but god, sometimes I have to think about me. The only bad thing about my sign....I'M TOO DAMNED NICE !!!

Have a simular situation going on here for me... though my friend goes to work and is taking her prozac but she is having a hard time and she just can't seem to get pass what it is that is causing her problems.... not easy seeing her go through her troubles but there is nothing I can do.. and I alway feel like I need to do something to make things right for others but over the years I have been letting go of that thought....

once again.. a slow learning process for me....

damn Gump.. talks a good line but it don't always work....

 

[inmage]

Oh, speaking of that....INMAGE U GOT MAIL

COOL!!!!

 

[inmage]

Nope. Far from wasted. But thanks for the thought

Thanks, Feels good to be back..LoL

What's up in here??? Am i interrupting something

Interupting??????? Nope... Joining is more like it.... doing what we do best... having conversation.....

 

[Cipher]

Very nice Cipher....I know just how u feel. I discovered when I turned 22 that nobody was gonna live my life for me....and nobody was DEFINITELY not gonna pay my way or pave the road ahead of me...***** WAS IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE hard....but its also what u make of it....I have a friend who is depressed and on Prozac right now. She complains about how sad she is, but the girl won't take her meds...plus whenever we do ask her to go places with us, she doesn't want to go. She's always calling into work...won't get out of bed....I mean, I understand that she is depressed, but how the hell is she gonna get better if she won't take the first step. Its getting harder and harder to try to help someone who won't help themselves. I don't wanna cut her out of my life, but god, sometimes I have to think about me. The only bad thing about my sign....I'M TOO DAMNED NICE !!!

Thanks

Hmm you know..you're right sometimes if a person doesn't want to help themselves, well there isn't shit you can do for them. I have learned that. So if she doesn't want to take her meds, well so be it. If she doesn't care for her, then you can't care for her. Everything we do in life starts and ends with self. So maybe saying one last time to her " I care about you because you're my homegirl and you need to get it together, i'll be here to help you but i can't live your life for you" And if that isn't good enough for her and you're still stressin..well you know what girl..MOVE ON. Why hurt yourself over someone that doesn't have any regard to thier own feelings??? I'm down for all my friends..because i'm just like that..but they know when i say something and comment about something it's NOT to just hear myself talk. If they don't heed what i say and try to see things clearly..well then it's not that big of a problem as they're making it to be. You don't like something and you're unhappy, change it. And if they don't change it or try..Well they obviously like it. I guess some people label me as mean..well, i'm just brutaly honest and brutaly logical.

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Have a simular situation going on here for me... though my friend goes to work and is taking her prozac but she is having a hard time and she just can't seem to get pass what it is that is causing her problems.... not easy seeing her go through her troubles but there is nothing I can do.. and I alway feel like I need to do something to make things right for others but over the years I have been letting go of that thought....

once again.. a slow learning process for me....

damn Gump.. talks a good line but it don't always work....

yeah tell me about it. Glad someone else understands where I'm coming from....

And dammit......I found some av's I like.....I need 20 more posts tho!! hurry hurry talk to me

 

[inmage]

Oh, speaking of that....INMAGE U GOT MAIL

All I can say is DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank you.... thank you very much...

 

[Cipher]

HELL NAW!! Not interupting....inmage and I were just getting to know one another....we're both suffering from insomnia. Apparently you are too we were talking bout my family and stuff thats all

Oh okay i see..I was like well maybe they were talking about stuff..and i didn't want thread jack the convo..Na'mean??? LoL I'm just bein polite..LoL It doesn't happen often (j/k)

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Thanks

Hmm you know..you're right sometimes if a person doesn't want to help themselves, well there isn't shit you can do for them. I have learned that. So if she doesn't want to take her meds, well so be it. If she doesn't care for her, then you can't care for her. Everything we do in life starts and ends with self. So maybe saying one last time to her " I care about you because you're my homegirl and you need to get it together, i'll be here to help you but i can't live your life for you" And if that isn't good enough for her and you're still stressin..well you know what girl..MOVE ON. Why hurt yourself over someone that doesn't have any regard to thier own feelings??? I'm down for all my friends..because i'm just like that..but they know when i say something and comment about something it's NOT to just hear myself talk. If they don't heed what i say and try to see things clearly..well then it's not that big of a problem as they're making it to be. You don't like something and you're unhappy, change it. And if they don't change it or try..Well they obviously like it. I guess some people label me as mean..well, i'm just brutaly honest and brutaly logical.

You know Cipher...I think we were seperated at birth! Lots of ppl think I'm too mean too, but I can't help but speak what is on my mind. Like this girl...she is having her birthday tomorrow....I told her I want to take her out to dinner, do the girl thing with her and some of my other friends. (She just moved here a few months ago, and has barely made any friends...besides me and one of my boys...thats why I say My Friends) But she doesn't think she wants to go because she's sad. I'm like, "You think you'll be any less sad sitting at home on your birthday by your damned self? Grow up and plan on being picked up around 7." I think she got mad, but dammit, she's going!! haha One last try....u know how that is....if things don't turn around soon, I'm quittin!!

 

[Cipher]

Interupting??????? Nope... Joining is more like it.... doing what we do best... having conversation.....

Wonderful, lovely, outstanding..LoL

I'm getting delirious

I'm sorry to hear about your friend..but like i just posted..you can't help people that don't want to help themselves..You can only do so much for someone..you have a life to live as well..being there is all you can do
You're a good person

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

All I can say is DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank you.... thank you very much...

LOL guess it runs in the family haha sorry that was me being conceited

 

[inmage]

Thanks

Hmm you know..you're right sometimes if a person doesn't want to help themselves, well there isn't shit you can do for them. I have learned that. So if she doesn't want to take her meds, well so be it. If she doesn't care for her, then you can't care for her. Everything we do in life starts and ends with self. So maybe saying one last time to her " I care about you because you're my homegirl and you need to get it together, i'll be here to help you but i can't live your life for you" And if that isn't good enough for her and you're still stressin..well you know what girl..MOVE ON. Why hurt yourself over someone that doesn't have any regard to thier own feelings??? I'm down for all my friends..because i'm just like that..but they know when i say something and comment about something it's NOT to just hear myself talk. If they don't heed what i say and try to see things clearly..well then it's not that big of a problem as they're making it to be. You don't like something and you're unhappy, change it. And if they don't change it or try..Well they obviously like it. I guess some people label me as mean..well, i'm just brutaly honest and brutaly logical.

I believe its called tough love.... I salute you girl... I admire people who are able to administer tough love... I have a hard time with it..... I think they call my problem 'bleeding heart liberal' trying to become left wing conservative though....

 

[Cipher]

You know Cipher...I think we were seperated at birth! Lots of ppl think I'm too mean too, but I can't help but speak what is on my mind. Like this girl...she is having her birthday tomorrow....I told her I want to take her out to dinner, do the girl thing with her and some of my other friends. (She just moved here a few months ago, and has barely made any friends...besides me and one of my boys...thats why I say My Friends) But she doesn't think she wants to go because she's sad. I'm like, "You think you'll be any less sad sitting at home on your birthday by your damned self? Grow up and plan on being picked up around 7." I think she got mad, but dammit, she's going!! haha One last try....u know how that is....if things don't turn around soon, I'm quittin!!

LoL..Yeah i know what you mean..well..if she want to sit and be lonely and sad..well hell..that's on her..but i'm sure when she goes out with ya'll..she'll have a great time..if only for a moment..ya know??? If she holds up a dramatical protest..well leave her ass by herself..and go have fun..I dunno..I'm not real people persony all the time..so when people do dumb stuff i get irritated..and i move around..LoL I'm going to hell for my attitude. Oh well..LoL

 

[inmage]

LOL guess it runs in the family haha sorry that was me being conceited

don't apologize.... your parents did well....

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

Wonderful, lovely, outstanding..LoL

I'm getting delirious

I'm sorry to hear about your friend..but like i just posted..you can't help people that don't want to help themselves..You can only do so much for someone..you have a life to live as well..being there is all you can do
You're a good person

Thanks I try Being good just comes naturally sometimes. I guess evil does too...hmmm. Anyway, no more depression talk~or I'm gonna end up on Prozac right along with her! haha I can't wait till my chocolate date mm mmmm MMMMMMM!!

 

[Cipher]

I believe its called tough love.... I salute you girl... I admire people who are able to administer tough love... I have a hard time with it..... I think they call my problem 'bleeding heart liberal' trying to become left wing conservative though....

Hmm is that what they call it??? LoL I had no idea.

Hmm...Not everyone is made to be that way..(the way i am) I guess i've helped so many people and been there so many times that after awhile it was like my life was passing me by..i was living other people's lives..and what the hell kinda shit is that??? Then when i needed someone..there was no one..so i handled my own shit..i'm a tough girl..but sometimes even people like me..break. Thank goodness..i been okay for awhile..

 

[inmage]

Wonderful, lovely, outstanding..LoL

I'm getting delirious

I'm sorry to hear about your friend..but like i just posted..you can't help people that don't want to help themselves..You can only do so much for someone..you have a life to live as well..being there is all you can do
You're a good person

She is working on her situation.. she was the person I was talking to on the phone earlier... we are going to go out to eat tomorrow.. me, her and her 2 girls

by the way mytasteislikecandy, she is Filipino too..

 

[mytasteislikecandy]

She is working on her situation.. she was the person I was talking to on the phone earlier... we are going to go out to eat tomorrow.. me, her and her 2 girls

by the way mytasteislikecandy, she is Filipino too..

Asian and Latino...waht could be better?? Unless its Latino and Jamaican

 

[inmage]

Asian and Latino...waht could be better?? Unless its Latino and Jamaican

You know what I mean????

 

[Cipher]

Taste..i'm being nice..LoL

..And giving you one of my sites i go to for av's..i have gotten quite a few from here..I haven't in awhile tho..so i'm passin it to you..LoL
http://www.geocities.com/BourbonStreet/Delta/4381/index.html

There's all kinds on there..not just goth/darkside ones like i have.
Happy searching