Last few nights of sex before mastectomy, ideas?

[77fbird400]

Last 2-3 nights of sex before her (single) mastectomy and reconstruction later this week. I’m thinking my wife and I need a goodbye tribute to a very well used and productive breast. Outside of sex, she breastfed each kid, that is, no other food or drink, not even water for a full year. This gave each kid a huge head start. I’m thinking cowgirl so I can watch them bounce in unison one last time, maybe a titty fuck? Some light slapping? She doesn’t do clamps. Whatever she wants. These nights will be special and emotional for both of us. Ideas?

 

[saintcero]

Hold her and assure her that you love all of her and a change of boobs is not going to make a difference. This is about her and not about you. Give her support

 

[77fbird400]

Hold her and assure her that you love all of her and a change of boobs is not going to make a difference. This is about her and not about you. Give her support

Oh trust me, there has been a lot of that - many times a day, SMS / texts / emails and each night when the lights go out. She is a strong woman and never really needed a lot (or any) emo support from me. Providing emotional support is new to me, I've never really needed to wear that hat. But I completely underestimated how important a woman's breasts are to her overall self image and femininity. I thought it was an easy decision, we're done having kids, they're mostly for show and fun. But that is not the case.

I'm thinking last few nights of sexy fun then we're going dry for a while.

 

[saintcero]

Good to hear and I apologize if I butted in. If the situation was reversed and you were losing a nut to testicular cancer I would hope that she would support you in much the same way

 

[Goldenfinger]

Hold her and assure her that you love all of her and a change of boobs is not going to make a difference. This is about her and not about you. Give her support

Perfect!

 

[darrad143]

I really really hat to butt in. I really do. I hate to advise this I don’t even know you both. But maybe think about both. My sister only had the 1 done after chemo and regular cancer checks she was pronounced cancer free. Within a year it was in her other breast. And spread to the lymph node. I hate bringing this here. I just miss her

 

[77fbird400]

Plaster cast? Boob painting on a canvas?

No, this is a sex forum right? Thinking of something way more sexy. The way I see it, 4 kids, ~15lb weight gain per kid between 0-1 years, divided by two. That right tit is responsible for ~30lb of pure baby growth not to mention how much fun those tits have been for both of us.

I'm sick of being cancer's bitch. Fuck cancer. Time to celebrate. I'm not joking. I'm thinking we celebrate ON her tits. I'm thinking Tiramisu on her cleavage while she's cuffed to the bed posts. I'm famous for my Tiramisu. If I add more gelatin to the whipped cream and whip it stiffer it should hold better on a warm body. I'll feed her some. Maybe chocolate powder all over her tits so I can lick her clean all around. Then we can fuck cowgirl pos and get one last good bouncy-bounce with her beautiful breasts.

I'm really going to miss that tit. We've both shed enough tears over this, time to celebrate.

Got the ingredients.
https://i.imgur.com/CfQTp5Y.png

Brewing expresso now.

 

[Dendeze]

You are the man!

If this is what makes her happy, go right ahead.
Whatever makes her happy, do it!

You could even french kiss her with that canadian whipped cream.

 

[DarToon]

"Last few nights..."
She is and will remain the same woman you have been lucky enough to love all this time.
-Maybe one with a physical injury, who after a few days will be joking about the gurgles in her new replacement breast.

She can enjoy the fun of the next day or two, treat her breast as you both like, but treat your lady like the Queen she is now and after the surgery.
She might feel a bit unbalanced so you'll be picking up the dishes, etc.

 

[Leetypes]

Best wishes. I was going to say good luck but it’s all good. You’re gonna do fine.

I have the BRCA gene shit. Someday I will be in your shoes I think!

If you don’t mind::::are you having reconstruction? I think I would but my. My mom had a terrible times with with that then the mastectomy ....
<3

 

[77fbird400]

Best wishes. I was going to say good luck but it’s all good. You’re gonna do fine.

I have the BRCA gene shit. Someday I will be in your shoes I think!

If you don’t mind::::are you having reconstruction? I think I would but my. My mom had a terrible times with with that then the mastectomy ....
<3

Yes, we (or she) is going for immediate reconstruction that way it is only one surgery and she doesn’t have to look at a deformed chest. However a woman’s options would depend entirely on the type and progressive stage of cancer.

Here is some more information if you’re interested.

This is day surgery, she is expected to leave on the same day. The oncologist / surgeon will perform the mastectomy. The reconstructive surgeon will perform the implant. There will be an anesthesiologist present. The key is early detection. Once cancer starts to invade the nipple and skin, then reconstruction becomes much more complicated. In such cases a woman can lose her entire nipple and require reconstruction with a “skin flap” meaning they graft healthy skin onto the affected breast. Now you’re looking at two surgical areas and a longer recovery. The skin around the breast is needed to be strong enough to support the breast implant, especially for larger breasted women.

Here are a sample of the implants that she will receive. Mentor
https://breastimplantsbymentor.net/
The empty one is a saline filled implant that gets filled once it is in place. More popular are the silicone gel ones. They feel really good actually. They are not firm at all. It’s has a very viscous consistency and feels very natural. I’ll admit, I sported a pretty good woody in the surgeon’s office feeling the silicone ones while she described what can and cannot be done. She didn’t say anything about titty fucking so I assume it’s OK.
https://i.imgur.com/YjhoPeF.png
https://i.imgur.com/Ev7BeAt.png

She was diagnosed with DCIS - Ductal Carcinoma in Situ. That means that cancer cells were found in the milk ducts but has not spread to other areas. Although the oncologist will not rule out other forms of cancer until she sees the lab results from ALL the breast tissue she removed. A mastectomy seems to be an extreme option but the oncologist / surgeon said that she recommended it b/c of my wife’s family history. Aunt and mother had breast cancer. Mother died of it.

In Canada, the cost of the surgery and reconstruction is covered by public health (called MSP - Medical Services Plan). This is categorized as reconstructive surgery, not cosmetic surgery.

We were lucky in a sense that her breast cancer was detected inadvertently and very early. She was experiencing some breast pain in 2019, it went away fairly quickly. Then it flared up again in 2020. This time is was extremely painful, she could hardly keep a shirt on.

It turns out the breast pain was caused by an infection and a benign cyst - not cancer. Her breast pain was treated with antibiotics and another procedure (I don’t remember). I learned that very rare forms of breast cancer cause direct pain. Most breast cancer exists pain-free and only becomes a problem when it has spread to the lymph nodes, immune system, skin and lungs. That is when a woman is dealing with stage 2-4 b/cancer and undergoing invasive interventions such as hormone therapy, radiation and chemo.

I truly wish you all the best. Let me know if you have any other questions. To support my wife, I went to almost all of her doctor / radiologist / oncologist / reconstructive surgeon consultations so I can ask my own questions. I’ve done a ton of research into this, talked to many others about their cancer journey.

But in the final days before her mastectomy, it's time to celebrate that tit.

 

[xtina83]

No, this is a sex forum right? Thinking of something way more sexy. The way I see it, 4 kids, ~15lb weight gain per kid between 0-1 years, divided by two. That right tit is responsible for ~30lb of pure baby growth not to mention how much fun those tits have been for both of us.

I'm sick of being cancer's bitch. Fuck cancer. Time to celebrate. I'm not joking. I'm thinking we celebrate ON her tits. I'm thinking Tiramisu on her cleavage while she's cuffed to the bed posts. I'm famous for my Tiramisu. If I add more gelatin to the whipped cream and whip it stiffer it should hold better on a warm body. I'll feed her some. Maybe chocolate powder all over her tits so I can lick her clean all around. Then we can fuck cowgirl pos and get one last good bouncy-bounce with her beautiful breasts.

I'm really going to miss that tit. We've both shed enough tears over this, time to celebrate.

Got the ingredients.
https://i.imgur.com/CfQTp5Y.png

Brewing expresso now.

ok this made me laugh!

 

[bobb_sledd]

The first nights of sex after the surgery (and recovery) will likely be more important then the last few nights before. Best of luck to all concerned.

 

[JoeBeans2751]

BE supportive! Believe me the C has run through my wife's side like you read about!!!! Praying she gets well!!!

 

[77fbird400]

The first nights of sex after the surgery (and recovery) will likely be more important then the last few nights before. Best of luck to all concerned.

Good advice. I didn’t think of that. She is very self conscious about the scars and implant. She needs to know my desire for her won’t change, only increase. I’ll let her know tonight Mr. Happy will be eagerly waiting to fuck her silly after the surgery. She’ll appreciate that.

Thanks for the advice and thanks to all the well wishers.

 

[wildflower_x]

Last 2-3 nights of sex before her (single) mastectomy and reconstruction later this week. I’m thinking my wife and I need a goodbye tribute to a very well used and productive breast. Outside of sex, she breastfed each kid, that is, no other food or drink, not even water for a full year. This gave each kid a huge head start. I’m thinking cowgirl so I can watch them bounce in unison one last time, maybe a titty fuck? Some light slapping? She doesn’t do clamps. Whatever she wants. These nights will be special and emotional for both of us. Ideas?

Hmmm, how about a welcome-home for the new one?