large male

[british_beef]

hi im new here i been reading for few month just never posted. anyway im with a girl at the moment and were getting pretty serious. although we haven't had sex . anyway im pretty large . not obese just abit of a beer belly , im woried about having sex with me being to large or something , btw im about 230lb and 6'2 if you can picture that.

 

[M's girl]

Hi, and welcome to Literotica!

Regarding your question... if you look around at Lit you will see that it has so much information already. For example there was a question similar to yours not too long ago in this thread so you might want to check that out.

Also, the Blank Manual (sticky at the top of the thread index) is a useful source of information compiled and sorted by Lit's Blue Sugar. Go check that out too!

Most of all: enjoy yourself here! (Oh and introduce yourself in this thread if you haven't already.

 

[Texguy84]

Hi, and welcome to Literotica!

Regarding your question... if you look around at Lit you will see that it has so much information already. For example there was a question similar to yours not too long ago in this thread so you might want to check that out.

Also, the Blank Manual (sticky at the top of the thread index) is a useful source of information compiled and sorted by Lit's Blue Sugar. Go check that out too!

Most of all: enjoy yourself here! (Oh and introduce yourself in this thread if you haven't already.

I think you meant to direct him here for the first link. You have too many http://'s in there, which seems to make it forward to www.w3.org. I think the same applies to your second and third links as well.

 

[M's girl]

I think you meant to direct him here for the first link. You have too many http://'s in there, which seems to make it forward to www.w3.org. I think the same applies to your second and third links as well.

What the fuck? (Excuse my English!)
Thanks, but how the hell did that page (Elsevier) come up there? I have not even been there.. not today anyway.

Let's see if I can fix it which (excuses on forehand) will make your post look like "what the ... is he talking about"...

Thanks again!

 

[M's girl]

I think you meant to direct him here for the first link. You have too many http://'s in there, which seems to make it forward to www.w3.org. I think the same applies to your second and third links as well.

I have too many http's meaning you can't link more than one or two times in one post to other links/posts? Hmmm... must ask Erica how she does it then. Also... www . w3.org ? It keeps coming up with (Dutch) Elsevier's site, a site I have never visited before (although it gives me better credits than, let's say, www. webcamgirls . org, if that exisits at all )

 

[Texguy84]

I have too many http's meaning you can't link more than one or two times in one post to other links/posts? Hmmm... must ask Erica how she does it then. Also... www . w3.org ? It keeps coming up with (Dutch) Elsevier's site, a site I have never visited before (although it gives me better credits than, let's say, www. webcamgirls . org, if that exisits at all )

Well, your links were like http://http://www.website.com, which apparantly confused the web browsers. Mine redirected to www.w3.org, which I think is the organization that maintains the www/html web standard stuff. Dunno what Elsevier is, but that might be just what your browser defaults to. Having more than one link in the post shouldn't be a problem, it was just the formatting of your links that was off.

 

[M's girl]

Thanks again. Yes, M just came in and explained the same, so I altered it. It works (I checked). And indeed it looks like your w3 org is similar to my Elsevier site.

Sorry, british-beef, for all the confusion!

Ciao!

 

[Eilan]

hi im new here i been reading for few month just never posted. anyway im with a girl at the moment and were getting pretty serious. although we haven't had sex . anyway im pretty large . not obese just abit of a beer belly , im woried about having sex with me being to large or something , btw im about 230lb and 6'2 if you can picture that.

My ex-husband, at 6 feet tall and about 290 pounds, weighs about twice as much as I do, and while we had sexual issues toward the end of our marriage, they didn't have anything to do with his body size.

If you have a bit of a belly, some positions, like spooning, can be more difficult, but not necessarily impossible. Sometimes you have to be creative.

Good luck.

 

[SweetErika]

hi im new here i been reading for few month just never posted. anyway im with a girl at the moment and were getting pretty serious. although we haven't had sex . anyway im pretty large . not obese just abit of a beer belly , im woried about having sex with me being to large or something , btw im about 230lb and 6'2 if you can picture that.

As long as you're sensitive to your partner, you'll be just fine, b_b. I've had partners who were 6'7 and 6'9, one of them heavier than you, and we never had any problems with sex, including missionary. Sometimes we had to modify positions a bit, but pillows and such made that easy. Both men were sensitive to me and aware of what they were doing and careful not to crash down, put a lot of weight in one area and use their full strength to toss me around, and all was well. Mindblowing, actually.

 

[NotForSale]

have to say I prefer a man who doesn't have a gym body and six pack....I much prefer real men who i can feel comfortable in my own skin with. So long as you are sensitive to each others needs things should be fine. You could always start off with low level lighting if you're a bit self conscious but really i don't feel you have any need to be

Hope in some way this helps.

xx

 

[british_beef]

thanks all made me feel much better.

 

[Texguy84]

have to say I prefer a man who doesn't have a gym body and six pack....I much prefer real men who i can feel comfortable in my own skin with. So long as you are sensitive to each others needs things should be fine. You could always start off with low level lighting if you're a bit self conscious but really i don't feel you have any need to be

Hope in some way this helps.

xx

Knew a girl who said that one problem she had with her current boyfriend, a slim Marine reservist, was that there was almost nothing she could get a grip on during sex, joking about how she kept "sliding off" of him when they tried to cuddle.

 

[phatmac03]

hey british beef i am too a big guy about 6 2 around 298 or less now they say i lost weight but i geuss the other 4lbs are in my boxers (so not funny lol) anyway my girl isn't the small type girl i would consider her to be more on the voluptous (if that is spelled right) side and our sex is off the chain man. so don't feel bad cause your big i mean as long as u can put it inside her and make her cum a couple of times or all night she will love your weight truss me thats how i got my girl now

 

[TBKahuna123]

I'm about your same size, a little shorter, and I've always been a big guy. It has only been an issue one time back in college. I have a wide frame and I was dating a girl with narrow hips. We had issues with standard missionary position because if we got too wild her hip would pop out. I had to be careful or we just avoided that position. Other than that it didn't affect our sex life at all.

I know people way bigger than you that have sex all the time without issues, so no worries. If something does crop up, just remember not to worry about it, just roll with it and adapt.

 

[Texguy84]

I'm about your same size, a little shorter, and I've always been a big guy. It has only been an issue one time back in college. I have a wide frame and I was dating a girl with narrow hips. We had issues with standard missionary position because if we got too wild her hip would pop out. I had to be careful or we just avoided that position. Other than that it didn't affect our sex life at all.

I know people way bigger than you that have sex all the time without issues, so no worries. If something does crop up, just remember not to worry about it, just roll with it and adapt.

So what you're saying is... size doesn't matter?

 

[Hooper_X]

hi im new here i been reading for few month just never posted. anyway im with a girl at the moment and were getting pretty serious. although we haven't had sex . anyway im pretty large . not obese just abit of a beer belly , im woried about having sex with me being to large or something , btw im about 230lb and 6'2 if you can picture that.

Unless you're talking about a small child, I don't see why there should be a problem. I'm a good deal taller than you and about the same weight and I've never had to forego sex because I was too big. Women have been having sex with larger men since the dawn of time.

 

[human_male]

As long as you don't take a running jump at her I can't see a problem.

 

[M's girl]

As long as you don't take a running jump at her I can't see a problem.

You got that right!
Nice new Av!

 

[human_male]

You got that right!
Nice new Av!

Ta very much.

 

[Vixandra]

*coos over the Pintsize AV before getting to buisness*

Ya know, not all women want a beefed up, no body fat muscle builder (with or without europian accent).

Me- I like a bit of meat on my man's frame. Some belly doesn't bother me, long as he's within healthy limits. And that extra layer lets me bite harder in places one might not expect. Amazing the erotic zones that are often missed from lack of experimentation.

Anyway- guys and gals with a bit of meat and fat on their bones are good things, in my opinion. I loathe the anorexic look in both genders and dislike the muscle bound look too. Athletic with curves.
And a real butt, not a back with a crack.

 

[Texguy84]

Anyway- guys and gals with a bit of meat and fat on their bones are good things, in my opinion. I loathe the anorexic look in both genders and dislike the muscle bound look too. Athletic with curves.
And a real butt, not a back with a crack.

Indeed, bring on the curvacious chicks with the wide hips and the nice round asses

 

[witch_baby]

awww...cheesy advice...

Absolutely!

Useless advice and I think it's all been said, but I like a guy whose a little bit 'squishy'. I was just discussing this with a female friend today- it's nice to have something to cuddle up to at night...or any other time. My current boyfriend is a little on the heavy side, and we are having the most amazing sex of our lives.

I would give you the same advice I'd give anyone who'd just found a new sexual partner - experiment and have fun! Just make sure not to squish her too much...

Sex with someone new is an amazing adventure...

 

[Eilan]

And a real butt, not a back with a crack.

*water spew*

 

[M's girl]

*water spew*

Finally... there you are!

This thread is about size. I knew I could find you here

 

[LadyJeanne]

I like bigger guys, too...there's nothing like that feeling of being wrapped in his arms, and I love that they can pick me up and swing me around...

...ahem.

I'll give you a link to one of my favorite web pages. It should give you some ideas of position options to consider.

http://www.canal96.com/extra/strange/kamasutra/

And keep in mind, body size makes no difference for oral.