Lap Dancing Friend

Wyatt

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Hypothetically speaking:D If your sister let slip that her hot friend was about to start work at a lap dancing club would it be TOO tempting for her hot blooded brother to go along.Should he sit at the back and have a quick look at the hottie...just to satisfy his curiosity?

This has just happened to a ahum...friend of mine...
 
Go and have a good time. There's no harm in looking. Those girls get paid to have men and other women come look at them. I'm a chick and I love to go to the local strip club and look at the beautiful women. Just wish I was one of them. lol
 
No one becomes a lap dancer to have people NOT look at them, you know...
 
She is in her mid twenties so obviously knows the score.It's the fact that I have known her for all of those twenty odd years.The opportunity to see her strip down to her smalls is too tempting.I'm just wondering whether to watch from a table or two away or pay for a dance myself..up close and personal ! And what her reaction might be? Would she dance for someone she knows?
 
Wyatt said:
I'm just wondering whether to watch from a table or two away or pay for a dance myself..up close and personal ! And what her reaction might be? Would she dance for someone she knows?

Walk up to her and ask if she will dance for someone she knows. ;) If she looks uncomfortable, grab a drink and go to the back of the club to watch. If she winks at you and grins, enjoy seeing that little twenty-year-old inner fantasy come true.

:) And please, please, come back and TELL US ALL.

S.
 
I have to agree with Sheath, thats how I would do it...and she's right, you have to come back and tell us what happened...are you going to be mortified if sister's friend does it and can tell how happy you are?
 
bharman4102 said:
I have to agree with Sheath, thats how I would do it...and she's right, you have to come back and tell us what happened...are you going to be mortified if sister's friend does it and can tell how happy you are?

I think you are both spot-on.That sounds like a good approach.I have just come in from work and am about to get spruced up for a night out that includes a certain lap dancing club.Haven't been to one before and wouldn't be bothering now if it wasn't for wanting to see my fantasy fulfilled..or nearly fulfilled.Went to bars in Germany that had topless dancers but don't know what she'll be left wearing in a UK club.

And for the record Bharman...I'll be only too pleased if she gives me a dance and if she's willing to dance for afriend the friend won't mind if she notices that he's happy...in fact he'll get a rise out of it:)

I will report back tomorrow ..even if It's just to say I had to look from the back of the room:(
 
A few years ago I ran into an old high school friend who was dancing topless at a local bar. Admittedly it was very awkward at first and kind of a shock to the both of us to see one another there. Once the tension was lifted I knew she had a job to do & I was just there as an observer.

By all means, man...GO! Just realize that if you as so much breathe wrong on her, one of the friendly security staff will probably "escort" you out. Go and have several eyefuls of her, get a lap dance or twelve, and have fun but realize she's doing this as a profession now. Try not to talk to her too much while she's on the job... she's gotta do this for a living too so please try to respect that at least.

Let us know if she's all that you expected and then some or even if she's a mild disappointment inthe fantasy department. Hopefully it'll be a great time for you and she's fulfilling a fantasy or two of yours. Enjoy!
 
PinkOrchid said:
Don't forget to give her a nice tip :)

Decorum! Ahhh yes, the obligatory gratutity. Don't be a cheapie here either. No "friend's discounts" when it comes to these things.:rolleyes:
 
Going off of what
If she winks at you and grins, enjoy seeing that little twenty-year-old inner fantasy come true.


I think that if she would smile and wink, yes she would give you a lap dance, but i think it's possible that it won't be somethign that you would have to pay for. Maybe she likes you and because of your sister and having known her for so long makes her gunshy to doing anything.....


Just a thought... I could be way out in left field(i know i've been there before)
 
At least OFFER to pay and if she says no, then it's her matter. Be the gentleman in a gentleman's club here.
 
It may be more awkward for her, than for you. What if she tells you, she'd do it privately, but not while she's on the job? Does that make it more exciting? You can't be cheap, even if you DO know each other. If she does tell you no charge, then tell her it's a tip, for her time. Any money she would be passing up giving you the lap dance, could be made by dancing for someone else.
 
Besides it could be a heckuva lot hotter seeing her dance for other guys and seeing their reactions. After all, you sort of already have a leg up on them considering you know her personally. Technically you could talk to her outside of the club and not get seriously re-buffed like the other guys. It could be interesting just sitting back.
 
I'm jealous of your "dilemma" but can't say I wouldn't be thinking about what to do. On the one hand, you have an awesome voyeuristic opp. On the other, you could have an amazing fantasy come true.

Damn!
 
WYATT! CALLING WYATT!

Well, man...did ya get the dance or not?

Inquiring minds want to know. ;)

S.
 
I went along to the club,took a deep breath and went in.Boy those places are uncomfortable for a guy like me to be in! I waited at the bar and a few girls were dancing but not Rhiannon(Welsh you see).I thought my time was wasted(Well as wasted as a guy watching lap dancers can be!) but I was wrong.Unfortunately or fortunately she spotted me first.She said she hadn't seen me there before and I tod her that I didn't know SHE was there and did she mind.

After a few awkward moments she said no...that it was okay.I asked if she'd dance for me later in the night(I was still at the feeling awkward stage) and she said she'd love to.

When she came across about half an hour later and asked if I was ready I was MORE than ready.Believe you me,to see a girl you've wanted for years dancing before you with the express purpose of turning you on is great.And yes...she did notice my obvious state of arousal and said

"Nothing new there! I've always been able to do that to you!"

It was a VERY expensive and VERY happy night:D

Don't know what else to tell you all
 
glad to hear you went and enjoyed it! she sounds like a cool woman....how soon before you go back? or was this a one time thing?
 
*whistles and cheers* That's awesome! :) I'm glad it worked out well for you.

Please let us know if anything more should arise ;)
 
UnseenChagrin said:
*whistles and cheers* That's awesome! :) I'm glad it worked out well for you.

Please let us know if anything more should arise ;)

From the sounds of things, plenty of Wyatt arose! Congrats on seeing a wonderful thing develop before you. Now as far as an outside relationship... anything? And could you, if you were to be in a more serious relationship, deal with the fact that she dances for other guys?

Aww heck..enjoy the fantasy for now! Several bucks lighter but if it was in fun, I applaud you for it.:D
 
Rhiannon asked me if I was going back and I honestly don't know.
I saw her develop from a scrawny friend of my sister into an AWESOME woman! That was great but I can't imagine myself making a habit of it. I'm just waiting to see if she tells my sister anything.That should be interesting.

As for Rhiannon.I saw her talking to a large bouncer/doorman a few times but she told me she is not in a relationship.She said men are interested in dancers for one thing only and that kind of relatonships not for her.I saw her dancing for other men and I must admit I got one helluva kick out of that as well.I wouldn't have a problem with that at all.

I think I'll wait to see her around to see her reaction before deciding ahat to do next.Yes I'm very interested in her and not just for a one nighter.However,I'm ten years older and a family friend.If I go back to the club I may come across as just a perve.

Her body was fantastic and GOD did she know how to use it! For a family friend and object of your desire to shake her tits and ass for you is something money can't normally buy.I did find it hard...in more ways than one.

Don't really know what to do next though.Don't want to ruin the friendship.
 
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