Lap Dance Etiquette

[slutgirl1]

Having some *ahem* experience in this, I agree that it depends, mainly on the girl you're with. Some will allow you to touch them, others won't. Ask her before you get started. She'll lay out the ground rules. Don't try and push too hard past the rules she's set for you or you can find yourself thrown out on your ass.

As for the coming, I always knew when a guy came. You can usually tell when he's close, too. Guys telegraph that just like anyone else.

 

[BonesJackson]

touching- Depends on the girl

cumming- Umm, I've never came from someone just grinding on me so I have no clue.

 

[Bokimbol]

Sounds like the old peep shows in Times Square is what you would be looking for. All gone now(disney bought everything) but some of them, for a dollar you could touch a girl anywhere on the "outside" of her body. Pay more and you could use your mouth and tongue and finger her. This window would come up that was about a foot by a foot and 4-5 girls would be in this big round room surrounded by like 15 windows. Put a quarter in and up goes the window for about 30- 60 sec. I think.

After a Van Halen concert in Manhattan in the late 70's, me and about 10 of us went there. One buddy was so drunk and high he ate the girl and didn't tip her. These 2 giant black guys grabbed him and took him away. We found him about 15 minutes later passed out on the corner of 43rd st and 8th ave. They didn't hurt him just threw him out but we were all so fucked up we almost left him there. That would not have been good.LOL. He begged not to tell his gff where is tongue had been.

 

[Martini Man]

It also depends on what city you're in (the laws and punishments vary widely).

Atlanta - Pretty much hands off, all the time.
Florida - Totally depends on the girl, but it can get pretty wild.
Las Vegas & San Fran - Somewhere in between.

In general, the hottest girls will let you touch a lot less (and will touch you a lot less) than the not-so-hot girls.

And as far as the coming question - just play it by ear. Sometimes you'll find a girl who will try to get you off and will talk to you about it during the dance. Otherwise, just keep your mouth shut.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

as for touching YMMV (your mileage may vary)
Ask the girl, but if you want to know before hand check out stripclublist.com and read some reviews. You can also post a question anonymously, but take customer answers with a grain of salt.

As for cumming, that is almost never allowed. If it does happen, be prepared to tip a ton extra. And don't be suprised if she's supremely pissed, and then none of the other dancers come anywhere near you. (The dressing room is where we talk about which ones to avoid and which ones are spending big.)