Landing a Relationship?

[Haterade]

I'm telling you, don't obsess over it you'll just get disappointed and maybe depressed. If you have the means see an escort every once in a while. Focus on work, or a sport, maybe make a hobby of the gym. There's volumes of literature out there, a lot of it very good. It's not hard, really, in a lot of ways it's a very leisurely existence.

I know. I get that. I've been doing it pretty much my entire teenage and adult life. It's just so frustrating. I feel like I'm locked in a cage like an animal or something. I hate this life... It just sucks.

 

[CWatson]

I know. I get that. I've been doing it pretty much my entire teenage and adult life. It's just so frustrating. I feel like I'm locked in a cage like an animal or something. I hate this life... It just sucks.

So change it. It'll be painful and there will be more failure than success at first... but you can do it.

 

[badman1985]

ok bro i got you here is a simple list

believe you are a good man

treat women the same way you treat man at 1st

let them know you are into them you have friends you want a companion

girls like a challenge act like you have other options or you aren't into them too much but try not to sound like a ass when doing so

don't try too hard be yourself most people "sell" themselves then after a week or two you find out who they really are (even girls do this crap)

don't fall in love right away that scares people away

other then that just fuck em right, fuck their minds then their bodies

 

[Kyssi1]

Not all girls like a challenge. Some of us are really shy, and wouldn't respond well to that. Also, it's important to realize that girls are not always on the prowl for a date. Sometimes, pairing up is not what we're thinking about. So, asking a girl out is very, very important. If you don't ask, how is she supposed to know you're interested? And, if she says no, there are plenty of other girls. It doesn't hurt if you hold the door for her, and throw in some compliments, too. Good luck!

 

[Rembrandt500]

I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I've had experience with online dating plenty of times, but when it comes to asking a girl out in person or striking up conversation..I suck. lol I'm just kind of an awkward person and my attempts at asking girls out hasn't landed me tons of positive results. I realize I gotta change something about myself in this field though, whether it be my presentation or my confidence or whatever.