KillerMuffin
Seraphically Disinclined
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- Jul 29, 2000
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I'm not much of a peace-maker, but there's a lot of crap flying around these boards lately, and it's just not fun for the board. We have enough trolls to put up with. Let's do a little something to get rid of unnecessary board tension.
It occured to me that you probably have no idea what my problem is with you. Neither does anyone else for that matter. A little air clearing is a good thing, I believe. After all, how can we form a peace based on some sort of respect when I don't even let you know what's bothering me so much? Even though you PM'ed me several months ago after you read what I wrote on one of the rape threads and we sorta had a little peace after that, I don't think I told you what set me off so bad in the first place.
It was this post:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=108864&postid=2621139#post2621139
You could have thrown anything else in my face I would have taken it in stride, but you chose to attempt to sexually dominate me instead. Not that I'm an angel either, I'll be the first to tell you that I get the crap thrown back into my face that I dish out. And I'm big enough to take it. Everything except attempts to sexually dominate that is. Humorously intended or not. It wouldn't be so bad, I don't think, if you didn't do it sporadically afterwards. Even after you offered me understanding in PM about the rape stuff, you still did it whenever our arguments degenerated into name-calling or your position eroded. But, I can't get on my high horse about this. Even though I don't fight dirty like that, I don't pull my punches, either.
That said, I think it's time to bury the hatchet. No, not in your back. Mine either. I'm not a backstabber and I'm not in the habit of being anything less than forthright. Wrongheaded, yes, but generally I'm pretty honest.
I didn't bring this up to attack you with it or to ask for an apology or anything. I want some clear understanding on all sides. What I would like for you to do is to stop using me sexually on the board. Stop mentioning my name in connection with sexual things. There's fighting dirty and then there's fighting dirty. I'm not asking you to quit attacking me whenever I get into it with you, I'm just asking you to quit attacking me sexually. That sounds bad, but I don't know how else to word it. I get the humor you're trying to use there and that you're just in it to hold up your end of an argument that's degenerated into ridiculous flaming. I'm not accusing you of being a rapist, predator, harasser, or a bad guy. I just think we have a little misunderstanding and this is the only way I could think to clear it up. It'd be a lot different if pretty much anyone else did it. I don't know what it is about you specifically that makes it so bad that I get all teeth-gnashy, but there is. You aren't the first to use this flame tactic, but you're pretty much the only one who has ever bothered me with it.
I know that I haven't been the perfect person on the board. I have my faults and they're frequent, glaring, and in-your-face. I'm not too sure what I've done to you that's miffed you as much as I've been miffed, so I can't tell you what I'll quit on that respect. I will, however, cease and desist snide commentary, quit treating you like you're the original jerk, and I'll quit with the bad attitude. If there is anything else, please let me so we can work something out to satisfaction.
This is what I'd like to see. I'd like to see a board where you say whatever you take it into your head to say and I say whatever I take it into my head to say and we don't fight over it. Not that we have a whole lot lately, but you get my drift.
I suppose all of this was just to say let's make peace. We may never be friendly, but at least we can quit the hostilities and move on.
Of course, I probably fucked this all up because I strung out on Java, but considering the past few days and the number of people getting into it, I think that detente has to start somewhere. We've been more enemies than friends, but you're a very intelligent man and I think that somewhere in all of this we can find a common ground and make this board a better place to come to for both of us.
What do you think?
It occured to me that you probably have no idea what my problem is with you. Neither does anyone else for that matter. A little air clearing is a good thing, I believe. After all, how can we form a peace based on some sort of respect when I don't even let you know what's bothering me so much? Even though you PM'ed me several months ago after you read what I wrote on one of the rape threads and we sorta had a little peace after that, I don't think I told you what set me off so bad in the first place.
It was this post:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=108864&postid=2621139#post2621139
You could have thrown anything else in my face I would have taken it in stride, but you chose to attempt to sexually dominate me instead. Not that I'm an angel either, I'll be the first to tell you that I get the crap thrown back into my face that I dish out. And I'm big enough to take it. Everything except attempts to sexually dominate that is. Humorously intended or not. It wouldn't be so bad, I don't think, if you didn't do it sporadically afterwards. Even after you offered me understanding in PM about the rape stuff, you still did it whenever our arguments degenerated into name-calling or your position eroded. But, I can't get on my high horse about this. Even though I don't fight dirty like that, I don't pull my punches, either.
That said, I think it's time to bury the hatchet. No, not in your back. Mine either. I'm not a backstabber and I'm not in the habit of being anything less than forthright. Wrongheaded, yes, but generally I'm pretty honest.
I didn't bring this up to attack you with it or to ask for an apology or anything. I want some clear understanding on all sides. What I would like for you to do is to stop using me sexually on the board. Stop mentioning my name in connection with sexual things. There's fighting dirty and then there's fighting dirty. I'm not asking you to quit attacking me whenever I get into it with you, I'm just asking you to quit attacking me sexually. That sounds bad, but I don't know how else to word it. I get the humor you're trying to use there and that you're just in it to hold up your end of an argument that's degenerated into ridiculous flaming. I'm not accusing you of being a rapist, predator, harasser, or a bad guy. I just think we have a little misunderstanding and this is the only way I could think to clear it up. It'd be a lot different if pretty much anyone else did it. I don't know what it is about you specifically that makes it so bad that I get all teeth-gnashy, but there is. You aren't the first to use this flame tactic, but you're pretty much the only one who has ever bothered me with it.
I know that I haven't been the perfect person on the board. I have my faults and they're frequent, glaring, and in-your-face. I'm not too sure what I've done to you that's miffed you as much as I've been miffed, so I can't tell you what I'll quit on that respect. I will, however, cease and desist snide commentary, quit treating you like you're the original jerk, and I'll quit with the bad attitude. If there is anything else, please let me so we can work something out to satisfaction.
This is what I'd like to see. I'd like to see a board where you say whatever you take it into your head to say and I say whatever I take it into my head to say and we don't fight over it. Not that we have a whole lot lately, but you get my drift.
I suppose all of this was just to say let's make peace. We may never be friendly, but at least we can quit the hostilities and move on.
Of course, I probably fucked this all up because I strung out on Java, but considering the past few days and the number of people getting into it, I think that detente has to start somewhere. We've been more enemies than friends, but you're a very intelligent man and I think that somewhere in all of this we can find a common ground and make this board a better place to come to for both of us.
What do you think?
