Lady looking for something

[plusungoodgirl]

Sorry this is so long but I would hate to raise any false expectations. And this is probably the wrong place too but then everywhere is the wrong place for what I seek. Currently there's no special someone in my life so I am reliant on my little box of toys, just a couple of vibrators, a couple of dildos and wand vibrator but plenty enough to occupy me and bring me pleasure. What I seek is someone who is willing to organise my masturbation for me, someone who will enjoy having me pay for my orgasms in the coinage of frustration.

What does that someone get in return? Not a lot, no pictures, no audios, especially no videos or facetime, sorry but these days a girl simply cannot be too careful if she does not want to be seen to be naked, wet and willing all over the internet. If you are not happy with that read no further, simply pass on to your next opportunity.

Back to what you get. There'll be no roleplay I will follow your instructions to the best of my ability or, if you go too far or too fast for me or if what you ask is simply not practical, I'll explain why not. On that score I have a good level of privacy at home. I will write to you regularly and I'm not illiterate; well this is Literotica. I will call you Master, Mistress, Sir, Ma'am, Daddy or Mummy if that pleases you. You can ask to control other things besides my masturbation, I make no promises but you are indulging me in my little kink so I will do my best to accommodate your little kink or even kinks. As long as you are good at what you do I don't care about your age, appearance or anything much else, it's the internet. As to me, it's in my bio but I'm a 26 year old woman living in the UK. I'm neither fat nor skinny, short nor tall, smallish breasts, smallish bum and I've dated both men and women. I tried out the BDSM test and here are the top few results https://www.bdsmtest.org 98% Rope bunny 98% Submissive 68% Voyeur 64% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 59% Brat 49% Vanilla 49% Exhibitionist 48% Little

What's off limits? Well there's the obvious, like; children, animals, blood, pee and poo. No involving others in our little games without their, my and your express consent. Aside from a some tie and tease I've no real experience with BDSM so no rushing or pushing and lots of discussion, recall 64% Experimentalist but 49% Vanilla.

Now please form an orderly queue with no pushing and shoving. The process might be slow, I can only follow directions from one person at a time but as long as you sound even vaguely promising you'll be on my list of possibilities.

 

[Wren200]

Lucky enough to see this early, I have a pleasure kink, this for me means that all I want to do is help you enjoy yourself and I get quite turned on by this. I also love the control aspects of telling a partner how to pleasure themselves. If your intrested feel free to message me.
Thanks for your time.

 

[JessForFun37]

@plusungoodgirl

Thank you for putting yourself out there with this share.

I love seeing the 68% Voyeur 64% Experimentalist 49% Vanilla 49% Exhibitionist.

Any time PM me.

 

[Darkweather]

Sorry this is so long but I would hate to raise any false expectations. And this is probably the wrong place too but then everywhere is the wrong place for what I seek. Currently there's no special someone in my life so I am reliant on my little box of toys, just a couple of vibrators, a couple of dildos and wand vibrator but plenty enough to occupy me and bring me pleasure. What I seek is someone who is willing to organise my masturbation for me, someone who will enjoy having me pay for my orgasms in the coinage of frustration.

A nice detailed introduction of what you are wanting - well done!
My natural control desires are very intrigued and open to chat anytime!

 

[9to5]

you have a nice start and well explained on what your looking for

 

[JT1999]

Hot. I did this for a while with another woman on another forum, she was early 30s and bisexual like me. We would both have long masturbation sessions and tell each other about them, with suggestions for what we wanted the other to do next time. I hope you find someone.

 

[JT1999]

No photos, no facetime etc is definitely what I'd recommend, you can't be too careful these days.

 

[Raybies93]

No photos, no facetime etc is definitely what I'd recommend, you can't be too careful these days.

I only had one bad experience on line and it was my fault for playing into an obvious scam.

 

[JT1999]

I only had one bad experience on line and it was my fault for playing into an obvious scam.

Years ago I posted some topless photos on Reddit r/A_cups for a laugh and a bit of attention and found the same photos posted later by other people on other subreddits. So glad I didn't show my face.

 

[Raybies93]

Yeah my ex had an old bf that put her titpics on boards all over her college. People, especially men, suck.

 

[IARainman]

Years ago I posted some topless photos on Reddit r/A_cups for a laugh and a bit of attention and found the same photos posted later by other people on other subreddits. So glad I didn't show my face.

That was you? I loved those!!

Seriously, sorry that happened to you. Why I almost never share face.

 

[JT1999]

That was you? I loved those!!

Seriously, sorry that happened to you. Why I almost never share face.

I'm glad someone loved them!

 

[plusungoodgirl]

Thank you lovely people for all your replies both here and as messages, now I'm making a list and checking it twice to see who sounds naughty and who sounds nice, bonus points if you sound both. Please do check you read my original post correctly, I've recieved a couple of replies from people who sound as if they really ought to have dropped out at the end of my second paragraph.

JT1999 thanks for your wishes, I certainly now have some choice though it's a pity your hat does not seem to be in the ring because you are one of the ones who really sound like thay know what I am talking about.

 

[JT1999]

Thank you lovely people for all your replies both here and as messages, now I'm making a list and checking it twice to see who sounds naughty and who sounds nice, bonus points if you sound both. Please do check you read my original post correctly, I've recieved a couple of replies from people who sound as if they really ought to have dropped out at the end of my second paragraph.

JT1999 thanks for your wishes, I certainly now have some choice though it's a pity your hat does not seem to be in the ring because you are one of the ones who really sound like thay know what I am talking about.

Well I was tempted. Normally I would definitely be up for something like this but I'm not really feeling it at the moment, I'm 6 months pregnant and my horniness is not what it was. I'm sure you'll find someone on here though, hopefully a woman. Its always better with another woman.

 

[plusungoodgirl]

Well I was tempted. Normally I would definitely be up for something like this but I'm not really feeling it at the moment, I'm 6 months pregnant and my horniness is not what it was. I'm sure you'll find someone on here though, hopefully a woman. Its always better with another woman.

Congratulations, you'll soon have lots to keep you busy As for responses all male at the moment but I will bear your words of wisdom in mind, sounds like the voice of experience.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

Currently there's no special someone in my life so I am reliant on my little box of toys, just a couple of vibrators, a couple of dildos and wand vibrator but plenty enough to occupy me and bring me pleasure. What I seek is someone who is willing to organise my masturbation for me, someone who will enjoy having me pay for my orgasms in the coinage of frustration.

I am sorry for your loneliness. I would love to assist you with your masturbation and share in your fantasies, if you get to me in the queue.

What does that someone get in return? Not a lot, no pictures, no audios, especially no videos or facetime, sorry but these days a girl simply cannot be too careful if she does not want to be seen to be naked, wet and willing all over the internet. If you are not happy with that read no further, simply pass on to your next opportunity.

This is absolutely fine. You do not need to share any of that.

Back to what you get. There'll be no roleplay

Acceptable, I like real life stuff more than pretend.

I can direct you how to masturbate in real time when we talk, and talk dirty to you, and write fantasies for you to enjoy, and if you want we can discuss meeting IRL so you can have a special someone actually in your life. Or you can take that off the table, that's all fine with me.

I will follow your instructions to the best of my ability or, if you go too far or too fast for me or if what you ask is simply not practical, I'll explain why not. On that score I have a good level of privacy at home. I will write to you regularly and I'm not illiterate;

I would appreciate a woman who reads and responds, yes.

It sounds like you would take it seriously, which is good.

well this is Literotica. I will call you Master, Mistress, Sir, Ma'am, Daddy or Mummy if that pleases you.

This is very nice, I would absolutely call you my good girl in return. If you're good.

I would prefer Daddy or Mummy as you prefer, you pick. I'm trans so... your choice.

You can ask to control other things besides my masturbation, I make no promises but you are indulging me in my little kink so I will do my best to accommodate your little kink or even kinks. As long as you are good at what you do I don't care about your age, appearance or anything much else, it's the internet.

This sounds absolutely fascinating.

As to me, it's in my bio but I'm a 26 year old woman living in the UK. I'm neither fat nor skinny, short nor tall, smallish breasts, smallish bum and I've dated both men and women.

Excellent, I would be highly desiring of a bisexual woman if this were to lead somewhere. See, trans. That would be why.

UK is great, I'm a short hop across the pond in Norway, near the airport in gardermoen.

I tried out the BDSM test and here are the top few results https://www.bdsmtest.org 98% Rope bunny 98% Submissive 68% Voyeur 64% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 59% Brat 49% Vanilla 49% Exhibitionist 48% Little

https://bdsmtest.org/r/kXGJtJLr
This is mine...

More about that-

A quick overview for you, I identify as a service dominant, which is like a submissive, but it is someone who pleasures you AND takes the lead on what we're doing- for the longest time I thought I was a submissive because I was not part of any d/s community and had an idea that all dominants were sadists? I had no idea there were other kinds.

Well I'm not a masochist and I'm absolutely not a sadist, your pleasure is my goal, not your pain or real humiliation or real degradation and I am an ardent feminist and beneath the roleplay and sexual liberation, I respect you as an equal and I take consent very seriously and I respect all desires to stop, slow down, or change direction.

The dominant part is a game, it's like.... you get to go for a ride at the amusement park and FEEL as though you're not in control, because you're on a roller coaster and it is safe thrills, but here, you really are in control and can stop at any time.

I have actually been naked and had sex in front of people before, it was incredibly erotic. So I can be exhibitionist, with the right person. As with all kinks, we don't need to explore them if they aren't your thing, I just enjoyed this, and it is an option if you want it.

I also like to watch, and I am not jealous, so if you want to be poly and see other people, and want to be watched, I can be your safe third partner for such an activity. So voyeurism, for the exhibitionist in you that would prefer me to watch over participate. I can be your voyeur if you want.

I have been monogamous all my life, because that has been my partner's preference, but, I am not a jealous person and if you seek to have a boyfriend or girlfriend as well as me, you may. With my permission and consent. Just please get tested and let me get to know your partner, I don't want to catch an STD, be safe with me please. I have to trust you with my life! Be responsible! I can be polyamorous or share you with others, if you wish. I will not cheat on you.

I am open to exploring your kinks and things I've never done. But if you have none and are fine with where we are, I am also fine with fairly vanilla sex as well. I hope you like oral performed on you as well as fingers and toys and like being pleasured in ways other than just missionary, but I can do a good missionary as well for my lady love!

I do not view my role as a service dominant as an actual position of authority, it is just a game, you may feel free to try to wriggle free or playfully struggle back, that's fun! Just make sure it is a game, if you want to stop, or be freed, just tell me outright or let's agree on a safe word. I am here to make dreams come true and grant wishes, handcuffs are for play, not for real. I am meant for your sexual liberation, I am not your jailer, not in any way except for fun because YOU like being tied up.

I am very much okay with you throwing yourself into the role of a beloved submissive and you may call me whatever you want and we can engage in spicy pillow talk and if you get off on good girl praise kink, or (loving, and for play) sensual degrading dirty talk, I can whisper whatever loving spicy pure-hearted sexy talk into your ear that you want. It is just another way of pleasing you, my sweet girl.

I do not require being the dominant ever, nor all the time, and I can switch, I just prefer to be the one guiding things, I get more pleasure from giving pleasure than receiving. If that's okay, so I make for a less interesting submissive, myself. I am also only open to certain kinds of power fantasies or being verbally degraded, so check with me first and be kind and loving.

I can engage in activities meant just to thrill you personally, your body directly, or give you interesting visual or audio stimulus. But let's talk about it first. So if you wanted me to engage in behaviors I might otherwise not engage in on my own, because it thrills you or fulfills your fantasies, let's discuss.

What's off limits? Well there's the obvious, like; children, animals, blood, pee and poo. No involving others in our little games without their, my and your express consent. Aside from a some tie and tease I've no real experience with BDSM so no rushing or pushing and lots of discussion, recall 64% Experimentalist but 49% Vanilla.

I accept and heartily agree with your limits.
No one else, just us.

I have experimented with very light bondage and erotic spanking but I would not bind you or risk you feeling any pain unless it were something you wanted.

In other words, if you don't enjoy spanking there will be none.

If you want it, I will be as gentle as you allow, to be safe. You will have to be the one to tell me you want it harder, for example.

As for being bound up, you can be freed with a request or a safe word, and I will always ask consent before binding you.

Vanilla is more than okay.

Now please form an orderly queue with no pushing and shoving. The process might be slow, I can only follow directions from one person at a time but as long as you sound even vaguely promising you'll be on my list of possibilities.

Nice.

Okay, if the others fail to impress, please send me a private message.

It would be helpful to know your specific desires and kinks if at all possible so I can better organize your fantasies and masturbation time.

For instance, if you hated being called dirty names, it would be helpful to know that so I can know to not include that ever.

If you hated being spanked I would make sure to never include that in a fantasy I write for you.

If you dislike anal play, I will never instruct you to prepare for, or insert, things in your ass.

A good mistress or master needs to know the wishes and desires of their beloved submissive, in order to curate a better experience.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

The process might be slow,

Good girls cum for those who wait.

A good girl for daddy is worth waiting for.

 

[dutifulrose]

"The play's the thing, Wherein [you]'ll catch the conscience of the [queen]." Hamlet, Act 2, Scene 2.

Forsooth, ye provisional paramours, ’tis perchance not her conscience, but rather her steadfast heed to the charge bestowed. Yet, for a fleeting while, both may be beguiled and led astray. Whether such beguilement prove profound or passing rests solely upon the vision thou dost conjure

Comparisons to Shakespeare aside, I wish you only contentment (although diversion works well in a pinch - or rub) @plusungoodgirl with what may unfold

 

[Asilverfox23]

"The play's the thing, Wherein [you]'ll catch the conscience of the [queen]." Hamlet, Act 2, Scene 2.

Forsooth, ye provisional paramours, ’tis perchance not her conscience, but rather her steadfast heed to the charge bestowed. Yet, for a fleeting while, both may be beguiled and led astray. Whether such beguilement prove profound or passing rests solely upon the vision thou dost conjure

Comparisons to Shakespeare aside, I wish you only contentment (although diversion works well in a pinch - or rub) @plusungoodgirl with what may unfold

@dutifulrose the fact that you used Shakespeare is absolutely glorious! Brava, good lady! Brava!

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

Forsooth, ye provisional paramours, ’tis perchance not her conscience, but rather her steadfast heed to the charge bestowed. Yet, for a fleeting while, both may be beguiled and led astray. Whether such beguilement prove profound or passing rests solely upon the vision thou dost conjure

Comparisons to Shakespeare aside, I wish you only contentment (although diversion works well in a pinch - or rub) @plusungoodgirl with what may unfold

All things in life are temporary, some things just last long enough to seem permanent.

I firmly believe relationships with good chemistry get missed a lot because the person who might most heavily match your sexual and emotional relationship needs is almost never the person your eyes pick out and stand out from the crowd.

The lady wants to know if someone has sexual chemistry with her and can get her off in her bedroom with the power of their mind.

Just.... imagination and creativity.

I applaud that approach, because if she finds someone that drives her absolutely sex mad in the bedroom, chances are, that chemistry could still exist in person.

She basically is getting to know the person on the inside, especially the most exciting bits related to sexual chemistry, and then later, MAYBE, if things go that way, it's possible she might get curious about this mysterious stranger who knows instinctively how to press all her erotic buttons and reach orgasm.

And then the fun surprise is that this person has even more depth and is actually worth talking to. But no one leads with that because it's not that exciting in a dating profile.

But it sure is a good benefit.

Let's see if anyone actually lights a fire in her dreams.

I think that's a worthy way to demonstrate relationship value.

Plus, it gets rid of a thousand candidates who are too lazy to write a paragraph, and thus, are too immature to have a relationship.

This is a very smart way to play the relationship game, and if it should lead nowhere, it will become apparent quickly.

And even if all she gets out of it are a good wank or a few good wanks, you know, that's more than I've gotten from most of the people I've sent PMs to so far.

Sometimes people forget to respond because they're talking to 20 guys, or, they don't know how to write a paragraph.

Which isn't fun for either partner, of any gender. So I empathize.