Ladies - Would you prefer to be shared or not?

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A question for my fellow women. IF you are 100% honest with yourself, would you rather have a jealous partner that keeps you to themselves, or one who shares you with their friends and/or "loans you out"?

For me, it's the latter. The idea of being put on display and shared, either to make my partner's friends happy or to show off, turns me on.
 
A question for my fellow women. IF you are 100% honest with yourself, would you rather have a jealous partner that keeps you to themselves, or one who shares you with their friends and/or "loans you out"?

For me, it's the latter. The idea of being put on display and shared, either to make my partner's friends happy or to show off, turns me on.

I’m certainly not a lady, but I enjoy the latter immensely.
 
Being shared

It took me two years to convince my late wife to try being shared but once she did she was hooked. In seventeen years I had the pleasure of seeing her enjoy over forty different men hundreds of times. And she loved to show off in public
 
Oh for sure shared!

Still trying to talk hub's into being in the same room, but at least this year "he" lol finally got the idea to go to a swingers party. That was fun and part of the night was dedicated to being "reclaimed" afterwards which was fucking crazy hot for the both of us! (he finally admitted it after which was a bit of a surprise because he generally is definitely the jealous type) :D
 
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Oh for sure shared!

Still trying to talk hub's into being in the same room, but at least this year "he" lol finally got the idea to go to a swingers party. That was fun and part of the night was dedicated to being "reclaimed" afterwards which was fucking crazy hot! :D

Reclaiming would be a must!
 
A question for my fellow women. IF you are 100% honest with yourself, would you rather have a jealous partner that keeps you to themselves, or one who shares you with their friends and/or "loans you out"?

For me, it's the latter. The idea of being put on display and shared, either to make my partner's friends happy or to show off, turns me on.

Same here. I love that hubby is comfortable enough in our relationship to allow sexual exploration. We don't, however, play with friends or anyone that we know in our personal lives....only play partners or someone we meet out and pickup.

I also share hubby
 
A question for my fellow women. IF you are 100% honest with yourself, would you rather have a jealous partner that keeps you to themselves, or one who shares you with their friends and/or "loans you out"?

For me, it's the latter. The idea of being put on display and shared, either to make my partner's friends happy or to show off, turns me on.

Oh god, I don't think I could ever be in a committed relationship that didn't involve sharing. As a board certified, card carrying member of the exhibitionists club, I LOVE being shown off by my husband and shared.
I'm lucky in that we have an amazing group of friends we play with (pre covid) and I can't wait for all this to be under control so we can do that all again safely
 
Oh god, I don't think I could ever be in a committed relationship that didn't involve sharing. As a board certified, card carrying member of the exhibitionists club, I LOVE being shown off by my husband and shared.
I'm lucky in that we have an amazing group of friends we play with (pre covid) and I can't wait for all this to be under control so we can do that all again safely

Covid is actually what got my husband and his best friend talking back in March about their Bucket Lists. Turns out I was on his friends list and his friends wife was on my husband's list (which I already knew because we had pillow talked about her tons of times because she is or rather was on mine too :devil:)

So, in a weird way, Covid is what made my normally super possessive, only other women husband agree to a party where we all went off with whoever (there were only three couples so it wasn't really that complicated lol but everyone slept over and we resumed swapping partners in the morning!0
 
Covid is actually what got my husband and his best friend talking back in March about their Bucket Lists. Turns out I was on his friends list and his friends wife was on my husband's list (which I already knew because we had pillow talked about her tons of times because she is or rather was on mine too :devil:)

So, in a weird way, Covid is what made my normally super possessive, only other women husband agree to a party where we all went off with whoever (there were only three couples so it wasn't really that complicated lol but everyone slept over and we resumed swapping partners in the morning!0

oh my god!!! that's like the best covid story ever!!! Holy crap!! Well I am VERY glad SOMETHING good came out of this stupid virus
 
oh my god!!! that's like the best covid story ever!!! Holy crap!! Well I am VERY glad SOMETHING good came out of this stupid virus

I guess it just proves a couple of horny guys can even turn fear about the end of the world into something sexual LOL

I was freaking out abut everything back in early March and then he came home with that idea one afternoon and I was all "Sure! What the fuck!" :D And fortunately his parents didn't have the good sense yet to say no when we asked them if they wanted to watch our kids over the weekend.

Looking back now, we were pretty stupid about a lot of things. But, I can't say I'm not glad that we were :) Not sure if we'd do it again knowing what we know now and we haven't done it since. But, we are all talking about it that's for sure. Two other couples found out about it and want in on the next time too so it's actually getting sort of complicated!

Can we all have our vaccines now please? We've got people to do and new things to try! :rolleyes: :D
 
Definitly shared or "loaned out!" I do not want a jealouse man keeping me all to himself. I have been shared a lot in the past, and I much prefer than, even if a am loaned to a slug once in awhile. Slugs are few and far between I found. Yes some guys are better in bed that others, but over all I really enjyed it. Takes a lot of trust and honesty to work in a relationship.
 
I guess it just proves a couple of horny guys can even turn fear about the end of the world into something sexual LOL

I was freaking out abut everything back in early March and then he came home with that idea one afternoon and I was all "Sure! What the fuck!" :D And fortunately his parents didn't have the good sense yet to say no when we asked them if they wanted to watch our kids over the weekend.

Looking back now, we were pretty stupid about a lot of things. But, I can't say I'm not glad that we were :) Not sure if we'd do it again knowing what we know now and we haven't done it since. But, we are all talking about it that's for sure. Two other couples found out about it and want in on the next time too so it's actually getting sort of complicated!

Can we all have our vaccines now please? We've got people to do and new things to try! :rolleyes: :D

This is a great story Liz. Unfortunately you are right about safety in the current situation. The statistics show that this is the worst of it. Normal is nearly a year away and we still see antivaxxer crazies getting it for a long time. Anticipation makes the heart grow horny though!
 
Honestly, I wouldn't say no to my man if he wanted to share me with some of his friends. Not all of them, though.. just the ones who I find attractive.
 
I guess it just proves a couple of horny guys can even turn fear about the end of the world into something sexual LOL

I was freaking out abut everything back in early March and then he came home with that idea one afternoon and I was all "Sure! What the fuck!" :D And fortunately his parents didn't have the good sense yet to say no when we asked them if they wanted to watch our kids over the weekend.

Looking back now, we were pretty stupid about a lot of things. But, I can't say I'm not glad that we were :) Not sure if we'd do it again knowing what we know now and we haven't done it since. But, we are all talking about it that's for sure. Two other couples found out about it and want in on the next time too so it's actually getting sort of complicated!

Can we all have our vaccines now please? We've got people to do and new things to try! :rolleyes: :D

LOL, I love you!
 
I would 100% love to be shared and loaned out, but my husband does not like this idea at all.
 
Neither one. I only need one man, and I can't stand jealousy. Yeah, yeah, I have two right now. Neither is my life partner. They're my Covid guys.
 
A question for my fellow women. IF you are 100% honest with yourself, would you rather have a jealous partner that keeps you to themselves, or one who shares you with their friends and/or "loans you out"?

For me, it's the latter. The idea of being put on display and shared, either to make my partner's friends happy or to show off, turns me on.

100% shared and loaned out. I have had four major relationships over the years, they all were open and sharing was a big part of that; in my first two and current relationship, I am shared among a group of friends. In the other one, it was mostly just other couples in a swingers group.
 
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