Ladies...what makes sex good for you?

[Quiet_Cool]

Just a general question...WHat makes sex for women good, and while we're discussing it, how good is the sex you've had? The stories here are representative of mostly what we wish were ture (hence the perfect waist sizes and humongous breasts, not to mention the fact that every other man in the stories written here would put John Holmes to shame), but what usually isn't. I'm trying to sort through some of the fantasy and get to reality...what makes it enjoyable? Is size really THAT important? What do you like speciafically, about foreplay? Meaning what things you enjoy us doing, not why you like it as a whole...
Long story short...what makes women tick? How big a part are looks and personality? Give me a big picture and small details....

 

[Bubblegum *sugarless*]

What makes sex good for you?

A partner.




Or fresh batteries.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Five things:

Imagination
Stamina
Knowledge
A light touch
Agronomy

 

[Willing and Unsure]

knowing that he cares aobut me, and that it isnt just sex... he really is showing that he loves me and that he wants me to feel good (yes he tries to make it all about me) and i think it helps taht i try to make him feel good.. so we're at a win-win situation and it's always good

 

[MissTaken]

The give and take of intimacy. It isn't always about how he touches my crotch, perhaps it is how he touches my face that is exciting. That we pay attention and are equally interested in pleasing the other.

Size isn't an issue. But, I would be lying if I said an ability to keep it up wasn't necessary.

Having a partner with the same interests and limits ( or lack thereof) makes sure niether of us leaves the bedroom disappointed.

 

[ReallyOldLady]

Re: What makes sex good for you?

fresh batteries.

Okay everybody. She has finally announced it. She wants batteries. Be sure to include them on your next shopping list.
(I am noting that the only "need" you have listed for yourself is batteries. Hhhhmmm.... )

(I just love being a smart ass sometimes!)

Oh yeah-I suppose I should include what I seek in a lover also. I want one who doesn't care or ever mention my many imperfections. I want one who cares about my pleasures: emotional, physical, and mental. And I want one that can carry on a conversation after we are finished fucking.

 

[Guest]

Five things:

Imagination
Stamina
Knowledge
A light touch
Agronomy [/QUW

Well 4 out5 aint bad. But if I miss on the last one does it disqualify me ?

 

[Guest]

Five things:

Imagination
Stamina
Knowledge
A light touch
Agronomy [/QUW

Well 4 out5 aint bad. But if I miss on the last one does it disqualify me ?

dsamn cookies

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

Five things:

Imagination
Stamina
Knowledge
A light touch
Agronomy

Agronomy is the most important. Hell, I don't have any of the other 4, but I'm ready to show off my horticultural prowess. C'mon baby let me plow your field. Let me plant my seed. I'm all about ruttin'. Farmer Ollie is ready to go!

 

[juicylips]

Great Lover is...

Unselfish,

Leaves me satisfied and yet wanting more,

Ready when I am,

Eager to try anything!

Cassidy

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Okay, those answers are all fine and dandy, but the only thing that was said that's specific is...well, batteries. I'm looking for more complete answers. I've written a few stories on here, and I don't feel the female characters have realistic reactions to the male ones. I want to know more about what you feel given certain circumstances and what circumstances will make you feel what you want to feel. That knowing he cares type answer is good and true I'm sure, but the answers I'm looking for are things like:
Do women respond positively to any size penis (most of my character are average, like myself--I think I'm about aveage...)?
Where do you want to be touched?
How long will it take you to have an orgasm when orally stimulated, and how should this stimulation be applied to make it the best?
How long during regualr intercourse?
How much foreplay is too little, how much is too much?
Anal sex? Well, anything about a woman's view on anal sex would help...
I'd rely on personal experience (except for the anal sex thing--never done that), except, believing a woman when talking about sex is almost impossible, especially when everyone I know has a bias toward me (a natural one, nothing special)...

 

[juicylips]

Lots of good questions...

You are going to get a lot of different answers!

Most women I talk with are happy with a 6 or 7 inch penis, which I think is average. They are ecstatic with 8 or 9 inches. But if the guy has no sense of how to use it correctly, so what??

Sometimes the foreplay is so intense that penetration will set you off immendiately, other times it takes a long hard fuck to get off.

Moods...attitude....a lot of things play into it.

Same with oral... if you so fucking ready that soon as his tongue touches your clit you are off... sometimes it takes a while as in 15 or 20 minutes...

Usually a lot of foreplay means great sex...what kind of foreplay?? Again, it depends on who you are talking to...

Hope this helps a little,
Cassidy

 

[KillerMuffin]

You know what arouses men. What arouses women? Doctors and agronomists do it for me. Why? Because they play a role in my brain that gets me going. The provide the fantasy and the banter and the words that make me shiver.

Women like to be mentally seduced. They like words and compliments and dirty talk. They like to hear about how they turn men on. Their arousal is entirely mental.

That and just banging away doesn't get her off.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Okay, yeah they're ecstatic with 8 or 9, but I try to stay out of that group that has all male leads that are humongous in their size, or even above average...just like I don't want to have too many where the women are all humongously breasted.
How small is too small to enjoy...Where do you like to be touched during foreplay and during sex...don't tell me about all women...just you...

 

[lovetoread]

Just my thoughts in random order........

I have to say that rubbing my back is erotic to me. I can be ready to go with a nice long back rub that isnt sexual at all.

I also prefer to be brought to orgasm before the actual sex begins,as I like the doggie style, and my husband would fall over in a heart attack if I actually reached down to help myself to an orgasm. I also think that size does matter,in the fact that if you are too big it hurts and what fun is that if you arent into the pain kind of thing?