Ladies: What is Sexy to you??

[intrigued]

Since I asked the guys this, I thought it only fair that we enlighten them, as well....
This has been on my mind alot lately, so I thought this would be a good place to come for answers. This is really a two part question. I would like to know what you think is sexy in a man? What first catches your eye...then, what holds your attention? Please, I am not just talking about physical attributes, but also mentally; personality, mannerisms, etc. I am talking about initial encounters, and also in relationships. And in relationships, what is the sexiest thing a man can do, that time after time, still "gets you"?
Also, here at Lit...what do you find sexy in a man...in both his pics and his postings in general?


Thanks very much, back in a bit.

 

[Siren]

 

[Guest]

FIRST POSTS are sexy to me

You crack me up, woman!

Moon

 

[Siren]

To answer your questions........

 

[Pixie]

Re: To answer your questions........

sexiest thing to catch my attention?

........a great sense of humor.


Sexiest thing to do for me?

............Make me coffee in morning, naked and give it to me in bed.

sexy at lit?

.........wit.

I have to agree with all of that, that's a good list.

(and I'm too drunk to think of anything to add to that...)

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Sence of homour.
Kind heart.
Mostache.
Hairy chest.
Someone who can spell better than me.


Oh looky there, that discribes my Mapleman.

 

[pipercatt]

Hmm..sexy.

I find that someone that can engage in conversation sexy. Sense of humor is a must. Someone that has a wide variety of interests, but isn't a know it all about everything.

Physically, on a guy, I like shoulders, hands that are rough, but have a sensitive touch. Eyes that can twinkle, yet look like they've lived awhile, too.

LOL, I don't want much, do I?
grin.

 

[metal_minx]

humor, intelligence, tenderness, wit, charm, and a huge schlong...well ok not the huge schlong but i just wanted to say schlong

 

[marksgirl]

I found out the chase is very sexy. Nothing better than someone who knows what they want and goes after it. I like sexy kissing with a cute butt (that was one thing I noticed right off the bat). The way he looks at me with those so very blue eyes. Just the way he touched me so very soft and knowing..........woohoo.........his wit and understanding. Oh shit I have a list as long as my arm about all the sexy things that attracted me to him and it just keeps growing by the day. I'm one lucky lady. And he has just the right amount of body hair.

 

[BlondeBunny]

I find the mind to be a very sexy thing. I love a guy who challenges me, intellectually. True wit and an excellent sense of humor are also very sexy. Physically, I love to watch a guy's mouth. His smile is sexy, his lips are super sexy, and imagining what he can do with his mouth is the biggest turn-on of all.

 

[marksgirl]

I agree, the very first time I kissed my husband I was hooked.

 

[Lady_J]

I love a chisled jawline... so manly.

Humor is a must.

Intelligence.

Oh, and nice forearms, with muscles and those little veins, grrrr.

 

[SexyWench]

The eyes;

The wit;

The way he hugs you, just because;

He gropes you cuz he finds you sexy (even in your grungy clothes);

Brings you flowers because he saw them and thought of you;

Your eyes lock, no words are said, but you know...

 

[weed]

Mmmmm, I agree on eyes as a physical attribute I tend to notice

More important though....

that I am comfortable enough to share anything, everything....a special trust

As for sex....
the way he likes my tease and the tease he gives me

and that's just to start

 

[becca80]

Since I asked the guys this, I thought it only fair that we enlighten them, as well....
This has been on my mind alot lately, so I thought this would be a good place to come for answers. This is really a two part question. I would like to know what you think is sexy in a man? What first catches your eye...then, what holds your attention? Please, I am not just talking about physical attributes, but also mentally; personality, mannerisms, etc. I am talking about initial encounters, and also in relationships. And in relationships, what is the sexiest thing a man can do, that time after time, still "gets you"?
Also, here at Lit...what do you find sexy in a man...in both his pics and his postings in general?


Thanks very much, back in a bit.

Sexy in a man?
Confidence, but not arrogance. Just something simple as the way he introduces himself will get my attention. And of course, a good sense of humor.

What still "gets me"?
It's not really what he does, but who he is that still gets me. His mannerisms, his attitude.. HE still gets me, period.

Here at lit?
Pics: a face. Bonus points for babies or pets included in pics.
Postings: wit, charm, and subtle flirting.

 

[mistressastra]

Nothing like a man who has a great sense of humour, accompanied by a nice cologne. Something that makes me want to press up against him and inhale deeply.

 

[SXCRgirl]

You can tell a lot about a man by the way he laughs. I love men who laugh heartily and I find that extremely sexy. A man who is intelligent, kind and caring, yet not a pushover is definitely on the top of my list. I think a man who's got a beautiful smile will always catch my eye. Oh and I have a thing for tall men - they just always get my attention.

When I'm in a relationship, I love it when a man remembers something that you've said and surprise you with it at a later date. What makes me stay is knowing that he's dependable and reliable, yet willing to grow with you.

 

[csharp_7]

Thanks for starting this thread, and thanks to all the ladies who are posting here.

This is quite informative for a guy like me, who has always wondered.

 

[Star of Penumbra]

Hmm. It seems a number of women like man's eyes. So what about the sorry bastards like me who are stuck with inch-thick glasses? Are we ugly?

 

[wetmarlene]

I find the mind to be a very sexy thing. I love a guy who challenges me, intellectually. True wit and an excellent sense of humor are also very sexy. Physically, I love to watch a guy's mouth. His smile is sexy, his lips are super sexy, and imagining what he can do with his mouth is the biggest turn-on of all.

Your first and only post so far Bunny - but you have summed it up pretty brilliantly

 

[becca80]

Hmm. It seems a number of women like man's eyes. So what about the sorry bastards like me who are stuck with inch-thick glasses? Are we ugly?

Of course not. We can still see your eyes through your glasses. Just check out VanB's AV.. yum yum.