Ladies, what are you thinking when we ......

[Charly]

Here's a question all men have to one degree or the other:

Girls, what goes through your mind when we do what is natural to us -- look at you with admiration of the beauty of your bodies.

Exclude the obvious geeks and unpleasant bastards - I mean just in the normal course of daily life, we simply can't help ourselves. We always move for a better view; love looking down your cleavage, seeing that bit of lovely white bra, a glimpse of thigh, the trace of your panty line across a well padded bottom.

When you are aware of our doing that, what is going through your mind. Also, do we ever get away with pretending we aren't doing those things?

 

[*bratcat*]

you are in our power...

 

[Starfish]

ummm, it's nice to know he still finds me exciting like that!

 

[ranajja]

Oh, yes...

It depends totally on who's doing the looking.

And, yes, I often dress to show off to him...sexy bra, no bra, panty lines, no--well, you get the picture.

I often know when he's looking, and love to play it up, but there are times when he catches me off guard--finding me sexy in the most mundane of situations with extremely bad hair--

 

[Haushinka]

Also, do we ever get away with pretending we aren't doing those things?

Never

 

[Charly]

Also, do we ever get away with pretending we aren't doing those things?

Never

I thought not. Now tell me this, how do you feel about me (hypothetically), upon being caught yet again, letting you know that I know that you know you caught me and continueing until it is really clear that you know.

 

[Haushinka]

I feel fine

I thought not. Now tell me this, how do you feel about me (hypothetically), upon being caught yet again, letting you know that I know that you know you caught me and continueing until it is really clear that you know.

we can do that

 

[ranajja]

i know that you know that i know what you're thinking, i think

Again, depends on who's doing the looking.


And if it's the right one doing the looking, well, the total on the on-going orgasm thread soon goes up...

 

[bluntforcemama]

It really depends on the guy, and the way they're looking at you. If the guy looks like he's about to rape you, then anger runs through my mind. Sometimes I feel pride at the way men look at me, but not because of how I dress. It's how you carry yourself, it really is. Look at the little blonde girl who walks with her head down and her hands in her pockets, and then look at the woman who holds her head high and looks you in the eyes when you walk past her, or looks at something else as if you don't even exist.... Men notice that, I think, when all other views are cloaked.

 

[brazenblaze]

Re: Oh, yes...

I often know when he's looking, and love to play it up, but there are times when he catches me off guard--finding me sexy in the most mundane of situations with extremely bad hair--

Same here...most of the time I know when he is doing it, and will play it up just to drive him crazy... Then there are those other times when he blows me completely out of the water...those are usually the times I surrender completely, just too sweet to resist. *lol*

 

[willfulbrat]

It really depends on the guy, and the way they're looking at you. If the guy looks like he's about to rape you, then anger runs through my mind.

I agree with Myst. An appreciative, nonthreatening glance is flattering and makes me feel good about myself. But there is another kind of look that is beyond mere appreciation of beauty and is threatening, and makes me feel embarrassed and scared.

And no, you never get away with it!

 

[cheekyminx]

When a man does that to me...its always a flatter.

 

[cheekyminx]

Unless there is saliva running down the sides of his mouth and he is adjusting himself. That is a definate turn off!

 

[Ree]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the appreciative glance of a man. It just means that they have good taste. The big test is if they can maintain eye contact once they have been spotted admiring the view. I prefer a man to have the balls to let me know that he appreciates what he sees. Of course, he will get farther if he can do it with class and finese rather then crudness. Let me know if you admire the view, you never know where it might take you.

 

[CreamyLady]

No, I don't get mad.

What I'm thinking, though, is:

Damn it, I forgot the milk.
I have to call the vet about JP's shots.
Is it time for an oil change?
Dinner at my sister's again!
I have to cook . . . oh, no!
What time do I have to pick up daughter?
What time is it?
Why is he staring at me?

That's a sample of what I'm thinking. Others, of course, may have more organized minds.

 

[BiBabe:)]

It depends on who's looking, but usually, I love being looked at and admired. I take great pride in my near-perfect body, and I love sharing it with others. I think like sharing a lot with others.

Being loved or admired gives me a feeling like none other in the world- and I love every minute of it.

Until later,

Stacie

 

[Charly]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the appreciative glance of a man. It just means that they have good taste. The big test is if they can maintain eye contact once they have been spotted admiring the view. I prefer a man to have the balls to let me know that he appreciates what he sees. Of course, he will get farther if he can do it with class and finese rather then crudness. Let me know if you admire the view, you never know where it might take you.

Interesting. The interesting part is that I generally do exactly that when caught. It feels right. But, not only that, it is wonderful when you, the girl, react in a firm, confident and affirming way. It makes me think "Wow, this is a real person, this is some one who will be interesting to know" It does not make me think "Ah, this is a babe, and she is coming on." The pleasure is in the human equals appreciating the moment.

[Edited by Charly on 03-06-2001 at 04:22 PM]