ladies want a guy "trained"

[Hanon435]

what does this mean exactly?

can a guy learn this before meeting a woman so he is ready?

any details to help the guys out ladies?

 

[keiffers]

what does this mean exactly?

can a guy learn this before meeting a woman so he is ready?

any details to help the guys out ladies?

it means they want a guy that won't sit on his a$$ and will do chores, open the door, pull out her chair, etc, instead of sittin in front of the TV all the time without her pestering him all the time - if you have to ask you're not trained

 

[INeedLove]

I think said "training" happens during the course of getting to know the lady. Personally, I'm not looking for some guy who isn't real. But I am hopeful that he will learn some of my cues and respond to them. For example, knowing what that look in my eye means and rush to beat me to the bed. Or, knowing if I am quiet, that I need hugs or snuggles. Realistic stuff, I think.

Best wishes!!

 

[Hanon435]

i did not have housework chores in mind when i made the thread

i had heard the phrase used before and thought it meant being able to please a woman.

can that be learned or is it always individual?

 

[INeedLove]

Some things could be learned for general use and other is more individual. Having a guy trained isn't usually high on the priority list for more women, unless its a domme, lol.

 

[rwattsIII]

nice for the sake of it......

I'm nice just for the sake of being nice. (open doors, cook, clean, blah, blah, blah). My ex-gf used to tell me that she had me trained all of the time. Notice I said "ex-gf". As far as I'm concerned, she's the one who needs training. She's so into herself she didn't have the remotest clue and/or desire to know what my needs were. My advise? Watch out for women who have been single for a long time. There's definitely a reason.