Ladies, Send a PM to a Man you find sexy on Lit for a Change

[J-Rod]

Here’s the deal... us guys like to hear from women from time to time just to know that we are found sexually attractive. So ladies why don’t you send out some sexy flirtatious PM’s to us guys.

I originally posted this somewhere else, and thanks to my buddy pointing it out to me, I will post in the playground.

here’s to hearing from you sexy ladies

 

[PaulieJay]

Just sitting back watching this social experiment unfold

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[PattiJolene]

l would be here till next week lol....so many sexy men here.

 

[CurvyAngel_2]

l would be here till next week lol....so many sexy men here.

I was going to say. There's not enough time in the day for that!

 

[J-Rod]

l would be here till next week lol....so many sexy men here.

LOL... I doubt that a woman would see this and then send a PM. However I think it is nice to get the message out there that us guys like to get messages from time to time too.

 

[PattiJolene]

I was going to say. There's not enough time in the day for that!

l wish we had a like button under the poster.

LOL... I doubt that a woman would see this and then send a PM. However I think it is nice to get the message out there that us guys like to get messages from time to time too.

I'm surprised all you sexy men in-boxes are flooded with messages.

 

[J-Rod]

l wish we had a like button under the poster.
That goes both ways



I'm surprised all you sexy men in-boxes are flooded with messages.

You would be surprised at how lonely it gets here on Lit

 

[PattiJolene]

You would be surprised at how lonely it gets here on Lit

l call bull crap!

 

[J-Rod]

l call bull crap!

honestly... if I get a random PM from someone.. it's usually from another guy... LOL

 

[CurvyAngel_2]

I'll start compiling my list.

 

[J-Rod]

I'll start compiling my list.

You have a list huh... I wonder if I am on it?

 

[SassySheDevil]

When this thread was done in the personals. It became a really good conversation thread for a long time. But I think ultimately it failed because women feel more comfortable talking to strangers in public (at least on here) A women PMing a guy to tell him he's sexy rarely leads to conversation.

I can PM a woman and tell her she's sexy and she will say "Thank you, I appreciate that" and you might get some back and forth conversation.

I can PM a guy and tell him he is sexy and he will say "Sweet, what would you like to do to me??" Here's a dick pic!!

If I PM a guy (now a days) it's because of conversation I've seen in the threads, something funny he has said, Something that caught my attention in one way or another.

I wish you luck though.

As the OP in that other thread said ... He made the thread in hopes he'd get women PMing him. It worked.

 

[JerseyJade]

When this thread was done in the personals. It became a really good conversation thread for a long time. But I think ultimately it failed because women feel more comfortable talking to strangers in public (at least on here) A women PMing a guy to tell him he's sexy rarely leads to conversation.

I can PM a woman and tell her she's sexy and she will say "Thank you, I appreciate that" and you might get some back and forth conversation.

I can PM a guy and tell him he is sexy and he will say "Sweet, what would you like to do to me??" Here's a dick pic!!

If I PM a guy (now a days) it's because of conversation I've seen in the threads, something funny he has said, Something that caught my attention in one way or another.

I wish you luck though.

As the OP in that other thread said ... He made the thread in hopes he'd get women PMing him. It worked.

This!

 

[J-Rod]

When this thread was done in the personals. It became a really good conversation thread for a long time. But I think ultimately it failed because women feel more comfortable talking to strangers in public (at least on here) A women PMing a guy to tell him he's sexy rarely leads to conversation.

I can PM a woman and tell her she's sexy and she will say "Thank you, I appreciate that" and you might get some back and forth conversation.

I can PM a guy and tell him he is sexy and he will say "Sweet, what would you like to do to me??" Here's a dick pic!!

If I PM a guy (now a days) it's because of conversation I've seen in the threads, something funny he has said, Something that caught my attention in one way or another.

I wish you luck though.

As the OP in that other thread said ... He made the thread in hopes he'd get women PMing him. It worked.

These are all good points... I totally can see other guys responding like that.. I like to think I'm like that.
Hopefully other guys will see this comment and think twice about responding like that... But I doubt it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

These are all good points... I totally can see other guys responding like that.. I like to think I'm like that.
Hopefully other guys will see this comment and think twice about responding like that... But I doubt it.

Unfortunately women don't know who is like that, and who is not prior to sending the message. So most just don't bother.
If I send a message to Joe Blow and he says what I stated above. I'm now turned off from sending any other similar messages.

That ratio of men who are happy with simple compliments and then will turn that into conversation vs the ones who will then run with the compliment and hope for dirty chat/picture exchanges is a huge difference. Sorry.

 

[J-Rod]

Unfortunately women don't know who is like that, and who is not prior to sending the message. So most just don't bother.
If I send a message to Joe Blow and he says what I stated above. I'm now turned off from sending any other similar messages.

That ratio of men who are happy with simple compliments and then will turn that into conversation vs the ones who will then run with the compliment and hope for dirty chat/picture exchanges is a huge difference. Sorry.

I get it totally... us guys tend to get carried away like a dog getting a new toy.
However, I did want to put this out there.

 

[JerseyJade]

I get it totally... us guys tend to get carried away like a dog getting a new toy.
However, I did want to put this out there.

I like chatting with you, J-Rod.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I get it totally... us guys tend to get carried away like a dog getting a new toy.
However, I did want to put this out there.

And again. I hope it works for you. I just wanted to let you know why many women avoid such PMs

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I get it totally... us guys tend to get carried away like a dog getting a new toy.
However, I did want to put this out there.

In the end, I don’t lump myself in with those guys. I’m me. But I understand why things are the way that they are. Or the helluvalotta years I’ve been on lit, it’s always been this way. All a guy can do is just be different in the way that he interacts with, and messages with, a lady. Maybe at some point the tide will change.

 

[J-Rod]

And again. I hope it works for you. I just wanted to let you know why many women avoid such PMs

It really wasn't for me... it was just in general in terms that guy would like having this done.
But some of us do ruin it for the women... What else is new right

In the end, I don’t lump myself in with those guys. I’m me. But I understand why things are the way that they are. Or the helluvalotta years I’ve been on lit, it’s always been this way. All a guy can do is just be different in the way that he interacts with, and messages with, a lady. Maybe at some point the tide will change.

Amen to that Pervy

 

[Pervy_Sage]

It really wasn't for me... it was just in general in terms that guy would like having this done.
But some of us do ruin it for the women... What else is new right



Amen to that Pervy

I’ll also say, it’s really cool to get that first message from a woman. Liked it feels really awesome.

 

[Dribble]

Mirror mirror on the wall...you keep telling me it is me...but where the fuck are the PMs?

 

[PaulieJay]

You would be surprised at how lonely it gets here on Lit

Preach brother!

 

[PaulieJay]

When this thread was done in the personals. It became a really good conversation thread for a long time. But I think ultimately it failed because women feel more comfortable talking to strangers in public (at least on here) A women PMing a guy to tell him he's sexy rarely leads to conversation.

I can PM a woman and tell her she's sexy and she will say "Thank you, I appreciate that" and you might get some back and forth conversation.

I can PM a guy and tell him he is sexy and he will say "Sweet, what would you like to do to me??" Here's a dick pic!!

If I PM a guy (now a days) it's because of conversation I've seen in the threads, something funny he has said, Something that caught my attention in one way or another.

I wish you luck though.

As the OP in that other thread said ... He made the thread in hopes he'd get women PMing him. It worked.

And this pretty much sums up my initial post, don't think women will go for it mostly because of the above. And B) it'll prob be PMs between peeps who are already cliqued up because that's the safe route. Like I get the innuendo banter that a random complementary PM can hopefully (for some) kick off -I mean this is Literotica after all, but I never got the random unsolicited dick pick just off rip, that's weird but hey some guys are bold like that and maybe, in some foreign universe it works I guess.

 

[J-Rod]

I like chatting with you, J-Rod.

Thank you beautiful ... I am sorry I missed this earlier, but I got distracted and missed this.