Ladies Masturbation Survey

[BongoGal]

He hid his wanking, I just happened to walk in on him a couple of times. And of course I had to wash the crusty diapers he shoved under the bed when he was finished.

His problem? Well he's got a few. They're pretty big, and have nothing to do with me, so I'm learning to let go of feeling like it was my fault.

After we were separated he did tell me this: early in our marriage I shared with him that I had been exposed to porn in my youth and because of that, I couldn't reach orgasm without fantasizing about things that would be considered taboo by our friends and family. It was a confession, and I needed his love and support. What he told me later was that he was so grossed out by the thought that he couldn't have sex with me anymore. True or not, getting him to fuck me was like pulling teeth.

In the 4 1/2 years we've been apart, he's not shown any interest in dating, or in women in general (and no, he's not gay). I've come to the conclusion that he has a very low sex drive, related in part to some of his other issues.

It was horribly discouraging during our marriage, but now I know it's not my fault, and some lucky guy is going to get it good when I get my hands on him.

I have a bunch of questions, but one stands out: why into a diaper?

 

[BongoGal]

27. Have you ever told them you think about them while you masturbate?

I once drunkenly admitted to an ex that an adventure he and I once had would sometimes come to mind when I masturbated. Less than a minute later I noticed that he was hiding an erection.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have a bunch of questions, but one stands out: why into a diaper?

I used them for my babies, and there was always a basket of clean laundry in my room.

 

[BongoGal]

34. Is it easy for you to orgasm or do you have to work for it?

It was years before I knew how much easier it was for me compared to some others I've seen or read about. I have seen videos in which I have been sure I would have had two or three orgasms before they even finished one. I have also had a friend tell me that a prescription she was on made an orgasm unachievable.

 

[Sienna]

1. How old are you?
35
2. What’s your sexual orientation?
Female bi-sexual
3. Your pubic hair?
Scanty blonde, but currently shaven
4. Are you a virgin?
No
5. How old were you when you first masturbated?
12
6. How did you discover masturbation?
Touching myself thinking about being touched by someone else
7. How often do you masturbate?
Quite often, not only for sexual foreplay but also relaxation
8. When was the last time you masturbated?
This morning in the shower
9. Do you masturbate to any stimulus?
Yes, I sometimes use a dildo, vibe or clit stimulator
10. What do you think about?
Sex
11. What’s the last thing you thought of or masturbated to?
My husband's big cock slamming into me from behind
12. Have you ever walked in on or caught someone masturbating? (If yes, please tell us a little more about it)
I caught my husband masturbating whilst he was taking a bath
13. Have someone ever walked in on or caught you masturbating? (If yes, please tell us a little more about it)
My husband caught me masturbating in my office whilst I was on Lit and working
14. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Yes
15. Have you ever had phone sex?
Yes
16. Have you ever had a wet dream?
Yes
17. What’s your favourite method of masturbation? (i.e. Hands/Toys/Lotion/etc.)
Fingers, I like to finger fuck myself, creaming up my vaginal juices so that I can taste myself occasionally riding/edging my orgasm and frig my clitty when I need to climax
18. Are you loud or quiet when you masturbate?
I tend to moan loudly
19. Has anyone ever watched you masturbate live online?
No
20. Has anyone ever watched you masturbate in person?
Yes
21. Have you ever watched someone masturbate live online?
Yes
22. Have you ever watched someone masturbate in person?
Yes
23. Have you ever masturbated with someone? (Mutual masturbation)
Yes
24. Do you enjoy watching others masturbate?
Yes
25. Do you enjoy being watched while masturbating?
Yes
26. Who do you like to think about when you masturbate?
My husband, people on Literotica, People I meet at work and my past encounters
27. Have you ever told them you think about them while you masturbate?
Most of them
28. Does anyone know you masturbate? How did they find out?
Most of those above, and they found out because they saw me or I told them
29. Have you masturbated because your partner wasn’t around to help? Where were they?
I was in my office, bedroom, bathroom and some years ago at a party and they were elsewhere
30. What’s your most embarrassing masturbation story?
In my teens and can not mention very much about it here
31. What’s your funniest masturbation story?
Asking a voyeur masturbating could I have his spunk and he strongly refused and I apparently stopped him from cumming
32. Have you ever masturbated in unique or strange places?
In the woods and also in the sea
33. Have you ever used something unique or strange to masturbate?
Hair brush handle and a Ken doll as a dildo
34. Is it easy for you to orgasm or do you have to work for it?
I am easily aroused which means it is easy, but I can edge or ride my orgasm for up to around 20 mins, something I learned to do years ago
35. What’s the easiest way for you to get off?
The quicky. Just frig my clit. But I would rather enjoy my orgasms
36. Is there only one way you can get off? (i.e. Vaginal/Clitoral/Toy Use)
No, It is either finger, toys, giving oral, receiving oral and straight fucking
37. Are you able to achieve orgasm through only non-conventional or indirect methods? (Breast Play/Hands-Free/Anal)
Breast play
38. Do you ever double penetrate while you masturbate?
Not if I can help it
39. Do you ever suck on a dildo while you masturbate?
Only when it is full of my creamy tasty lube
40. Do you edge when you masturbate? (Get to the point of orgasm and stop repeatedly to enhance the experience)
Mostly
41. What position do you typically masturbate in?
Either lying, sitting or standing. No preference.
42. Describe a typical masturbation session.
Removing my panties and sitting on a towel on my chair whilst watching porn or reading something very erotic, just using my fingers
43. How long do you usually last?
Depends how horny I am and when I need to climax, but I can ride/edge up to about 20 minutes
44. What’s the quickest you’ve ever been brought to orgasm?
Many years ago I remember it was really fast, less than half a minute
45. What’s the longest masturbation session you’ve had?
Timed about 20 minutes
46. What’s the most amount of times you’ve cum in a day?
I am going to say it used to be countless on occasion
47. How wet do you get? Do you leak fluids when you orgasm? (If yes, please describe)
To be honest I am not a squirter. I do ejaculate a trickle, enough to fill the average mouth. Some times I have more vaginal cream than anything else
48. If you are older than 35, how has masturbation changed for you over the years?
Just 35. It is the same if not better and I hope there will be improvements if my future menopause will allow it
49. Do you want to tell us something more about your masturbation experiences?
No
50. Are you sexually aroused taking this survey?
To be honest... no. But I would like to share

 

[Sienna]

Ooops! Sorry. I must have made everyone run and hide for being honest, because nobody else replied. There were too many questions and some kind of duplicated others

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Ooops! Sorry. I must have made everyone run and hide for being honest, because nobody else replied. There were too many questions and some kind of duplicated others

A lot of other people replied.. but the op eventually stopped posting at Lit and the thread died the way so many do..

there is nothing wrong with announcing to the world that you masturbate.. but the decision to not share that information is not the same as running and hiding..
and when done with a sense of humor and kinship that this thread had, it doesn't really mean people were being dishonest..

 

[Sienna]

A lot of other people replied.. but the op eventually stopped posting at Lit and the thread died the way so many do..
there is nothing wrong with announcing to the world that you masturbate.. but the decision to not share that information is not the same as running and hiding..
and when done with a sense of humor and kinship that this thread had, it doesn't really mean people were being dishonest..

Yes, you're quite right thinking about it. I didn't mean to offend if I did

< peace >

 

[Scareltt]

I love this!

All women should masturbate! When my husband and I started dating he wanted to know and watch me masturbate. “Amy your orgasm are your responsibility. If you show me how you make yourself cum, I’ll always be able to help you cum.”

It was embarrassing the first time. Okay the first few times. Then he started helping. The sex was good enough back then for me to marry him. Then things changed... life family all of that..

Now I’m back to pleasing myself with the toys he buys for me. I love my Womanizer, and my Palm Power. He recently bought the attached for me.

I feel like woman should be encouraged to masturbate. Men on the other hand shouldn’t. A woman can have as many orgasms as she wants. After a man cums from his own self pleasure he’s useless for a while. All men’s orgasms should come from their significant other...

Great topic!

Let’s try to keep it going

 

[Scareltt]

Here goes..

This was done over the course of a few hours..


1. How old are you? 43
2. What’s your sexual orientation? bi(ish)
3. Your pubic hair?I trim, and use nair for my bikini line
4. Are you virgin? nope
5. How old were you when you first masturbated? 12
6. How did you discover masturbation? at that age my fingers were drawn to my pussy. I would think about a handsome teacher, or friend of my parents, or maybe someone special in class.
7. How often do you masturbate?daily (almost)
8. When was the last time you masturbated? 2 hours ago
9. Do you masturbate to any stimulus? not really into porn well like video porn. However some of the stories here can get me going. I also have a bunch pictures on my phone that I find exciting.
10. What do you think about? My husband, haha okay my husband in his 20’s or a past lover. Even a past fantasy.
11. What’s the last thing you thought of or masturbated to? a Jack (a 20 something I date) my husband and he wear the same cologne. When he left to take the girls to softball the scent got me and I grabbed my toy and my Palm Power and rocked my own world.
12. Have you ever walked in on or caught someone masturbating? (If yes, please tell us a little more about it)yes.. my husband, I was pregnant with our first. It was late at night and I woke up horny. Women who have been pregnant totally know how that urge can be really powerful.He wasn’t next to me. I went looking for him and caught him in the office wanking with a pair of my panties to porn. I said something like what a waste and I took him right there in the office once I came, I got off him and went to bed. The next day we had a very long talk, one of many.
13. Have someone ever walked in on or caught you masturbating? (If yes, please tell us a little more about it) no my husband doesn’t count
14. Have you ever had cyber sex? of course, I have to say lately on line play partners have been hard to come by.
15. Have you ever had phone sex?yes
16. Have you ever had a wet dream?of course
17. What’s your favourite method of masturbation? (i.e. Hands/Toys/Lotion/etc.)[my Womanizer, and a dildoCOLOR="magenta"][/COLOR]
18. Are you loud or quiet when you masturbate? quiet
19. Has anyone ever watched you masturbate live online?no
20. Has anyone ever watched you masturbate in person?yes
21. Have you ever watched someone masturbate live online?no
22. Have you ever watched someone masturbate in person?yes
23. Have you ever masturbated with someone? (Mutual masturbation)yea
24. Do you enjoy watching others masturbate?yes
25. Do you enjoy being watched while masturbating?I do now, I didn’t at first. It takes some getting used to
26. Who do you like to think about when you masturbate? past lovers, past sexual situations.
27. Have you ever told them you think about them while you masturbate? I have
28. Does anyone know you masturbate? How did they find out?the right people know because I shared that with them.
29. Have you masturbated because your partner wasn’t around to help? Where were they?yes.. all over the place.
30. What’s your most embarrassing masturbation story?I don’t have one
31. What’s your funniest masturbation story? dont really have one
32. Have you ever masturbated in unique or strange places? airplane lavatory. Virgin Airlines had larger lavatories back then.
33. Have you ever used something unique or strange to masturbate?when I was younger I tried all kinds of stuff. Then I discovered toys
34. Is it easy for you to orgasm or do you have to work for it?at my age I can get myself off pretty quick or I can drag it out I enjoy playing in my head.
35. What’s the easiest way for you to get off?Palm Power and a larger dildo. I’ll use my left hand with the dildo, and my right controlling the vibrator.
36. Is there only one way you can get off? (i.e. Vaginal/Clitoral/Toy Use) I used to think I needed both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. I have learned that size changes that. That may have changed since I became a mother. I larger dildo or a larger lover can put me right over the edge.
37. Are you able to achieve orgasm through only non-conventional or indirect methods? (Breast Play/Hands-Free/Anal)not as of yet
38. Do you ever double penetrate while you masturbate? no, but now that the idea is in my head.. maybe..
39. Do you ever suck on a dildo while you masturbate? no, my dildo is usually otherwise occupied.
40. Do you edge when you masturbate? (Get to the point of orgasm and stop repeatedly to enhance the experience)I do edge when I have time. That’s rare.
41. What position do you typically masturbate in?most of the time I’m in my bed, or the shower. womanizer is waterproof. Sometimes he arm of a sofa in our basement.
42. Describe a typical masturbation session. usually it’s in the morning, when my husband and children are gone. If I don’t have to be anywhere I’ll take my time with my dildo and work myself nice and slow. I might be reading hot texts from a lover, or pictures on my phone. Then reach for my vibrator and push myself over the edge.
43. How long do you usually last? it can be as fast as 3 or 4 minutes. Or I can make it last half an hour or more. Being a woman means I’m not limited to just one orgasm. I love it when I have time to roll one orgasm into another.
44. What’s the quickest you’ve ever been brought to orgasm? less than a minute. It’s never a great or even good orgasm it’s more like utilitarian. Never used that word to describe an orgasm.
45. What’s the longest masturbation session you’ve had?Portably like an hour, it’s been years since I could roll around in bed with myself like that. Wouldn’t it be wonderful, to have that kind of time.
46. What’s the most amount of times you’ve cum in a day?9 or 10 again so long since I got to do that.
47. How wet do you get? Do you leak fluids when you orgasm? (If yes, please describe)I can get really wet, I’ll dampen the sheets, but I have never squared.
48. If you are older than 35, how has masturbation changed for you over the years? Yep over 35 now. When I was younger I experimented a lot. Now I really know what works. Whether it’s my fingers, or my toys I can almost always get the job done.
49. Do you want to tell us something more about your masturbation experiences?wow I think 50 questions is enough.
50. Are you sexually aroused taking this survey?to be honest no. I thought I might be, but I’m not.

 

[Sienna]

All women should masturbate! When my husband and I started dating he wanted to know and watch me masturbate. “Amy your orgasm are your responsibility. If you show me how you make yourself cum, I’ll always be able to help you cum.”

It was embarrassing the first time. Okay the first few times. Then he started helping. The sex was good enough back then for me to marry him. Then things changed... life family all of that...

Great topic!
Let’s try to keep it going

I totally agree with us women having multiple orgasms whether it be edging, riding or going for the full climax. We can always have more and more, especially during lesbian sex where there is a huge difference from heterosexual sex

 

[Scareltt]

A number of different antidepressants have this side effect..

It was years before I knew how much easier it was for me compared to some others I've seen or read about. I have seen videos in which I have been sure I would have had two or three orgasms before they even finished one. I have also had a friend tell me that a prescription she was on made an orgasm unachievable.

I was prescribed something when I was younger, after my second miscarriage. It made it impossible to climax. I didn’t make the connection until I talked to my Ob. She suggested that if I was able I should work with my General to get off it. I didn’t make the connection until we talked about it..