Ladies - I need your guidance on “Let go”

[Perv66]

This is a dead serious question so please help me navigate the situation.

I’m a married man in his late 50’s. My wife and I have had a very good sex life for many years but things have recently become a little “few and far between”. We both feel this and recently she said to me “Let go.”

I don’t know how to take that or react.

I think I’ve always been more focused on her pleasure than mine during sex. Just the way I am. But I derive so much pleasure from making her feel loved, sexy and cumming.

Have I been too focused on her pleasure? Is that what she means?

She rarely offers new ideas to introduce to our sex life but has always enjoyed what we’ve done when I’ve suggested things.

So is she telling me to “let go” and be the initiator again? Add some new spice? Or is she saying I’ve done it wrong for all this time? Been too focused on her and not given her what she needs?

Bit of a “wet lettuce” post but if you want filth read my stories

 

[Britva415]

There’s only one lady you need to ask.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Your repeating 2 words from the whole conversation with her. Hard to decipher. Britva415 is right ask her why are you asking horn dogs on this site ?
You said "be the initiator again" / " recently been far and few" To me you just answered your own question

 

[Saint_Ann]

This is a dead serious question so please help me navigate the situation.

I’m a married man in his late 50’s. My wife and I have had a very good sex life for many years but things have recently become a little “few and far between”. We both feel this and recently she said to me “Let go.”

I don’t know how to take that or react.

I think I’ve always been more focused on her pleasure than mine during sex. Just the way I am. But I derive so much pleasure from making her feel loved, sexy and cumming.

Have I been too focused on her pleasure? Is that what she means?

She rarely offers new ideas to introduce to our sex life but has always enjoyed what we’ve done when I’ve suggested things.

So is she telling me to “let go” and be the initiator again? Add some new spice? Or is she saying I’ve done it wrong for all this time? Been too focused on her and not given her what she needs?

Bit of a “wet lettuce” post but if you want filth read my stories

Maybe she is telling you to just give up. "Just 'let go'. I'm done pretending to enjoy your amateurish attempts."

But then...how the fuck are we supposed to know?

 

[LMWM321]

Why would you let such a cryptic comment pass without asking for clarification?

And given the wide range of possible meanings, I suggest you not proceed on the basis of any of the responses you read here..

Like others have said. Ask her.

 

[Belegon]

She'll give you the answer if you ask in the right way. My initial instinct is that she wants you to let her make you feel the same things you love making her feel. But without being a part of the whole conversation, that's a guess. Talk to her. Put the same effort into talking to her that you put into making her cum. Communication is the key.