Ladies, how much do we orgasm?

[LindaL]

The thought crossed my mind just yesterday when I got a note from a friend of mine stating she seldom had more than two orgasms in a lovemaking session anymore.

Now there was a lengthy time in my life during which I'd have killed to have one reliable orgasm even every third time, much less two in a session!

But as I embraced my sexuality, I discovered it was possible to have 6 or 7 or even 8 in a day! One remarkable time I had 6 in under a half hour and at least a dozen in an afternoon. And just recently, my husband helped me to two in rapid succession by nibbling on my clit, then a third shortly after via his cock inside me and clitoral stimulation. Then later as he dozed I indulged myself in another climax.

I know a lot of women have great difficulty having even one orgasm, some manage one with ease, others have half a dozen at a time, and some claim to have dozens or hundreds in a single sex session.

I'd just like to hear from other women here at this message board about their orgasm frequency, and get a sense for the ranges in this population. If I knew how to construct a poll to do this, I'd opt for that, but failing that, just tell here about your climax frequency, if you would!

 

[sexualbeing]

to be honest I don't have enough orgasms.
if I was able to have 24 orgasms in one day, now thats what I'm talking about.

 

[Ali_Nicole]

Unfortunately i find it very hard to orgasm from penetration alone, i almost always require some kind of clitoral stimulation, either from myself or my partner.
But on the plus side, and it really IS a plus side, i cum very easilly from oral xx

 

[subtleone]

I can have several of varying degrees...either very wet but no major 'O' or all the feelings non of the liquids, but if I have both together I need at least an hours rest, but then I can start all over again

 

[rip_1_4_u]

The thought crossed my mind just yesterday when I got a note from a friend of mine stating she seldom had more than two orgasms in a lovemaking session anymore.

I'd just like to hear from other women here at this message board about their orgasm frequency, and get a sense for the ranges in this population. If I knew how to construct a poll to do this, I'd opt for that, but failing that, just tell here about your climax frequency, if you would!

When I was in my 20's I usually could only have an orgasm by masturbating, except with my ex-husband, who I could usually have an orgasm with once during intercourse. My sex drive improved after I got divorced. I could have more than one orgasm masturbating, but usually could only have one orgasm with my partner in my 30's and 40's.

In the last couple of years (I'm now 48), I can have multiple orgasms masturbating, and depending on my partner, I can have multiple orgasms during intercourse (wow, i do have a few g-spots!), plus I can have multiple orgasms during oral sex (never had even one during oral sex till now), multiple orgasms during clit finger sex (having my clit rubbed), and multiple orgasms during vaginal finger sex (having fingers moved in the right place, in the right way, inside of my vagina). oh my I can't wait for my lover to arrive!

Viva la 40's!

 

[carrie-on]

I am very lucky in that I have been multi-orgasmic since I was about 15 or 16. The more I cum...the more I want to!!

 

[mrs.jeepman6]

When I was in my 20's I usually could only have an orgasm by masturbating, except with my ex-husband, who I could usually have an orgasm with once during intercourse. My sex drive improved after I got divorced. I could have more than one orgasm masturbating, but usually could only have one orgasm with my partner in my 30's and 40's.

In the last couple of years (I'm now 48), I can have multiple orgasms masturbating, and depending on my partner, I can have multiple orgasms during intercourse (wow, i do have a few g-spots!), plus I can have multiple orgasms during oral sex (never had even one during oral sex till now), multiple orgasms during clit finger sex (having my clit rubbed), and multiple orgasms during vaginal finger sex (having fingers moved in the right place, in the right way, inside of my vagina). oh my I can't wait for my lover to arrive!

Viva la 40's!

It is awesome getting older isnt it

 

[sunandshadow]

I can only have one before I have to recharge, so at most two a day, and none if I'm too busy or too tired. Probably averages out to slightly less than one a day. But I'm happy with that. The only sexual think I'm unhappy with is that since I turned 25 I gush so much the bed gets pretty swampy and aromatic, which is a problem if I want to sleep afterwards. Just have to get into the habit of putting a towel down first, I guess.

 

[Ashtyn]

I suppose the amount of time depends somewhat on who I am with -laughs- Currently having orgasms is not a problem that I have. On average per day I have multiple. Somedays its hard to count how many I have...Of course, that's a real good day!

 

[soakersue]

It is awesome getting older isnt it

I agree viva la 40"s and beyond. I am fortuanate to have a lover who found me, and knows where my G spot and more is. This is the best sex of my life. I have no idea how much I cum, but I know it is more than 15 per sesssion.
I am relaxed finally with my body, he tells me I am sexy and I can see it in his eyes he wants me. That has made a huge difference, I just lust for him more and more. I guess that means he, at 58, is getting the best sex of his life too.

 

[sexualbeing]

Is it possible to have multiple orgasms with a vibrator.

 

[sleepingtodream]

depends

Usually I cum about 4 times....maybe more. The more the merrier I say!

 

[LindaL]

Is it possible to have multiple orgasms with a vibrator.

I have, but not real real often. But for me, that was about 3 orgasms in 15 minutes.

 

[LindaL]

Usually I cum about 4 times....maybe more. The more the merrier I say!

How close together? In under a half hour, or over a lazy lovemaking afternoon?

I'm trying to revisit that glorious day of 6 in less than 30 minutes!

 

[sleepingtodream]

How close together? In under a half hour, or over a lazy lovemaking afternoon?

I'm trying to revisit that glorious day of 6 in less than 30 minutes!

Under half an hour. I haven't really kept track past that point!

 

[fallenupright]

We have some lucky women here.

Most I have ever had in a day is 3. I'm in a slump right now... lucky to be getting one in a session. Don't know why really. Could be that I'm just working too hard - body is tired, or something. *shrug*

 

[SweetErika]

Is it possible to have multiple orgasms with a vibrator.

If you're capable of multiples, absolutely. Some of my vibes, like the Rabbit, are too focused to keep going after a minute or two, unfortunately. I have the same problem with clit stimulation via fingers and the showerhead.

However, my Magic Wand w/ the g-spot attachment allows for as many as I have the energy for. Starting off with it also helps launch multiples during oral, vaginal, anal and g-spot stimulation. BEST toy and orgasms EVER.

As for the original question, I couldn't give a number because I don't count. I can say I'm more likely to masturbate multiple times than make my first orgasm into a multiple when flying solo, and rarely have fewer than two when I'm with my husband. My goal is overall pleasure, not an arbitrary number, and I always reach it even if I don't orgasm at all.

 

[redfox1961]

I'm with a couple of the other ladies that have found that getting older is best . . . I've had more multi orgasm sessions in the past few years than ever! Sometimes with hubbt, but more often while masturbating.
It's sooo delicious!

 

[sexualbeing]

I have, but not real real often. But for me, that was about 3 orgasms in 15 minutes.

thats good enough for me!
The thing about me is that my clit is so sensative after the first time I orgasm,I cant even touch it for at least 5 minutes!

 

[sexualbeing]

If you're capable of multiples, absolutely. Some of my vibes, like the Rabbit, are too focused to keep going after a minute or two, unfortunately. I have the same problem with clit stimulation via fingers and the showerhead.

However, my Magic Wand w/ the g-spot attachment allows for as many as I have the energy for. Starting off with it also helps launch multiples during oral, vaginal, anal and g-spot stimulation. BEST toy and orgasms EVER.

As for the original question, I couldn't give a number because I don't count. I can say I'm more likely to masturbate multiple times than make my first orgasm into a multiple when flying solo, and rarely have fewer than two when I'm with my husband. My goal is overall pleasure, not an arbitrary number, and I always reach it even if I don't orgasm at all.

I will have to get one of those rabbits!

 

[M's girl]

Multiple orgasms? More than one in one session? Never. I've had two orgasms within 30 minutes a few times, but had to stop for a while in between. This was never with a partner by the way. I have never cum from PIV sex alone and have a hard time reaching orgasm anyway. It's almost like EVERYTHING has to be right - but there is no recipe for it -

I know there's many women like me but somehow they are not the ones that visit Lit. Why is that? Oh, by the way... my sexlife is quite satisfying most of the time, despite the fact that I don't orgasm every time we have sex.

 

[wicked woman]

Multiple orgasms? More than one in one session? Never. I've had two orgasms within 30 minutes a few times, but had to stop for a while in between. This was never with a partner by the way. I have never cum from PIV sex alone and have a hard time reaching orgasm anyway. It's almost like EVERYTHING has to be right - but there is no recipe for it -

I know there's many women like me but somehow they are not the ones that visit Lit. Why is that? Oh, by the way... my sexlife is quite satisfying most of the time, despite the fact that I don't orgasm every time we have sex.

Actually M's girl I think there are a number of women like you on Lit...there have been threads about women who have difficulty having orgasms e.g through PIV...even on this thread everyone isn't saying 'over and over and over'...it's just easier to say you're mulit-orgasmic than to say you aren't. (not suggesting people are lying...just that one is easier to admit than the other)

 

[M's girl]

For me it's not. I don't mind saying that I can't. I seem to be among the 70% of women who hardly or never orgasm through PIV sex, so....

 

[silverwhisper]

what about oral sex? can you cum that way? not cumming from PIV--hell, i've never been w/ a woman that did, frankly.

ed

 

[M's girl]

what about oral sex? can you cum that way? not cumming from PIV--hell, i've never been w/ a woman that did, frankly.

ed

Yes I can, although not easy. Like I said, it's almost like you have to push all the right buttons in the right order first. I once saw a picture that said it all for me. Let me see if I can find it.....