EthiopianPrince
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2001
- Posts
- 256
Hi ladies 
I'm a 26 yr old man, who's been married, had 2 other serious girlfriends, and have been with more than a few women in my life.
Nevertheless, I feel like I am very ignorant as a lover.
I have given 3 women orgasms in my life (I'm pretty sure they weren't acting). Yet skill was not much of a factor in any of them. The first was my ex-wife ... she didn't have an orgasm until 1 year after we were married. We did mostly penetration and oral for a year (she claimed to never have masterbated) until one day she was laying on top of me, and began to rub her pussy up and down against my erection (we were both clothed) the rubs became more and more intense (I tried to match her rhythm) until she had her first orgasm. Afterwards she told me "Thank you for giving me an orgasm", but frankly I didn't think I had much to do with it (nevertheless I accepted all the credit ). I gave her several more orgasms (all in the same way) ... and she became pretty much uninterested in having penetration or receiving oral sex with me after that, lol.
The second woman was very similar. She was a friend who had a crush on me, and we were clothed and fooling around when suddenly she began humping me in the same manner, and came in the same manner. She told me that that had never had an orgasm before and was a virgin. I had trouble believing that she had never cum before since this happened in our first session, but during our summer together she came many more times in the same manner. Once again, although I took credit, I felt I could have been a firm pillow for all I participated.
I'm skipping two woman completely because the were both either older or much more experienced than me. One basically masterbated herself to completion while I happened to be penetrating her. The other controlled our sex session so completely, that although she came in several positions with penis-vaginal sex, basically my job was not screwing up what I was expected to do.
The third woman was similar to that. We didn't actually have sex, but everything else and lots of fingering. She basically taught me (can you believe I was just learning it at this point?) that women like it when men finger them. She asked me to use my fingers on her, became more aroused as I used more, and reacted positively very strongly when I inadvertantly fingered her g-spot. This woman was unique, because while she claimed not to be that experienced (7 previous partners, still a virgin), she was extremely highly sexed ... had to drink gatorade during sex because her pussy got so wet, and made motions and sounds like the exorcist at the slightest physical touch. Once again I accepted the compliment when she told me I was her best ever, but I personally felt slight breeze could have gotten her off.
I have had other girlfriends and hook ups, but those were the ones that orgasmed.
Now I am dating a wonderful girl, although it is probably a summer fling for her (she is a law student at a top 3 school, and is probably off to bigger and better things after she finishes her summer internship in my town). Right now we are just kissing and petting (clothes on) ... even though we have had 4 dates. I would like advice on how to be a better and more sensual french kisser from the ladies. I don't jam my tongue down her throat, yet I show her that I am masculine into her and that she is not kissing her little brother.
I would also like advice on the female anatomy and how to give her sensual pleasure, including but beyond inserting my finger and making the come-hither gesture to stimulate her g-spot. I know nothing about the clit besides its location and what it looks like. I have had very little experience stimulating a clit and/or its neighboring area ... my experience is limited to rubbing and stroking the general area of the clit near the base of the pubic mound, and I have never brought a woman to orgasm that way.
It would also be great to know more about the vagina. I know that there is a urination opening above the part for the penis, and although I almost always slip into the correct hole ... it seems to be either by luck or by some un-noticed help by the lady.
Thanks for reading my long post, I wrote all this to help you to know me in giving advice. Whether you reply with something short or long, you should know that I will read what you write, and incorporate it where I can.
Thank you!
~EP
I'm a 26 yr old man, who's been married, had 2 other serious girlfriends, and have been with more than a few women in my life.
Nevertheless, I feel like I am very ignorant as a lover.
I have given 3 women orgasms in my life (I'm pretty sure they weren't acting). Yet skill was not much of a factor in any of them. The first was my ex-wife ... she didn't have an orgasm until 1 year after we were married. We did mostly penetration and oral for a year (she claimed to never have masterbated) until one day she was laying on top of me, and began to rub her pussy up and down against my erection (we were both clothed) the rubs became more and more intense (I tried to match her rhythm) until she had her first orgasm. Afterwards she told me "Thank you for giving me an orgasm", but frankly I didn't think I had much to do with it (nevertheless I accepted all the credit
). I gave her several more orgasms (all in the same way) ... and she became pretty much uninterested in having penetration or receiving oral sex with me after that, lol.The second woman was very similar. She was a friend who had a crush on me, and we were clothed and fooling around when suddenly she began humping me in the same manner, and came in the same manner. She told me that that had never had an orgasm before and was a virgin. I had trouble believing that she had never cum before since this happened in our first session, but during our summer together she came many more times in the same manner. Once again, although I took credit, I felt I could have been a firm pillow for all I participated.
I'm skipping two woman completely because the were both either older or much more experienced than me. One basically masterbated herself to completion while I happened to be penetrating her. The other controlled our sex session so completely, that although she came in several positions with penis-vaginal sex, basically my job was not screwing up what I was expected to do.
The third woman was similar to that. We didn't actually have sex, but everything else and lots of fingering. She basically taught me (can you believe I was just learning it at this point?) that women like it when men finger them. She asked me to use my fingers on her, became more aroused as I used more, and reacted positively very strongly when I inadvertantly fingered her g-spot. This woman was unique, because while she claimed not to be that experienced (7 previous partners, still a virgin), she was extremely highly sexed ... had to drink gatorade during sex because her pussy got so wet, and made motions and sounds like the exorcist at the slightest physical touch. Once again I accepted the compliment when she told me I was her best ever, but I personally felt slight breeze could have gotten her off.
I have had other girlfriends and hook ups, but those were the ones that orgasmed.
Now I am dating a wonderful girl, although it is probably a summer fling for her (she is a law student at a top 3 school, and is probably off to bigger and better things after she finishes her summer internship in my town). Right now we are just kissing and petting (clothes on) ... even though we have had 4 dates. I would like advice on how to be a better and more sensual french kisser from the ladies. I don't jam my tongue down her throat, yet I show her that I am masculine into her and that she is not kissing her little brother.
I would also like advice on the female anatomy and how to give her sensual pleasure, including but beyond inserting my finger and making the come-hither gesture to stimulate her g-spot. I know nothing about the clit besides its location and what it looks like. I have had very little experience stimulating a clit and/or its neighboring area ... my experience is limited to rubbing and stroking the general area of the clit near the base of the pubic mound, and I have never brought a woman to orgasm that way.
It would also be great to know more about the vagina. I know that there is a urination opening above the part for the penis, and although I almost always slip into the correct hole ... it seems to be either by luck or by some un-noticed help by the lady.
Thanks for reading my long post, I wrote all this to help you to know me in giving advice. Whether you reply with something short or long, you should know that I will read what you write, and incorporate it where I can.
Thank you!
~EP
