Ladies, do you REALLY enjoy anal sex? I don't think so

[Davide_UK]

I've just read a lit story. It was very promising to begin with, but in the end, it was only worth two stars. It was a non-gay story, which unbeknown to me, had a couple of anal sex chapters in it, which didn't do the story any good, even though it wasn't much good in the first place.

I can understand gay men participating in anal sex. I mean, where else can they put it? There's no other suitable orifice available. But anal sex between a man and a woman? Most woman have a perfectly good pussy, but their men insist upon putting their thing into a place that isn't clean.

I've had things poked up my ass, care of treatment at my local hospital. And believe me, it brought tears to my eyes!

I've never known anything so perplexing in my life. Could the men who wish to do this to their woman have homosexual tendencies? And the women? I put it to you that you only do it to please your man. There can't possibly be any pleasure in it for you, only discomfort

It isn't my intention to be disrespectful by starting this thread, but I would very much like to hear your thoughts, in order for me to come to some understanding

 

[quicksylver69]

In my opinion nothing makes me come faster than having something in my ass. There are a lot of nerve endings back there and all pleasurable. If women are only doing it to please a man then why do some ( including myself) integrate anal play into their masturbation techniques?

If you dont believe woman gain pleasure from it check out my audios in the link below, there's one labelled anal that will prove you wrong

 

[Carnevil9]

Davide - I completely understand your position, and I used to agree with it. I mean, c'mon... there's a perfectly good pussy one inch away! Why would you need to fuck the asshole?

But I don't feel that way anymore. Experience has shown me that there are other things to consider. I even wrote up my revelations in a story, called "Anal On The Road." Maybe that will answer some of your questions......Carney (a totally straight man)

 

[Lilac_Sky]

This question reminds me of a conversation I once had with a co-worker. Her question was, "How could sex take longer than 20 minutes? I mean .... there is only 1 stick and 1 hole."

But the variations in sex are what make it exciting and pleasurable. Do men enjoy having their cocks sucked? But if there is a perfectly good pussy, why would a woman use her mouth? Most people find the variety of different sensations and different intimacies to be exhilarating.

And, yes, I am a woman, and yes, I love anal.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

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[sunandshadow]

If you gave yourself a prostate massage, or someone else did, or someone licked your asshole, or you held a vibrator against your asshole, it would feel utterly different than getting prodded in the hospital. You might or might not decide you particularly liked it, but it wouldn't hurt. Anal pain is caused mainly by lack of arousal and going too fast to allow the body to stretch and adapt. Note that to actually take something as big around as an average penis going "slow enough" can mean stretching over a period of days, not minutes. The reputation of pain associated from anal sex comes from many people either not knowing this or being too impatient to go slow due to horniness. (Also the severe injury possible in cases of anal rape, but that hopefully we are talking about consensual sex here.) It's also like any form of exercise, after a few days of stretching the muscles are more limber and can stretch further without discomfort.

There's nothing inherently gay about asses beyond the fact that men don't have pussies and PIV sex thus isn't an option. There are gay men who don't like anal sex and never do it, or who only like being the one doing the penetrating and don't enjoy being penetrated. There are historical records dating back more than 2000 years of straight men who are ass men and have lusted after the opportunity to lick and/or fuck a woman's ass. There is medical evidence that in men anal stimulation causes pleasure primarily by stimulating the prostate, and in women that anal stimulation can cause pleasure by stimulating the back wall of the vagina and its glands from the other side. In both genders the skin of the asshole has lots of nerve endings, and pretty much any area of the human body which has lots of nerve endings feels pleasure with gentle massage, licking, or vibration.

 

[S4SS]

I love it

My husband won't try it, but I've had it in the past with previous partners. I miss it so much that now whenever I masturbate I'm imagining being taken anally. There is nothing like the thrill when the tip of your partner's penis pushes agains your lubed orifice and there's resistance for a moment or two, and then penetration happens, mm. Then he slowly carries on pushing until he's all the way inside - I like it slow to start with, because I like to make the most of it for as long as I can. I don't even need my clit to be touched everytime to have fun with anal, although that is fun (as is having my husband in my pussy and my vibrator in my ass). So as you can see, I love it!

 

[UKVoyager]

My husband won't try it, but I've had it in the past with previous partners. I miss it so much that now whenever I masturbate I'm imagining being taken anally. There is nothing like the thrill when the tip of your partner's penis pushes agains your lubed orifice and there's resistance for a moment or two, and then penetration happens, mm. Then he slowly carries on pushing until he's all the way inside - I like it slow to start with, because I like to make the most of it for as long as I can. I don't even need my clit to be touched everytime to have fun with anal, although that is fun (as is having my husband in my pussy and my vibrator in my ass). So as you can see, I love it!

That is so hot, I am hard now.

 

[S4SS]

That is so hot, I am hard now.

Glad you liked it - I realised afterwards that the OP might not have, so my apologies if that's the case..

 

[Nyiatha]

I get your point. When I was younger that is not something that i enjoyed but as I have become more experienced, anal sex has become very arousing. I think you have to really love having sex and be open to creativity. If you and your partner are sexually active it can add a bit of nastiness to the bedroom. I love it when my man mounts me from behind, spits on my ass and moistens me. He gently enters me until he knows I am ready to take him in. For me, it is erotic to hear him moan and squeeze my ass cheeks while he thrusts. It's part of the overall sexual games that we play and that makes for the best kind of sexual excitement. It took me a while to learn how to have an orgasm but it always felt good.

 

[Prettywilling]

Just to echo the sentiments above, it really does feel good not least I imagine because of the amount of nerve endings. I imagine if the OP only experince of having something inserted is in a non sexual hospital situation along the anixety having tests usually bring, it would not be difficult to understand his disbelief, but I think the amount of women who include into their masturbation repertoire can only attest to the pleasure to be gained.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I've known a few women who specifically asked for it from me. One of them, who was much more experienced than I was, would bury her head in a pillow to stifle all the noise she made, but she loved it at a frequency of about once a week. She said any more than that and it made her too sore.

 

[LindsayRae]

Yes, some women do enjoy anal sex, despite what you think.

 

[ViKitty]

I do enjoy it; quite a lot, actually. I enjoy the initial discomfort most of all, but that has to do with personal preference.

 

[Annabell4you]

When a man knows how to do it, or listens to the woman... It is extremely enjoyable. I have been known to bend over in the shower and say, 'fuck my ass'. Oh yes, that was twice last week. And no, my lover is far from gay. He hit for the cycle the day. Filled all three of my holes with cum. I love anal and many times, he has to pull me off his cock.

On another note, I love the humor in people trying to say the opposite sex couldn't possible like something. Good luck with that!

 

[Nyiatha]

When a man knows how to do it, or listens to the woman... It is extremely enjoyable. I have been known to bend over in the shower and say, 'fuck my ass'. Oh yes, that was twice last week. And no, my lover is far from gay. He hit for the cycle the day. Filled all three of my holes with cum. I love anal and many times, he has to pull me off his cock.

On another note, I love the humor in people trying to say the opposite sex couldn't possible like something. Good luck with that![/QUOT

Amen to that!

 

[naughty4UinTX]

Can't get enough of it.

Have to admit that it is one of my favorite things to do. Granted it take a bit longer to get ready for it but so worth the effort. I've had some of the most mind blowing orgasms either with a toy or the real thing. And to be honest lately it is my preferred play area.

 

[iwpf]

i'm not a lady (not really a gentleman now that i think of it...ha ha) but many of my girlfriends in the past and now my wife in the present have enjoyed anal play. lots of women really enjoy having their ass tongued and most of them enjoy anal intercourse because if they didn't they probably wouldn't ask for it. sure, being inside a nice, warm, and wet pussy is lovely. but, anal intercourse feels great (both as the one doing the fucking and as the one being fucked... i know from experience).

 

[JayinCA]

Also not a woman, here, but I have been with women who have begged for anal (which has always been okay with me--not something I go looking for but I'm happy to engage in if they like it--as a tit man I'm usually more interested in titfucking than anal). And I love eating a woman's pussy, and sliding a couple of fingers up the vagina and one or two up the ass--many go off like a rocket when that happens. If you're not finding anal activities fun, no one will force you to do it--but you might be missing out on a great time.

 

[bicurious19]

i dont get all the anal pornos of the girls squirming and moving about when he puts his cock in her ass. ive had bigger things in my ass then most those guys dicks and i love it, it doesnt hurt, it feels nice. (im a guy btw)

 

[LindsayRae]

i dont get all the anal pornos of the girls squirming and moving about when he puts his cock in her ass. ive had bigger things in my ass then most those guys dicks and i love it, it doesnt hurt, it feels nice. (im a guy btw)

Well, for some holes cocks are big in there. I enjoy anal, but it does take quite a lot of prep work and patience to fit a cock in there. One finger? No prob.

 

[Iamnotthe1]

I love anal.

 

[bladz22]

I have a friend that actually can't cum without a cock or finger in her ass. She is one of those girls that are too worried about everything else so she can't relax enough to have an orgasm until she feels that she is being completely dirty. I may not fully understand it but I am more than willing to help.

 

[autoplot]

Could the men who wish to do this to their woman have homosexual tendencies? And the women? I put it to you that you only do it to please your man. There can't possibly be any pleasure in it for you, only discomfort

It isn't my intention to be disrespectful...

Haha, good work.

"You people are having sex wrong -- the men because they're closet queers and the women, well, they just don't know any better! No disrespect intended!"

 

[piccicatopolka]

This lady has done it for the sake of the dude ~ and the couple of dudes I've done it with didn't want it in return. Not my cup of tea but I'm not against it.