Ladies, do you prefer being a domme, sub, switch or vanilla?

pierretubal

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Just wondering what the general make-up of Literotica women visiting this forum would consider themselves to be.
 
Sub, definitely. And I was ,ahem, firmly reminded of that today. :caning:
 
I'm a switch, if I'm mainly submissive or Dominant depends a lot on the person I'm with.
 
It is very situational. With women it is not terribly dom/sub, but I tend to be more dom. With men, I tend to be sub. Exceptions have happened, though.
 
Good question posed at top of thread ... looking forward to viewing the the demographics here. :)
 
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I can be dominant with other girls occasionally, but I am always submissive with men.
 
Definitely more of a sub - I can switch it up for the right person, but I'd consider myself a sub more than switch :)
 
Definitely more of a sub - I can switch it up for the right person, but I'd consider myself a sub more than switch :)

In what way do you like to switch?physical, mental or emotional or any combination thereof? Is the switch only to suit the other persons desire or something that you want to do for yourself because it is that particular person?

I love your new avatar.
 
In what way do you like to switch?physical, mental or emotional or any combination thereof? Is the switch only to suit the other persons desire or something that you want to do for yourself because it is that particular person?

I love your new avatar.

Sometimes I just feel like being in a dominate mood physically. It's mainly to suit the other person, but I'm also usually only into being dominant with people I'm comfortable with. It's kinda hard to explain haha

I don't think I've changed my avatar for a while, but can you see it with my post now? I still don't see it in my posts :/
 
Just wondering what the general make-up of Literotica women visiting this forum would consider themselves to be.

All of them and none of them-it can change minute by minute, second by second depending on how the person I'm with makes me feel and what we're doing, my mood and how confident I feel in the levels of intimacy we share

my ex was very submissive and while I enjoyed it at times-the sameness of it, because it was such an overwhelming fetish for him, just led to me feeling shite, as it wasn't my fetish, and the end of our relationship
 
I came to Lit looking for a Dom and I have been very fortunate in finding a great one. Interestingly, I've also met three younger men here who want me as a Mom Domme and it has been a fascinating experience for me to watch myself consider this role, try it and reject it. I've realised that I tend to be dominant in all other aspects of my life. I have admitted to myself that I WANT to give up control sexually because I'm just tired of being in charge of everything all the time and I can't afford to do that anywhere else than in the bedroom. Having said this, however, I'll admit freely that I enjoyed the experiences with these young men thoroughly, and so perhaps, in time, I will become more of a switch...or a full-blown Domme.
 
I would have to say I'm an equal opportunity gal in that arena lol What I mean to say is that I don't term myself anything except what feels good, to either person in the partnership, at the time.
 
I tend to be more submissive in nature, but with my Ricanbandit...I'll try ANYTHING at least once.... :heart::devil::heart:

*giggles*
 
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