Ladies....do you ever

[intrigued]

start cramping and hurting as you approach orgasm through masturbation? If so, do you know why? This has been happening to me alot recently, and it hurts so bad that i have to stop. I don't hurt any other time...

Also, for those of you that aren't terribly sensitive, do you have a hard time orgasming without a vibrator, or really intense stimulation? I have almost no sensation on my clit until I use a vibe, and I can use mine on high almost within seconds, and its the only way I can orgasm. These orgasms are not intense at all. My best orgasms are with my G~Spot, which is very sensitive, using a G~Spot vibe.
I am trying to learn to orgasm without anything other than my hand, and it just isn't happening..I can't feel anything.

Any thoughts? Thank you very much.

 

[Guest]

I can make myself orgasm pretty easy. Painless too. I perfected the art. Long time ago when I was twelve.

 

[A Desert Rose]

mmmm.... it happens after I orgasm. And I do understand your other problems. Perhaps we can share this information off the board? You can say aye or nay.... ~smiling~

 

[intrigued]

mmmm.... it happens after I orgasm. And I do understand your other problems. Perhaps we can share this information off the board? You can say aye or nay.... ~smiling~

Aye.

 

[Agent99]

Have you ruled out any physical or health problems? I have heard of pain during intercourse but I suppose similar causes might occur during masturbation as well.

Here's a place to start:

http://my.webmd.com/content/article/2953.509

 

[A Desert Rose]

~smiling~ I can't be giving my secrets away in front of CV..... I am secretly in love with him, you know.

Thank you intrigued.... you will be hearing from me soon.

 

[intrigued]

Have you ruled out any physical or health problems? I have heard of pain during intercourse but I suppose similar causes might occur during masturbation as well.

Here's a place to start:

http://my.webmd.com/content/article/2953.509

While I am familiar with pain during intercourse and its causes, and have NOT ruled out anything medical, I don't have pain during intercourse.
Thats why I am so puzzled.

Thanks for the links, I'll check them out.

A Desert Rose...no, I am thanking you.

 

[lavender]

 

[acitore_vuli]

~smiling~ I can't be giving my secrets away in front of CV..... I am secretly in love with him, you know.

well, so much for me devoting the rest of my life trying to win your love. God I'm so stupid! ***smacks himself repeatedly in the head***

 

[A Desert Rose]

well, so much for me devoting the rest of my life trying to win your love. God I'm so stupid! ***smacks himself repeatedly in the head***

No no.... don't stop trying, please ~smiling~

 

[Lithe]

masturbation, painful & not

I've never had pain from masterbating over a long time period. Sometimes if I've been boinking too long, my clit gets irritated and then we have to leave it alone, but it always goes away.

I rarely have orgasm during masturbation without my electric Mr. Happy. Am chagrined to say that I've never had a lover that knew anything about my G spot. But, after reading about the technique here on literotica, I'll never have to say that again. I never asked what those bent vibes were for, and now I know! Thanks for the tip.

Also, I always wondered if using a vibe was making it harder to orgasm during sex. I'm still not convinced it just is a matter of narrow minded, inexperienced or ignorant lovemaking. But I'm going to keep that in mind.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

start cramping and hurting as you approach orgasm through masturbation? If so, do you know why? This has been happening to me alot recently, and it hurts so bad that i have to stop. I don't hurt any other time...

Also, for those of you that aren't terribly sensitive, do you have a hard time orgasming without a vibrator, or really intense stimulation? I have almost no sensation on my clit until I use a vibe, and I can use mine on high almost within seconds, and its the only way I can orgasm. These orgasms are not intense at all. My best orgasms are with my G~Spot, which is very sensitive, using a G~Spot vibe.
I am trying to learn to orgasm without anything other than my hand, and it just isn't happening..I can't feel anything.

Any thoughts? Thank you very much.

OK, admit it, Intrigued. This isn't really a problem. You just wanted to drive your legion of fans crazy by talking about yourself doing those things.

Well it worked. Now I need to take my third cold shower of the day.

 

[cutie pie]

my experience. . .

The only time I ever experienced a cramping sensation when orgasming is when using the shower massage. I decided that it was probably from the postition and the intensity of the water flow.

As for sensitivity. . .I do notice a significant decrease in sensitivity after multiple days of sex and/or masturbating. Could this be part of the problem? As much as I crave it on a daily basis, sometimes it pays to take a day off.

Oh, and

 

[intrigued]

Re: my experience. . .

The only time I ever experienced a cramping sensation when orgasming is when using the shower massage. I decided that it was probably from the postition and the intensity of the water flow.

As for sensitivity. . .I do notice a significant decrease in sensitivity after multiple days of sex and/or masturbating. Could this be part of the problem? As much as I crave it on a daily basis, sometimes it pays to take a day off.

Oh, and

*Notes the big grins*

I am beginning to think there is a link to the desensitization from the vibe, but then again, I have always been almost numb there. I've just noticed that it takes more and more to make me feel anything. Its odd that I can orgasm so easily with the G~Spot vibe, but the whole time I am just aching for the stimulation on my clit as well. if I try to do both, or just the clit, the orgasm builds and then the cramping starts...I don't know what to think.

wolfie...now if thats what I had in mind, I'd just send you my ogasm story.

lavender...I agree about the vibes, and yep, you are a bit odd with your gushing orgasms...mine just kill me!

Lithe...I saw the same post, and hit the sex shop the very next day. I became a new woman.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Re: Re: my experience. . .

*Notes the big grins*


wolfie...now if thats what I had in mind, I'd just send you my ogasm story.

*waiting....waiting....tapping foot*

Well...where is it?

 

[intrigued]

Re: Re: Re: my experience. . .

*waiting....waiting....tapping foot*

Well...where is it?

Oh, alright! But Sir, be ready for shower number 4!

(I'll PM it)

 

[glamorilla]

i've gotten charlie horses on particularly dewey cold mornings.

which actually made it good for my buddy becouse i started bucking even harder and he thought i was just really enjoying myself.

 

[intrigued]

i've gotten charlie horses on particularly dewey cold mornings.

which actually made it good for my buddy becouse i started bucking even harder and he thought i was just really enjoying myself.

I'll try rolling over and bucking my bed.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

I'll try rolling over and bucking my bed.

I enjoy a good buck, myself.

And why are we spelling funny?

 

[glamorilla]

fucking is just thrusting in and out.

bucking is doing it so hard you actually bounce somebody up and down on you lap.

 

[intrigued]

fucking is just thrusting in and out.

bucking is doing it so hard you actually bounce somebody up and down on you lap.

LOL...you crack me up!

See, the problem is that I don't have the bucking tool required to fuck someone up and down on my lap!

 

[intrigued]

I enjoy a good buck, myself.

And why are we spelling funny?

See above.

Edited because I'm laughing so hard I lost my sense of direction.

 

[LukkyKnight]

LOL...you crack me up!

See, the problem is that I don't have the bucking tool required to fuck someone up and down on my lap!

Wanna discuss a loaner?

 

[intrigued]

Wanna discuss a loaner?

Ahhh...my prayers of being a man have been answered! Umm...will it squirt over and over repeatedly???

 

[LukkyKnight]

Being a man?

There is some evidence of durability of function.