Ladies cum first

[jamper1957]

Ok so how many of you feel the same way I do? For me the ladies has to cum first. Iam LITTLE rough yes but I go down on her till she is ready to scream then back off. I do this a few time before making her cum hard. I also will maul the titties, slap and bit the thighs a little maybe even spank her clit. All this to insure she cums before I even put my cock to her.Give me your feed back please.

 

[someguy7791]

I believe in the 3 to 1 rule

I make my wife cum at least 3 times before I get to cum. A rule I apply to myself. My wife and other women I have been with appreciate it.

 

[hadruprider]

Yes I like to make her cum first. But not as you say before entering her. I like to get her very close with fingers and tongue, then get deep inside her and finish her off that way, with a bit of clit-fingerinng at the same time.
If you make her cum before penetrating her you miss out on the amazing orgasm-spasm cock massage!

 

[OpenMouth]

Yes, I always make sure she cums first. It's too easy though; she has no self control...

 

[slayergirl69]

Ladies first ;-)

We have a rule that I always cum first Greg loves this and so do I! (duh lol) and if I don't then he most definitely will not

 

[MrEd63]

May sound selfish guys, but the more you give, the more you get.

 

[Erodicus]

Ladies First

Ok so how many of you feel the same way I do? For me the ladies has to cum first. Iam LITTLE rough yes but I go down on her till she is ready to scream then back off. I do this a few time before making her cum hard. I also will maul the titties, slap and bit the thighs a little maybe even spank her clit. All this to insure she cums before I even put my cock to her.Give me your feed back please.

I have only had sex with women who have multiple orgasms, so it's always been my goal to maximise their pleasure before I take mine. I've occasionally developed a very tired tongue and jaw before she wanted my cock in her.

 

[coastalbender]

Of course my wife cums first. I love her, and it makes her happy. There's an upside for me, of course. If I give her a screaming, flailing, desperately push-my-head-away from her pussy orgasm, as soon as she's done convulsing, she'll just about throw me down to truly suck my dick into her mouth and then nurse on it like she's starving and it's her only source of food. And once she's eaten enough pre-cum to satisfy her, she presents like a dog in heat and insists on getting my load as deep as I can shoot.

From the first time we had sex I got her to cum so hard that she insisted on taking my load bare, with no birth control, and it's been like that ever since.

 

[Bigspurt]

May sound selfish guys, but the more you give, the more you get.

Unfortunately that is not true with my wife.

 

[Ramone45]

Of course my wife cums first. I love her, and it makes her happy. There's an upside for me, of course. If I give her a screaming, flailing, desperately push-my-head-away from her pussy orgasm, as soon as she's done convulsing, she'll just about throw me down to truly suck my dick into her mouth and then nurse on it like she's starving and it's her only source of food. And once she's eaten enough pre-cum to satisfy her, she presents like a dog in heat and insists on getting my load as deep as I can shoot.

From the first time we had sex I got her to cum so hard that she insisted on taking my load bare, with no birth control, and it's been like that ever since.

It's as if you were describing me and my wife. I take good care of her especially after she cums. Once she recovers, she is an animal. The best part is her cocksucking skills.She's small and I'm big, but she likes to try to deep throat me. It gets crazy sometimes with the gagging and such. But every once in awhile, I feel her throat open and my cock slide in, and she will get down to my balls. That makes her very happy. It's as if she's met a challenge.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hey just to flag up on this thread that, speaking from the perspective of a long term relationship, there are plenty of times when my woman wants to give herself to me, knowing that she is not going to get to orgasm, nor particularly wanting to, but that she will have great pleasure in my pleasure with her body. I value that immensely.

Then to say that, of course, mostly when we make love we desire that there will be profound climax for both of us. I put it that way because my woman is most often a 'one mega' woman, and only occasionally will she have a series of orgasms. While there are occasions when I get her off prior to fucking her, she far, far prefers - and so do I - that her orgasm, her mega orgasm, is on my cock deep inside her with all the raking of her g and the grinding on her clit that goes with it. I suppose that eight times out of ten we get her into that high orbit of bliss before I'm near cumming, and I adore the 'control' element I have with that. Yet I also adore the two times out of ten when her explosion of joy sets away mine, such that in the latter third of her time in heaven, I'm roaring and spunking my ropes deep in her pussy while she cries out and thrashes about. That's damn good stuff.

 

[carlsnake]

My wife and I enjoy it most when she cums first and second. I bought her a big dildo/vibrator last week: 2 inches thick and 9 inches long. I was using on her gently when she took it from me and started fucking herself hard with it. I think it's a keeper, based on the orgasms it produced.

 

[AngeliqueIdylle]

Hi!

Hi!

And, on the serious side, I think that most gentlemen have good intentions like this, but in the heat of the moment and what not. I'll give you a pass on the first date.

 

[John988]

Totally! I can't imagine a better way to get her up than, well getting her up and over (lol), and since the bulk of my arousal comes from how she's feeling, it's, like, the ultimate turn on.

 

[Olderthanthat]

Hi!

And, on the serious side, I think that most gentlemen have good intentions like this, but in the heat of the moment and what not. I'll give you a pass on the first date.

Ha, love it!

 

[Carnevil9]

The great Sam Kinnison said: "Make her cum twice, before she can even see your dick!"

 

[LordHawk]

My wife doesn't even always come when we have sex. Sometimes its just me using but we have that type of relationship and she knows it can happen. And sometimes, she's had great orgasms when I keep fucking after I've came, something about the cock being a little soft letting it hit the spot better. And both of us prefer when she comes on my cock instead of from going down on her. So it can vary depending on the people involved.

 

[DrMurdock]

Watching a girl cum is one of the things that really helps me get off. There's a satisfaction in getting her off, but I can't say I do it completely selflessly

 

[OneAuthor]

Making my wife come (or cum) turns me on big-time, so I definitely like to pleasure her to an orgasm before my needs are satisfied.

On a related note, we have tried mutual masturbation and only once did we ever get off simultaneously. Usually seeing/hearing her getting really turned on (and yes, she makes lots of wonderfully erotic noises) is too much for me and I spill my juices before she can.

 

[Klinkster]

Usually, I'll make my wife cum first. Then after I cum, I'll eat her out and really make her cum!
Her cumming always makes me want o cum again, so we start over!

Cum and repeat!

 

[Biker_Type]

i am, and always have been, a believer that the lady should ALWAYS cum. first if she wants it that way or after if she likes that better.

 

[Carnevil9]

If I come before she does, I feel like I've just eaten dessert before my entree. And that just feels wrong!

 

[Klinkster]

If I come before she does, I feel like I've just eaten dessert before my entree. And that just feels wrong!

Not quite.....if you cum first.....

....you just made your desert, and she's....er...it's.... waiting to be eaten!!

 

[saustin5432]

I prefer if she cums first, just because it leaves me with more options for how I want to get off. No girl I've ever been with has orgasmed while I'm decorating her chest with cum, so sometimes it's just easier if she's satisfied.

 

[girlyboi85]

I don't want to cum. I want *you* to cum in *me*.