Ladies,(and, some Men, too,) a question

[nasty1]

Ok. I know this was done a while ago, but, this is kinda different. Could you go with someone who couldn't have intercourse, because, of impotence? And, drugs did NOTHING to improve it.

 

[red_rose]

Love is love.

It may be difficult... but if I was really interested in the person, I would probably give it a go.

 

[dreamer]

I have been with two women who no matter what I would've loved and stayed with forever.

Having said this, if I knew ahead of time...hmmm...it'd be difficult to get to that place without that intimacy.

 

[lovetoread]

I would tell him that his fingers and tongue have many uses.

 

[cybergirly]

I would say yes. It would be hard at times, (no pun intended) but I believe that the mind is the most important of erogenous zones, and if I "clicked" with the other person mentally it could be enough.

 

[Guest]

 

[bluntforcemama]

Am I marrying a Monk?

 

[Kitte]

Can he still kiss me? That is what counts I have vibrators for a reason the actual penetration isnt important it is the intimacy of being together.

 

[nasty1]

Nope. But, after I did some recreational Pot,(remember that thread,?)I'm afraid it happened to me. The docs say I'm fine. But, I DON'T feel fine. Nervous as hell.

 

[cybergirly]

Nope. But, after I did some recreational Pot,(remember that thread,?)I'm afraid it happened to me. The docs say I'm fine. But, I DON'T feel fine. Nervous as hell.

being "nervous as hell" could be the problem.

 

[nasty1]

I hope your right.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I had about a month I could not sustain an erection a few years back. We tried everything within reason to help me overcome this problem and nothing helped. I knew it was in my mind, from stress and various other issues I was going through, thankfully so did she. I can honestly say during those few weeks we were closer, she was more supportive, and it has seemingly made our relationship stronger. We spent hours laying in bed simply holding one another, plus when the urge hit her that she needed some sort of sexual release, I was not offended in anyway that she could have an orgasm. I am glad that it was not a long lasting condition, but I would not trade the closeness she and I shared during that time for anything in the world.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Yup

It would be tough, but we'd have the largest collection of toys this side of Calgary. And I am perfectly happy rimming a man, and pleasing him in other ways, so he'd be happy, too.

 

[AnnaB]

Unless the man is like my exhusband...couldn't get it up so all forms of intimacy were out of the question. I lived like that for six years until I finally said to hell with it, packed my bags and my kid and left. I don't regret that day one bit!

 

[Allexus_TN]

Well, if he's willing to physically please me in other ways. Toys, fingers, tongue, whatever. And kissing me. Physical intimacy is not everything, no, but it does help intimacy in other parts of a relationship.

 

[toysrfun]

Can he still kiss me? That is what counts I have vibrators for a reason the actual penetration isnt important it is the intimacy of being together.

Kissing is very important (as are toys - but then I could be considered biased). But seriously, all of us can give ourselves an orgasm if we really need one, but as of yet I haven't found a way to kiss myself.

Toys