LADIES A QUESTION If I may... PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY

blackstallion21

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And Gents, but I'll get to you in a minute!

LADIES!!!

WHAT WOULD YOU DO, if a guy walked up to you in a bar, and started talking to you. He's NOT your Type but He's Not ugly. Maybe a little chunky around the waist, but NOT HUGE or GROTESQUELY Over Weight... Maybe he's NOT your "Race Preference..." but you talk to him. The conversation gets hot and heavy or at least becomes an in depth conversation... you maybe dance with him a little bit too!

All of the sudden he says, "I've got a question for you." and He leans over to your ear, brushes your hair back, and whispers...

"I really want to take you out to my car and spread your pussy lips open right now and suck on your clit until you explode!"


WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Do you slap him? Tell the bartender/bouncer? Curse Him out? ~OR~ Give Him a Shot at it?

This has been a TOTAL FANTASY of Mine to walk up to a total stranger and do this!

I just want to know What the general response is before I 'COMMIT SUICIDE'


GUYS You can answer too, (the same scenario, but a woman, or a man asks to give you head)

BUT PLEASE DON'T BOMBARD THE THREAD! I want to hear the ladies point of view!

PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY, AND ANSWER SOON! I want to do this SOON if I get a good enough response!
 
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I have to say that I wouldn't slap you....I doubt I would let you give it a shot, but I would not slap you. I would probably laugh out of shock and ask if you were being serious....then depending on how intense the conversation had been prior to your question, I may talk more about why you want to do that and get the details you have in your mind and start sharing fantasies.
 
Mmmmmmm probably a No Go..... to be honest, even if the guy was my type, still wouldn't happen. I agree with Sweetpea, I'd probably laugh out of shock and nervousness.... but after my initial reaction, I'd probably disappear to the Ladies Room or embed myself in a group of my friends.
 
I would probably just start at you, blush and walk off or play you for an idiot, depending on what sort of mood I was in.
 
You'd blow it with me if you did that. I'd probably tell you to fuck off.
 
Damn, I didn't know this was that incredibly offensive. I knew it would turn a few people off, but I figured I'd find out...

MENTAL NOTE: DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME!

Back to the drawing board!
 
Damn, I didn't know this was that incredibly offensive. I knew it would turn a few people off, but I figured I'd find out...

MENTAL NOTE: DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME!

Back to the drawing board!

you will not know until you try. A friend once said he goes to a bar and hits on 50 women, because by the law of averages hopefully one of them will say yes. We're not all the same you know. Some of the 50will slap Your face, some will laugh, some will get offended, some will get angry but if just one says yes you are ahead of the game. There are some of us out there that if a friendly rapport developed you, your whispered suggestion would be met with a yes please.
 
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My jaw would probably drop. I'd half nervously laugh. Then stutter out some excuse as to why I needed to leave. In fantasy it would be hot, in reality it would be kind of scary.
 
you will not know until you try. A friend once said he goes to a bar and hits on 50 women, because by the law of averages hopefully one of them will say yes. We're not all the same you know. Some of the 50will slap Your face, some will laugh, some will get offended, some will get angry but if just one says yes you are ahead of the game. There are some of us out there that if a friendly rapport developed you, your whispered suggestion would we met with a yes please.

My jaw would probably drop. I'd half nervously laugh. Then stutter out some excuse as to why I needed to leave. In fantasy it would be hot, in reality it would be kind of scary.

Thank both of you for being honest. I posted this in another thread and got really smart ass answers. I know that this would be a true gamble, but in fantasy;like Kahlo said, THIS WOULD BE THE BIGGEST DREAM COME TRUE to get a "yes" answer from a TOTAL STRANGER... and for things to go from HOT to OH MY GOD, in mere secs!
 
I'd probably tell you to fuck off and give you a funny look before walking off.

:D
 
And Gents, but I'll get to you in a minute!

LADIES!!!

WHAT WOULD YOU DO, if a guy walked up to you in a bar, and started talking to you. He's NOT your Type but He's Not ugly. Maybe a little chunky around the waist, but NOT HUGE or GROTESQUELY Over Weight... Maybe he's NOT your "Race Preference..." but you talk to him. The conversation gets hot and heavy or at least becomes an in depth conversation... you maybe dance with him a little bit too!

All of the sudden he says, "I've got a question for you." and He leans over to your ear, brushes your hair back, and whispers...

"I really want to take you out to my car and spread your pussy lips open right now and suck on your clit until you explode!"


WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Do you slap him? Tell the bartender/bouncer? Curse Him out? ~OR~ Give Him a Shot at it?

This has been a TOTAL FANTASY of Mine to walk up to a total stranger and do this!

I just want to know What the general response is before I 'COMMIT SUICIDE'


GUYS You can answer too, (the same scenario, but a woman, or a man asks to give you head)

BUT PLEASE DON'T BOMBARD THE THREAD! I want to hear the ladies point of view!

PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY, AND ANSWER SOON! I want to do this SOON if I get a good enough response!

No way in hell this would work on a girl. If it does ever work I will give up sex and become a nun.
 
And Gents, but I'll get to you in a minute!

LADIES!!!

WHAT WOULD YOU DO, if a guy walked up to you in a bar, and started talking to you. He's NOT your Type but He's Not ugly. Maybe a little chunky around the waist, but NOT HUGE or GROTESQUELY Over Weight... Maybe he's NOT your "Race Preference..." but you talk to him. The conversation gets hot and heavy or at least becomes an in depth conversation... you maybe dance with him a little bit too!

All of the sudden he says, "I've got a question for you." and He leans over to your ear, brushes your hair back, and whispers...

"I really want to take you out to my car and spread your pussy lips open right now and suck on your clit until you explode!"


WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Do you slap him? Tell the bartender/bouncer? Curse Him out? ~OR~ Give Him a Shot at it?

This has been a TOTAL FANTASY of Mine to walk up to a total stranger and do this!

I just want to know What the general response is before I 'COMMIT SUICIDE'


GUYS You can answer too, (the same scenario, but a woman, or a man asks to give you head)

BUT PLEASE DON'T BOMBARD THE THREAD! I want to hear the ladies point of view!

PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY, AND ANSWER SOON! I want to do this SOON if I get a good enough response!
I would look at you and say, "Not in your wildest dreams", then walk away....
 
I dunno...that screams 'danger' to me.
I'd assume that roofies (rufies?) were next.
 
Mmm..depends how well you dance...and flirt...over doing it is a turn off...
But I wouldn't say no of the bat depending on my martini intake...lol

FYI this from someone who oce was asked what |I was doing after the bar and I replied
"getting laid" with a stone cold serious face to a guy....
he was fun...
;)
 
so... in a general consensus...


back to the drawing board! the bad responses way out weigh the good!!!!!!!!!
 
You definitely have problems with your social skills, especially with women.

You seem pretty far gone. :(
 
Freaky, but...

As a guy, I think I'd even be a bit freaked out by a woman who was that direct. I'm just not that trusting.

I would think the safer route would be to steer the conversation to that of fantasies. Talk about other people in the bar and what you think they'll be doing later. Test the waters by slowly disclosing more of what turns you on, etc. If she's keeping up with you - not offended, asking for more details, etc. - you might eventually get there. The key, I would expect, is some element of safety. "How do I know this guy isn't an axe-murderer, and if he is, how do I get away?"

Of course, maybe that's not part of your fantasy, but taking the fast lane won't get you anywhere if you crash! :cool:
 
You definitely have problems with your social skills, especially with women.

You seem pretty far gone. :(

Not at all... It was just a hypothetical question, but thanks for the diagnosis Doc! I'll make sure to check myself into the mental clinic as soon as possible!

WOW I can't believe you all are so pissy about this! My best friend (who happens to be a girl) Laughed HYSTERICALLY and Dared me to do it!

I don't think I have the balls to do it, but I figured I'd ask on here! Just a question ladies! NOT the end of the world as we know it!
 
As a guy, I think I'd even be a bit freaked out by a woman who was that direct. I'm just not that trusting.

I would think the safer route would be to steer the conversation to that of fantasies. Talk about other people in the bar and what you think they'll be doing later. Test the waters by slowly disclosing more of what turns you on, etc. If she's keeping up with you - not offended, asking for more details, etc. - you might eventually get there. The key, I would expect, is some element of safety. "How do I know this guy isn't an axe-murderer, and if he is, how do I get away?"

Of course, maybe that's not part of your fantasy, but taking the fast lane won't get you anywhere if you crash! :cool:

See! Thank you! An answer that DIDN'T Bite my head off! I respect that answer, and I take it in stride! I don't think I would have the balls to do it, BUT I was a little buzzed up at the bar, I asked my best friend what SHE would do in that situation. She laughed at me, and told me

"It depends on how drunk I was, How horny I was, How HOT he was, and Lastly it would come down to my Judgment. If my stomach told me NO, I'd probably brush him off gently, and if the situation progressed, I'd call a bouncer and or the police. BUT there would be MANY factors riding on my answer to him. It wouldn't be an out right "Yes or No."
 
I asked my best friend what SHE would do in that situation. She laughed at me, and she told me "It depends on how drunk I was, How horny I was, How HOT he was, and Lastly it would come down to my Judgment. If my stomach told me NO, I'd probably brush him off gently, and if the situation progressed, I'd call a bouncer and or the police. BUT there would be MANY factors riding on my answer to him. It wouldn't be an out right "Yes or No."

After reading a lot of the posts in other threads from women about their sexual adventures, your friend's answer seems like it would be reasonable. Maybe not common, but not really rare, either. Quite a few women claim to have done all sorts of things within a couple of hours of meeting a guy, so I don't think this is too different.
 
Your friend laughed at you because she knows you. You doing this to a stranger would be creepy, scary, to name a few


are there some women out there that might do it? very, very, very, very few. Quite honestly, i think you would be a moronic dumbass to do it and would deserve any mace and slaps you would get
 
I wouldn't dance with him or show any interest in him whatsoever from the beginning. If he did then I'd tell him I wasn't interested. So if he whispered that in my ears then I'd probably spray mace in his eyes. Fucking sicko.

If it wasn't who you described it as and was a person I was interested in then I'd probably smack them and walk away.

Btw, not all human beings are heterosexual. It seems you can't comprehend that.

Your friend laughed at you because she knows you. You doing this to a stranger would be creepy, scary, to name a few


are there some women out there that might do it? very, very, very, very few. Quite honestly, i think you would be a moronic dumbass to do it and would deserve any mace and slaps you would get


I love the fact that Everyone is so Politically correct!

No, I don't believe that Every Individual on the face of this planet is SO HIGH AND MIGHTY that you haven't done SOMETHING WAY OUT THERE or Wouldn't Do SOMETHING YOU WOULD REGRET upon drinking too much alcohol!

Give me a break people! I'm NOT a "moronic dumb ass, or a Crack Head" or any other name you might conjure up in your quest to be Holier than Thou!! Give me a Fucking Break people! It was a Hypothetical Question!

I'm a Very Educated person, with a college degree and half a brain! (sorry to those of you that thought you used more than 10% of your brain, but you should have learned THAT SHIT in High School!)

More than anything else, Give me a break! You can answer anyone else's Hypothetical Questions, But I post one, and I'm all kind of names!

Thanks to all of the Honest People who gave Honest Answers, and who were Polite, and To the ones who only follow what the person above you said because you can't think on your own, Thank you too! You show me more and more that the DECLINE OF HUMAN SOCIETY Is Rapidly Approaching!

God Bless You TOO!
 
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