La Maison de Douleur

[Maitre de Soumission]

Hi, everyone welcome to my thread it's an open door so come on in and have a chat.

Has anyone see Les Ange esclave by the way?

 

[LesAngeEsclave]

Hi, everyone welcome to my thread it's an open door so come on in and have a chat.

Has anyone see Les Ange esclave by the way?

Sir I am here. What can I do for you, Sir?

 

[Maitre de Soumission]

LesAngeEsclave

Welcome my pretty, come sit down over here, don't mind the ropes or cuffs......

 

[LesAngeEsclave]

Yes Sir, I will...No I don't mind the ropes and cuffs, Sir. What ever you wish to do, Sir?

 

[cymbidia]

Greetings to both of you and welcome to the BDSM forum here at Literotica.

Have you had a chance to look at the stickies posted by the door as you came in? Aside from containing some info of importance to all those who love as we do, one contains the very short list of our rules and a much longer accounting of who we are here, and on what we tend to focus as a community. It's good info for those just coming to join us.

We're all enriched with the additon of new faces; it is in that spirit of community that i offer you, again, warm greetings.

cym

 

[Maitre de Soumission]

Well if you bend over this I'll see what I can arrange for you.

 

[LesAngeEsclave]

You mean like this Sir. Just want to do the right thing, Sir.

 

[LesAngeEsclave]

Greetings to both of you and welcome to the BDSM forum here at Literotica.

Have you had a chance to look at the stickies posted by the door as you came in? Aside from containing some info of importance to all those who love as we do, one contains the very short list of our rules and a much longer accounting of who we are here, and on what we tend to focus as a community. It's good info for those just coming to join us.

We're all enriched with the additon of new faces; it is in that spirit of community that i offer you, again, warm greetings.

cym

Thank you, but I haven't yet, I will.

 

[Maitre de Soumission]

Greetings to both of you and welcome to the BDSM forum here at Literotica.

Have you had a chance to look at the stickies posted by the door as you came in? Aside from containing some info of importance to all those who love as we do, one contains the very short list of our rules and a much longer accounting of who we are here, and on what we tend to focus as a community. It's good info for those just coming to join us.

We're all enriched with the additon of new faces; it is in that spirit of community that i offer you, again, warm greetings.

cym

Thanks cym, nice to find somewhere we can relax and do our own thing without judgement.

 

[cymbidia]

We don't tend toward being judgemental as i think you'll find out. However, we *are* distinctly focused on the discussion of issues that revolve around skin-to-skin kinds of BDSM (as opposed to that which one finds in online chatrooms).

One cannot get away from the prevalence of chatroom type BDSM entirely; it's everywhere one goes online. There are far fewer places in which one can anticipate being a participant in the give-and-take of info relating to the fascinating and wildly exciting labrynith of "real life" BDSM sexual practices.

In this small corner of the vast cyber slipstream, Lit's BDSM forum is happily content to be one such "real life" oriented place - and determined to remain so.

 

[Mr Wolf]

Just bumping a thread with such an perfect name, after all is it not what we are all about.

 

[Justine de Loup]

Am I at the right place?

I have been lurking around trying to learn more of this lifestyle. I haven't posted much because I don't want to risk Cymbidia's wrath of my ignorance in RL. I want to experience these things in RL but have problems finding people in my area who are open enough to help me in my quest for knowledge. "Online", as she has said, is nothing in comparison although I have learned some degrees of obedience. I need more but don't know where to go from here...

Thank you for the information I have gleaned so far...

Justine

 

[Maitre de Soumission]

Justine, how nice of you to post here, it is what I wished this thread to become. Anything to be asked or stated with no censor although mindless/senseless attacks or abuse will not be tolerated. Cym will be help full I'm sure on your journey as well we all.

 

[Justine de Loup]

Thank you kind sir...

I will try to ask questions that won't sound ignorant but yet take me further into understanding, sir...

Justine

 

[Justine de Loup]

Advice would be much help...

Although I have learned much from my online tutoring, I feel the need for RL, skin to skin experience. It would be most helpful if someone would point me in the direction of finding someone in my area to get to know and trust to further my education. I wouldn't mind direct contact or even a link to follow thru with...

Again, my thanks!

Justine

 

[cymbidia]

Justine, how nice of you to post here, it is what I wished this thread to become. Anything to be asked or stated with no censor although mindless/senseless attacks or abuse will not be tolerated. Cym will be help full I'm sure on your journey as well we all.

With all due respect, i'm a moderator on this board and you are not. ANYTHING may definitely not be asked or stated if it violates our forum and/or Lit-wide rules. Additionally, we have casual community standards for this board which i will act to uphold. Here, for example, we're dedicated to the discussion of BDSM within a real time envionment. It's something that's stated quite clearly in one of our top-of-the-list stickies.

I will post where and what i feel i need to post to enforce this community standard and all of our few rules, good sir. There is no way to keep the fantasy players out of any online place, to my personal dismay, but i will work to keep them contained within a very few threads here, your assurance of saying and doing whatever you like to the contrary.

It would be most helpful if someone would point me in the direction of finding someone in my area to get to know and trust to further my education. I wouldn't mind direct contact or even a link to follow thru with...

1. go to www.google.com

2. enter the words "BDSM munch [the name of the nearest largish city to your locations]"

3. begin perusing the links to find munch organizations near you

4. send email telling them you are new to this in the physical wworld sense of it, but you've done some online study, and would like to attend one of thier munches

They will welcome you, Justine, i promise.

That's how one can begin to take thier need for BDSM friendships from the illusory and fantastical online world to the possibility of making friends with needs that run parallel to yours in the everyday world, Justine.

It's a voyage we all take, or we choose a life of solitary confinement safe within the realm of our imagination via online play.

 

[superlittlegirl]

Re: Am I at the right place?

<snip> I haven't posted much because I don't want to risk Cymbidia's wrath of my ignorance in RL. <snip>

With all due respect, I feel the need to speak up. I have never observed Cymbidia exhibiting any behavior that even borders on wrath. I have observed that she is in no way judgemental about anyone's (lack of) accrued hours in RL play. She is protective of the space we have here, and rightly so. I don't think the characterization of her as wrathful is in any way accurate or fair. Perhaps if you lurk a little longer you will see that she is even-tempered, fair, and highly knowledgable without being one bit pretentious. You may even, over time, find yourself as protective of the board as many of the rest of us are. This is an incredibly unique place, because you don't have to fear. Of course, reading the stickies at the top will answer a lot of the questions you may already have, and make your transition into this one-of-a-kind space even more effortless.

I know Cymbidia is perfectly capable of speaking for herself, and doesn't need my defense, but I just wanted to let you know what my personal observations of her demeanor are. I feel comforted to have her strength and presence in this forum.

--Freya

 

[Justine de Loup]

My humble apologies, Cymbidia!

I was somewhat humbled by the knowledge of RL BDSM that I have read from your posts...it made me very leary of being called a fake to the lifestyle. I claim no experience and was afraid to come off as being a troll...I appreciate your benevolent kindness in guiding me to the right connections for my area of the States as I have no one other than Lit to discuss these things with. Again, my thanks!!


Freya...I can only hope to gain a defender such as yourself! I look forward to getting to know more of you here! I'm sorry if I offended you in any way....


Justine

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: My humble apologies, Cymbidia!

I was somewhat humbled by the knowledge of RL BDSM that I have read from your posts...it made me very leary of being called a fake to the lifestyle. I claim no experience and was afraid to come off as being a troll...I appreciate your benevolent kindness in guiding me to the right connections for my area of the States as I have no one other than Lit to discuss these things with. Again, my thanks!!


Freya...I can only hope to gain a defender such as yourself! I look forward to getting to know more of you here! I'm sorry if I offended you in any way....


Justine

Justine, everyone commits a faux pas now and then. When you were called on yours you replied with grace and class. This is a friendly place, populated by kind people who are happy to share, to help, and to support. Don't be afraid to be yourself. You are very welcome here.

 

[Justine de Loup]

Thank you for your support, CarolineOh!

As I stated previously, I'm hoping to learn more and possibly make friends of some sort here...I will appreciate and welcome any advice or guidance freely given!!

Justine

 

[DRxBlue]

Justine...welcome

You don't seem very troll-like to me. Perhaps un mouton dans l'habillement du loup, *grin* but not a troll.

If you came with a sincere desire to learn, you've definitely come to the right place. As one of our esteemed Litizens has said (i paraphrase) I came here looking for food for thought, and found all All-you-can-eat buffet.

The directions for finding "intelligent life" in your own neighborhood that cym listed WORK! i tried them myself, with great success.

Stick around for a while, search the archives, ask questions if you like, try to be respectful and soon your head will be all twisted and you'll find yourself perfectly perverted.

You may make some wonderful friends who, like superlittlegirl just did, (i think mostly to set your mind at ease) will defend you and rejoice in your company.

Enjoy! You're among potential friends.

Doctor Blue

(edited for better "flow")

 

[superlittlegirl]

Justine,

I truly hope I didn't come across as being too terse. I know you didn't mean offense, and I didn't really take offense. I just felt the need to explain. I am fiercely protective of the people I admire, and I have no doubt that I'd be just as quick to defend you if someone spoke inaccurate words about you. I can tell from your posts that you are very sweet. I look forward to getting to know you better through your posts in the forum.

--Freya

 

[Justine de Loup]

I almost feel right at home...

Given time, I'm sure I'll call it thus....

Thanks Dr...for the hand up...I'm going to try the google thing tomorrow as I need to go to bed...work comes early tomorrow!

Freya...We Southern girls always are sweeter than sugar!! Now I'll do my best to befriend all the new comers as graciously as you all have....

Good night to all...will lurk again tomorrow!!

Justine

 

[James Blandings]

Re: Advice would be much help...

Although I have learned much from my online tutoring, I feel the need for RL, skin to skin experience. It would be most helpful if someone would point me in the direction of finding someone in my area to get to know and trust to further my education. I wouldn't mind direct contact or even a link to follow thru with...

Again, my thanks!

Justine

I would advise you against trying to meet *A* person, and suggest that you intead put your efforts into joining your local community. Here is a link to many contacts with groups all over the USA

http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

 

[Justine de Loup]

Re: Re: Advice would be much help...

I would advise you against trying to meet *A* person, and suggest that you intead put your efforts into joining your local community. Here is a link to many contacts with groups all over the USA

http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

Thank you, James Blandings...I'll take time before I try to meet "the one"...am not in that big of a hurry...I've waited this long, I can wait a bit more...I just know from my tutoring so far that I need nurturing like a plant...can't do it on my own with minimal contact. Not that RL is imperative but could use closer monitoring...I'll check out the site you've indicated, also...

Thank you, sir...

Justine