kissing

[lilmisstara]

hey

i have just got my first boyfriend (yay!) but the thing is we have only "kissed" once and when we did he looked like he was uncomfortable. since it was only my first ever kiss im not sure if im doing it right. would anyone care to explain the "proper" way to kiss? =/ thanks.
xox

 

[fgarvb1]

Are you stating that you are eighteen years or older and that you only starting kissing for the first time recently?

Please explain how you managed this.

 

[Nemasis Enforcer]

Are you stating that you are eighteen years or older and that you only starting kissing for the first time recently?

Please explain how you managed this.

Hey don't knock her, im a 19 year old guy and i haven't had a kiss before.

Lilmisstara there is no real way of kiss that I've ever been told of or seen, everyone always says just go with whats natural, and talk about how you felt about it with your bf and go from there.

 

[wildthang]

OK I have kissed a lot of people, both boys and girls, and from what I understand ( from the people i have kissed) girls tend to be more playful about the kiss. So enjoy it, a little nibbling (GENTLE!!) and tuggin on the bottom lip, sucking even. Licking his lips, letting your toungue roll against his, kissing the corners of his lips(where the bottom and top meet).

Let your hands do some work too! Wrap your arms around his neck if your standing or sitting on his lap, or play with his hair, let your finger tips brush against the back of his neck. Just have fun with it. He will enjoy it if you are, kissing is more of a improvisational thing then it is well thought.

 

[NaiveOne]

Yeah, I didn't kiss anyone till I was 23. So it is possible.

As for the first kiss, you really just have to practice! It takes time to get in the groove- everyone kisses differently. My first kiss had me giggling before we really got into it becasue it felt a little awkward.

Plus, maybe he was super turned on and was uncomfortable. Kissing is very sexy. I later found out that the real reason we cuddled after our first kiss was because he had a hard on and needed it to go down a bit.

Have fun!

 

[Different Guy]

I didn't start getting "proper" kisses till I was 17 either.

Anyway, if you're both first timer's use the opportunity to experiment and practice with one another. Sit down and talk with him and get it clear that you're both a bit, unsure of what to do.

You'll have fun!

 

[fgarvb1]

Hey Now.

What I was really fishing for was to find out is she was really eighteen years old.

If she is legit I don't have a problem what she wants to talk about.

Judging by her question I doubt she will come up with anything sick enough for me to have a problem with.

 

[sheath]

hey

i have just got my first boyfriend (yay!) but the thing is we have only "kissed" once and when we did he looked like he was uncomfortable. since it was only my first ever kiss im not sure if im doing it right. would anyone care to explain the "proper" way to kiss? =/ thanks.
xox

I'm not sure there IS a proper way to kiss. Just experiment with it. Small nibbles, gentle licks, pressing your lips to his, feeling his breath...it's all a careful dance, and it takes practice, plain and simple. There are no instructions, other than what you want, and what feels good. If you are tingling from head to toe and losing track of time and not giving a damn where you are, then you are doing it right.

Maybe tell your boyfriend you have never been kissed before he came along? I'm sure any guy given that explanation would be more than happy to let you experiment all you want.

S.

 

[littleg~rl]

Hi I did a bit of research for you and found this site.. Maybe helpful:

http://www.thekiss.com/

Best of luck with everything and remember to relax and just feel it, also remember that he may be nervous to.

Warm Regards


Stephanie