Kissing or blowing?

[loves oral wife]

For personal reasons, the stories I write for Literotica usually have an oral theme. I enjoy posing questions here to get a better perspective of what others, especially females think.

In college, circa 1967, I read about what was to become my favorite fantasy situation in the "Tropic of Cancer" by Henry Miller. The author describes a threesome, two women and one man cuddling on a couch. The man was making out with one of the women while the other sucked him off.

One time, I asked my wife, if she could be either of those women, which one would she be. She said that if I had asked her when she was in college, she would have chose the one making out, but that now, my wife was about 45 at the time, she would have chosen the one giving the blow job.

I'd love to hear what other women think. Also, for guys, where would this fantasy place in your list of favorites?

 

[Guest]

Goodness the cravings to kiss or feed are both quite strong within me. It would incredibly difficult to choose one over the other. Each has their own wonderful sense of closeness, power, strength and energy. Kissing is often so underrated and forgotten and it shouldn't be. There is something wonderfully sensual and soft while at the same time can be so powerful in nature. Now on to feeding as I call oral ... feeding ... goodness! How can one not want to do that as well? There is a certain hunger and lust one derives from feeding. Not only do you feed off the sensations you feel, but the energy and hunger of the other as well. Feeding is very close in nature to what one can evoke with kissing as well. It can be soft and very delicate in nature, but yet naughty and full of power and strength all at the same time.

So in turn trying to choose between the two would be almost head spinning for me. This means for now... I would choose to kiss my lover, but would have my hand wrapped around his cock stroking while the other fed. This way... I still have my hunger being fed for the moment and letting him know that I haven't forgotten about how I crave the other.

 

[Guest]

Thought I would ask myself the same question a day later after some more thought... still sticking to my guns on this one. Same answer to the same question.

 

[Abner Devereaux]

Thought I would ask myself the same question a day later after some more thought... still sticking to my guns on this one. Same answer to the same question.

What if I was involved ?

 

[jacuzzigal]

I must say, this seems like one of those questions "what do you like on your salad? Bacon bits or croutons?" Why can't we have both? I don't see why kissing and blowing can't be alternately enjoyed. I want it all!

lol

however if I HAD to choose, I'd go with TG's answer here:

for now... I would choose to kiss my lover, but would have my hand wrapped around his cock stroking while the other fed. This way... I still have my hunger being fed for the moment and letting him know that I haven't forgotten about how I crave the other.

 

[charmed1]

I must say, this seems like one of those questions "what do you like on your salad? Bacon bits or croutons?" Why can't we have both? I don't see why kissing and blowing can't be alternately enjoyed. I want it all!

lol

I completely agree. *nods*

 

[loves oral wife]

I must say, this seems like one of those questions "what do you like on your salad? Bacon bits or croutons?" Why can't we have both? I don't see why kissing and blowing can't be alternately enjoyed. I want it all!

lol

however if I HAD to choose, I'd go with TG's answer here:

I'm not suggesting you should settle for anything less!

The point of my question goes to motivation and is specifically structured to elicit a preference between what may be a difficult choice.

When setting scenes and having characters act, it is very helpful to understand how real people feel. Three women have take the time to respond to my question, and I've certainly learned something. I would not have predicted that all would have chosen kissing. Interesting. And helpful. Thanks

 

[charmed1]

Ok. Honest answer here.


I adore both but...

Kissing to me is very intimate by nature so when I'm feeling all romantic...I wanna kiss more and would choose that option.

However, when I'm feeling naughty , I really, really like the blowing option better.

 

[loves oral wife]

Ok. Honest answer here.


I adore both but...

Kissing to me is very intimate by nature so when I'm feeling all romantic...I wanna kiss more and would choose that option.

However, when I'm feeling naughty , I really, really like the blowing option better.

All to often, sadly, once orgasms become involved, kissing begins to take a back seat, a means to an ends rather than an ends in itself.

I've started a story about kissing. It was brought on by a woman in a meeting who had the most kissable lips I'd ever seen. It was an important meeting but all I could do was stare at those lips and dream.

She wasn't drop dead gorgeous (like the females posting on this thread). In some ways she'd be considered "plain". But oh those lips!

Of course the story devolves into other sorts of things. My mind isn't all that pure.

 

[charmed1]

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE to kiss and can make out for hours but I like oral sex a lot too.

I know what you mean about kissable lips..I've seen men before and wondered what it would be like to kiss them....

 

[Looking4Fun46]

Ok. Honest answer here.


I adore both but...

Kissing to me is very intimate by nature so when I'm feeling all romantic...I wanna kiss more and would choose that option.

However, when I'm feeling naughty , I really, really like the blowing option better.

So who wants to be romantic and naughty with me???

 

[jacuzzigal]

Ok. Honest answer here.


I adore both but...

Kissing to me is very intimate by nature so when I'm feeling all romantic...I wanna kiss more and would choose that option.

However, when I'm feeling naughty , I really, really like the blowing option better.

I couldn't agree more.

 

[Ibsen]

Also, for guys, where would this fantasy place in your list of favorites?

HELL YEA! It is a really nice fantasy... Can´t there be 3 girls? I know three foreigners (2 muslims, 1 catholic) who I´d like to "open up" Åreferably at tyhe same time.

 

[Guest]

Ok. Honest answer here.


I adore both but...

Kissing to me is very intimate by nature so when I'm feeling all romantic...I wanna kiss more and would choose that option.

However, when I'm feeling naughty , I really, really like the blowing option better.

Very true.... on this end too, but goodness there are those down and out very naughty kisses, including the bites to go with them that are damn fun too.

 

[charmed1]

Very true.... on this end too, but goodness there are those down and out very naughty kisses, including the bites to go with them that are damn fun too.

Also quite true