Killishandra

[graceanne]

Gracie: Nooooo, YOU'RE weird! Wassup girl? I miss ya. Sorry I haven't been around much.

Sure that's what they all say. I think you're avoiding me. *sniff*

jk

I'm tired, but then what else is new. I must be getting close to a remicaid treatment.

 

[raven2]

Am I the only one in here that likes to be tickled?

No, I do too.

 

[Killishandra]

No, I do too.

*tickle*

 

[tealsphynx]

Tickling is evil. I like hot wax though....mre than subbie does...but I like it on my skin too, again, more than he does...that will be my cold cure: a good bought of hot waxing!

 

[DVS]

No, I do too.

I think there are specific grades or levels to many things, and tickling is one of those things. You can go overboard rather quickly, for some people's tastes and that can turn them off to it.

This falls under the Dom/me staying in control and not letting their own feelings get out of hand, taking the tickling thing too far. I think it is easy to do, because the sub is laughing.

But, there can be pain involved, even though they are laughing. that's something the Dom/me might not understand. And, if the sub is bound, that's all the more reason for the Dom/me to keep their own feelings in check and stop when the sub says to stop. It's no different than any other SS&C play.

I know there are some who might be more tempted to allow themselves to be tickled as a form of BDSM play, if they knew someone was going to stay within the preset guidelines.

Tickling doesn't thrill me that much, but I'm always willing to try what a sub suggests she might like. But, I can also see myself needing a safeword or action from her, to be sure I don't get carried away. A sub's laughing can be intoxicating.

 

[h_i_s]

I think there are specific grades or levels to many things, and tickling is one of those things. You can go overboard rather quickly, for some people's tastes and that can turn them off to it ...................



But, there can be pain involved, even though they are laughing. that's something the Dom/me might not understand. ...............................

True. Tickling makes me nauseated. In fact, just from reading about it in this thread ... i'm feeling a bit green ... tummy is queasy.

 

[tealsphynx]

Since giving birth tickling makes me pee almost immediatly and I'm not into piss play so that's not a good thing

 

[graceanne]

Since giving birth tickling makes me pee almost immediatly and I'm not into piss play so that's not a good thing

Has your doctor taught you how to strengthen those muscles so that doesn't happen? They're called kegals. Next time you're peeing, stop mid flow. Those are your PC muscles. Once a day tighten them and hold it for three seconds, five times. As you get used to the excercise you'll want to hold it longer, or do more. Frankly, it also tightens your vaginal muscles so that if you really wanna drive your SO wild you just do that during sex. They love it.

 

[jasonlf]

Has your doctor taught you how to strengthen those muscles so that doesn't happen? They're called kegals. Next time you're peeing, stop mid flow.

I'm glad guys don't have funny-named dick exercises.

 

[graceanne]

I'm glad guys don't have funny-named dick exercises.

Actually they can. Same excercise, but if you do it during an orgasm (which is hard to do - k only can if he's on his back) it makes your orgasm like WAY better. I've actually read about some men who do it well enough that they can have an orgasm without ejaculating.

 

[tealsphynx]

Has your doctor taught you how to strengthen those muscles so that doesn't happen? They're called kegals. Next time you're peeing, stop mid flow. Those are your PC muscles. Once a day tighten them and hold it for three seconds, five times. As you get used to the excercise you'll want to hold it longer, or do more. Frankly, it also tightens your vaginal muscles so that if you really wanna drive your SO wild you just do that during sex. They love it.

Uhm, yeah, I know about Kegels....but I can't do them. No matter how hard I try I can't manage to "stop the flow of urine." I can get close if I concentrate and not let my peeing just go on it's own, but sometimes I just gotta go so I don't think to control it.....
Sorry all for the pee details, Uhm, unless you're into pee, then, you're welcome

 

[graceanne]

Uhm, yeah, I know about Kegels....but I can't do them. No matter how hard I try I can't manage to "stop the flow of urine." I can get close if I concentrate and not let my peeing just go on it's own, but sometimes I just gotta go so I don't think to control it.....
Sorry all for the pee details, Uhm, unless you're into pee, then, you're welcome

Have you talked to your dr? Their might be something else wrong, then. Like a UTI. And some people have problems that have nothing to do with their PC muscles. Their's a new med that can help you with that.

 

[chris9]

True. Tickling makes me nauseated. In fact, just from reading about it in this thread ... i'm feeling a bit green ... tummy is queasy.

Last time S tickled me (very out of any BDSM, just having fun) I stopped breathing... Not a good idea, and it took him some time to realize. Luckily he is quite good with emergency medicine, so he had me calmed down and back to normal very fast.

 

[chris9]

Uhm, yeah, I know about Kegels....but I can't do them. No matter how hard I try I can't manage to "stop the flow of urine." I can get close if I concentrate and not let my peeing just go on it's own, but sometimes I just gotta go so I don't think to control it.....
Sorry all for the pee details, Uhm, unless you're into pee, then, you're welcome

Maybe you can do the exercise AFTER peeing? Then just pretend to stop the flow, that should help tighten the muscles.

 

[tealsphynx]

It's not a UTI...the problem is that I can't find my PC muscles. And my dr. is always behind schedule so he's always pushing that I need to hurry up my questions so he can finish our exam (forget that I got in 45 min late and he wasted MY time) I'm switching dr's soon so hopefully I can get some time to talk about it.

 

[DVS]

It's not a UTI...the problem is that I can't findMy PC muscles...

My PC has muscles, too. It's a Pentium.

 

[tealsphynx]

My PC has muscles, too. It's a Pentium.

Lol. . .

 

[Aeroil]

Mine can make coffee


...but only cybercoffee

 

[graceanne]

My PC has muscles, too. It's a Pentium.

smart ass