Keeping it in check
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englishgent73
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It's addictive, ain't it?
SecretRogue
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Take a break
The first thing I usually try when I notice my internet usage is becoming excessive is taking a break. It's hard because logging on become a part of your routine. But take a week away. It's amazing when you realize how much time you suddenly have to do other things. It's important that you don't default! Be strong. A little breather just gives you a clearer perspective on time usage.
If that doesn't work, then I try to limit how much time I spend. I get x hours to spend doing non-work/school related things on the internet. After that, no mas. It usually helps if you have a buddy. Someone to hold you accountable. They don't even have to know what it's for. They can just ask how it's going on occasion and make you feel guilty for cheating.
The first thing I usually try when I notice my internet usage is becoming excessive is taking a break. It's hard because logging on become a part of your routine. But take a week away. It's amazing when you realize how much time you suddenly have to do other things. It's important that you don't default! Be strong. A little breather just gives you a clearer perspective on time usage.
If that doesn't work, then I try to limit how much time I spend. I get x hours to spend doing non-work/school related things on the internet. After that, no mas. It usually helps if you have a buddy. Someone to hold you accountable. They don't even have to know what it's for. They can just ask how it's going on occasion and make you feel guilty for cheating.
pfflyerhot
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Define "in check" please. In check, like you're spending too much time here & it effects your real life in an unhealthy way? Or, in check, like how to not let your emotions factor into your interactions here? ... how to compartmentalize your sexually-based relationships on here from those you have in real life?
Thanks.
Thanks.
seth6138
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Set time limits..and masterbate often!
John_Whittaker0826
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Once we become comfortable online it can certainly get to be a big part of our lives. The key, for me at least, is to be honest with yourself first & foremost. Then strive ot do the same thing with those you're interacting with.
Your concern is somewhat vague. Is it because of time that you're worried, or has a relationship become more than what you had anticipated and caught you off guard. A lot of us have been there. Trust me, I sure have, on both sides of the coin. If you'd like to discuss it, shoot me a line and let's chat. Friends can be helpful too
Your concern is somewhat vague. Is it because of time that you're worried, or has a relationship become more than what you had anticipated and caught you off guard. A lot of us have been there. Trust me, I sure have, on both sides of the coin. If you'd like to discuss it, shoot me a line and let's chat. Friends can be helpful too
