Keeping it from your partner.

[Tangledskein]

How much do you keep from your partner, sexually? Do you let them know you post on this site, for example? Do they know you masturbate or that you are regularly on chat sites? Do you chat with AI sex bots, or take pictures of yourself for posting on a media site somewhere? Are there any kinks that you have that you feel your partner may not be receptive to?

In other words, I suppose, I am asking how free and open your conversations about sex are with your partner? Do they know, or want to know everything?

 

[Not Normal]

She knows everything she wants to know. I volunteer things, and will always answer her questions.

 

[LittleGreene]

He knows 95% of everything. There’s that 5% of internal thoughts, fantasies that I don’t vocalise with him immediately. But usually over time I share those once I’ve processed them. I’m very lucky we have an open and trust in marriage.

 

[Britva415]

I don't hide anything, but I don't throw it in her face either.

She's not interested in everything I'm into, but I have a pass to see other people. So she isn't my outlet.

Honestly, she probably thinks I do more than I really do.

 

[ClockworkCourtesan]

All of it. She is ace, no interest in intimacy of any kind. I'm hypersexual, and she despises even hints of it from like TV shows. Depressing, I know, we are in the midst of a divorce because of it.

 

[Britva415]

All of it. She is ace, no interest in intimacy of any kind. I'm hypersexual, and she despises even hints of it from like TV shows. Depressing, I know, we are in the midst of a divorce because of it.

I'm sorry to hear it. My marriage is similar, except that we have worked it out as described above.

Asexuality is real and mismatches seem common. My wife didn't know about it until years after marrying.

 

[gtnlynn]

I think my wife knows everything about my sex life, including online chats since she participates. She is the only sex partner I have ever had, so no secrets there. She does have a few sex secrets, and that's fine. I don't need to know everything or know about all the men she has been with.

 

[MH2024hot]

More open than it used to be. Revealed my masturbating to porn, phone sex, going to sex stores, got explicit about what I like and how I wanted her to watch me while I jerk off to porn models. We had some fun with it, but she's very Catholic though it's been a lot of discussing pleasure in the context of our faith. Now I'm working on revealing three way sex fantasies and for her to join in watching erotica and such. But she doesn't share on her end. So I'd like to see more of that.

 

[aliencardigan]

I don't share online or RL activities. She knows I wear panties daily and have other intimate items that are open plainly in my dresser. She has no interest and even when I tried to talk about anything sexual, it isn't welcomed so it's easier to stay shut up. Needless to say there is no sex between us sadly. We're very close and compatible on everything else so after 35 plus years not gonna throw the baby out with the bath water! I'm learning to cope without guilt.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

How much do you keep from your partner, sexually? Do you let them know you post on this site, for example? Do they know you masturbate or that you are regularly on chat sites? Do you chat with AI sex bots, or take pictures of yourself for posting on a media site somewhere? Are there any kinks that you have that you feel your partner may not be receptive to?

In other words, I suppose, I am asking how free and open your conversations about sex are with your partner? Do they know, or want to know everything?

I’ve told everything.