Keep falling out...

[bobbobbob42]

Hi everyone,

first post...go easy on me.

I haven't had sex with lots of women, but I have been having problems with sliding out often. It gets really annoying. I am not a huge guy, about 5 1/2-3/4 inches. Is this a normal problem? Are there better positions that will help me to not fall out soo much? Is it because I am a small guy? Need help, what should I do?

 

[entitled]

First off, you're not small. You're about average.

Second, if you're having problems with sliding out, you must be doing something right. (!) Sounds odd, doesn't it? The only times i've ever had a problem with somebody sliding out is AFTER an orgasm or two (or more) when i was just plain too wet to help it.

 

[jupiter lilly]

I think falling out is just part of the process. I know I has happened with me before...

I think the best thing to do is not to let it bother you too much. You have to approach sex with at least a little bit of a sense of humor. These things happen.

 

[werbl]

Yeah, I've had that problem too... Usually when she's really wet and either of us are about to orgasm - the worst time. I've learned to kind of grab on (butt, whatever you prefer), and not pull out as far when thrusting. Going faster seems to make up for it, and turns her on more too.

 

[Lager than most]

Positions?

You asked for position sugestions, but I need to ask, what positions have you tried? I have fournd that falling out can happen in just about any position if I'm over excited or try to tease my GF by pulling out to just the tip. If you haven't found out already be very carefull with hard or fast thrusting. falling out then thrusting and missing is a verry painfull experence for both partners and can do damage.

as for position tips I would go for the positions with deeper penetration so you still get good thrusting motion. From behind will give you deep penetration and control. You could try with her on top and rocking your and her hips. One that I really like is basic man on top but with her legs wraped around you, with her pulling you tight it is very hard to fall out so you can go nuts.

hope this helps.

 

[pointandshoot]

Sometimes falling out is just a simple, You have not gotten your movements down yet. This comes with time. You will learn each others movements and adjust. She will learn your length and move to please. Give it some time and all should be OK.

 

[ReadyOne]

I had that problem with one gf; it almost seemed chronic. Then I figured out that when the stimulation got too intense for her, her body would change the rhythem so that we were further apart on the out stroke, trying to reduce the stimulation. It was reflexive. When I figured it out and started watching, I almost completely stopped it from happening.