'kay, let's say yer bi..

[lickerish]

curious anyways, and you've been offered the opportunity to graduate to full-fleged bi.. by someone whom you care about and respect, but are not attracted to sexually..

would ya do it?

 

[Mistress]

I think I would have to be a little sexually attracted to them or else I wouldnt be able to do it....

 

[koalabear]

Nope .......

 

[Angel]

Aww. Nope, but you can come do me.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

But if you are in love, it matters not the gender,yes? if it does, then pfft! You are not in love! It is simple.
When true love chooses you, there is no choice

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Nope, I need the whole package.

atraction, love, fealings from both sides me and her (or in your senario him)

 

[MissTaken]

Don't do it if there is no sexual attraction.

Your first experience should bring fireworks and excitement. It won't happen if you dont' feel any sexual attraction toward this person.

IMHO

 

[SweetBrat73]

Nope nope nopw

 

[lickerish]

Angel-cakes, in a heartbeat babe!


Nah, really.. I have a friend who is beautiful inside and out, but I'm not sexually attracted to her.. she is to me, however. She knows I'm curious enough to go there, so she's always trying to set opportunities up. A couple weekends ago, we went and stayed at a hotel at the coast while I tried to help her sort out her boyfriend troubles.. and nothing happened, mainly cuz I just didn't want to.

And it sucks because at this point in my life, this is something I want to do, but not until I find someone who I am mutually attracted with. Who knows, maybe I'm a lesbian in hetero clothes

I was talking with someone from the board the other night who basically was saying 'just do it, get it out of the way'.. but in my eyes, it's not about getting 'experienced', it's being with someone you feel sparks with.. no?

What do y'all think?

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Likerish....

if it feels wrong, it most likely is no matter how much you enjoy it
if it feel right, it's right for you.

Lead with your heart.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Angel-cakes, in a heartbeat babe!


Nah, really.. I have a friend who is beautiful inside and out, but I'm not sexually attracted to her.. she is to me, however. She knows I'm curious enough to go there, so she's always trying to set opportunities up. A couple weekends ago, we went and stayed at a hotel at the coast while I tried to help her sort out her boyfriend troubles.. and nothing happened, mainly cuz I just didn't want to.

And it sucks because at this point in my life, this is something I want to do, but not until I find someone who I am mutually attracted with. Who knows, maybe I'm a lesbian in hetero clothes

I was talking with someone from the board the other night who basically was saying 'just do it, get it out of the way'.. but in my eyes, it's not about getting 'experienced', it's being with someone you feel sparks with.. no?

What do y'all think?

As I said, it is about love, yes? That is attraction, lust, friendship, all.
But ,perhaps your eyes are turning towards women as partners?
A woman's love is different from a mans, some prefer one or the other or, perhaps both. There is no wrong in that.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I wouldn't do it. No more than I would have lost my virginity to a guy I wasn't attracted to. What's the point in having sex with someone you're not sexually attracted to?

 

[lickerish]

Nessus, I understand what you mean.. love is about all of those things. No, I wouldn't do it just for the sake of doing it. I'm not so casual with men, I certainly wouldn't be with women either.

My friend whom I mentioned before, is bi, and she only sleeps with women for fun, no more. I know that I am different, I am attracted to women, and not only for looks.. If I ever fall in love again, I know that it won't matter which gender they happen to be.


Pagancowgirl.. that's exactly how I feel. I'm not attracted to her 'style' of looks and personality, there's just no feeling there other than just pure friendship.

 

[nasty]

I wouldn't do it no matter how attractive they are, if, the personality wasn't there. And, vice versa. I've been pondering the same question, myself. There's this guy that lives in my building, who is bi, and, I've been wondering, if I should just do it with him. He's already got a boyfriend, but, perhaps he'd like a 3some.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Nessus, I understand what you mean.. love is about all of those things. No, I wouldn't do it just for the sake of doing it. I'm not so casual with men, I certainly wouldn't be with women either.

My friend whom I mentioned before, is bi, and she only sleeps with women for fun, no more. I know that I am different, I am attracted to women, and not only for looks.. If I ever fall in love again, I know that it won't matter which gender they happen to be.


Pagancowgirl.. that's exactly how I feel. I'm not attracted to her 'style' of looks and personality, there's just no feeling there other than just pure friendship.

You are wise and in control, I think

 

[Siren]

Licky gal

 

[lickerish]

I know Siren love, I know. (I knew you'd know where I was coming from Sirenita.) Thats exactly how I feel... then again, that's how I feel about being with men too


Leave it to a man to advise me to get it over with and just do it.

 

[Siren]

Just do me Licky

 

[cymbidia]

I'm fully bi, darlin', and wouldn't dream of sleeping with someone with whom i didn't have a genuine romantic attraction, no matter their gender.

Why would gender be any kinda factor in your decision anyway?
We make love with people we care for.
It's not a matter of gender.

 

[lickerish]

*grinning*

no Siren, I certainly haven't forgotten that voice.. and I still have your number programmed in my mobile phone


Cym, it makes sense doesn't it? Like Nessus says, love chooses you, not the other way around. It's a shame other people can't see it that way...

 

[Mr. Bootie]

hmmm?? Don't mind me.

I'm just hanging out in here. *wink and grin*



kgboot

 

[lickerish]

thats fine

* and * back atcha babe

 

[xzchief]

Nope .......

What he said.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Uh oh!! I've been spotted. The gig is up Oh well......

Since I've already been spotted. Come here Licky baby!! I've got something for you. * Hugs and Kisses * *muah*.

I've missed you sweetie.


kgboot

 

[ntp]

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