Just When I Thought I Was Over You

[juicylips]

Ever thought a relationship was over and done with....

But....


He or she keeps fucking with your mind....??????

Pulled in..Pulled out....like a damn yo yo.

Frustrating??

Cassidy

*this thread has NOTHING to do with anyone here on Lit, past or present, so quit wondering*

SR....don't say a fucking word!!!! LMAO......You know me too well.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Welcome to my world ... care for a drink?

 

[Slinky'sWench]

yeah, I'm stuck on that yo yo trip

if I ever find a pair of scissors strong enough to cut the string I'll let ya know

 

[MidnightAngel]

Ohh Yes! And they'll continue to do it until you make them realize that you're not putting up with it.

One has been trying to do this to me for most of my life.

Hang tough, Cass!

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Ever thought a relationship was over and done with....

But....


He or she keeps fucking with your mind....??????

Pulled in..Pulled out....like a damn yo yo.

Frustrating??

Cassidy

SR....don't say a fucking word!!!! LMAO......You know me too well.

glad I wasn't told not to say anything

I though you would like the pushing in and pulling out part

but to asnwer... No i've never had that happen.

(friendships) that end up brakeing up... the person tends to run and never look back. No one ever messes with me once they know me hehehe

 

[Astro]

Been there, have the scars.

One little harpy played me like a fiddle and caused me a lot of pain. It took me a while to see I was being played but once I finaly accepted it I cut all threads and worked out my feelings with the help of a pair of weights.

All I can offer is my advise, walk away they aint worth it, ever.

 

[Astro]

Been there, have the scars.

One little harpy played me like a fiddle and caused me a lot of pain. It took me a while to see I was being played but once I finaly accepted it I cut all threads and worked out my feelings with the help of a pair of weights.

All I can offer is my advice, walk away they aint worth it, ever.

 

[Astro]

Been there, have the scars.

One little harpy played me like a fiddle and caused me a lot of pain. It took me a while to see I was being played but once I finaly accepted it I cut all threads and worked out my feelings with the help of a pair of weights.

All I can offer is my advice, walk away they aint worth it, ever.

 

[MissTaken]

Oh yes.

Am there and hanging on. Call me foolish


It really sucks, doesn't it?

 

[Georgia Girl]

Been there, done that but I am about to rain on his parade.

You just have to reach a place where you say "Enough is enough, no more" and cut the ties.

Good luck on ending your trip in yo yo land.

Dawn

 

[juicylips]

Lyrics to fit the thread....

Here I am playing with those memories again
And just when I thought time had set me free
Those thoughts of you keep taunting me

Holding you, a feeling I never outgrew
Though each and every part of me has tried
Only you can fill that space inside

So there's no sense pretending
My heart it's not mending

Chorus:
Just when I thought I was over you
Just when I thought I could stand on my own
Oh baby those memories come crashing through
And I just can't go on without you

On my own I've tried to make the best of it alone
I've done everything I can to ease the pain
But only you can stop the rain

I just can't live without you
I miss everything about you

Chorus

It's just no good without you
Without you, without you, without you

Oh baby those memories come crashing through
And I just can't go on without you

(Norman Sallitt)

 

[Wiggles]

I always have problems with letting go. I have "abondonment Issues"

I could never understand how you could just stop loving someone, or what makes someone turn against you.

I still don't understand it, but I know time will heal my pain (and alot of cute dates too!).

Even to this day, I get flash back memories of some of my past loves. Part of me still misses every single one of them.


Fucking with peoples minds is a very bad thing to do. I don't understand why people do that.

 

[juicylips]

Fucking with peoples minds is a very bad thing to do. I don't understand why people do that.

He doesn't realize he does it actually. I am the dumb bitch that said, "why of course we can still be friends and talk about anything"

All I have to do is just say, Hey, I just don't want to hear from you anymore. I can't handle this and it is causing me pain.

But..do I do that????

Hell fucking no....

 

[Georgia Girl]

I understand where you are coming from Cassidy, I live there too.

I have the same issues with letting go, i lost my instruction manual on how you are supposed to go about doing that. I know its somewhere.

Good luck

Dawn

 

[hatara]

Juicylips I will tell you What I Told Georgia

You told him you could still be friends and feel like your on a yo-yo I have been there most of us have.

What you need to do now is get off that merry-go-round. Tell him your sorry but that being friends is not working for you and healthy for your emotional growth!!!!

Then just walk away honey because he never deserved anyone as good as you to begin with if he couldn't see it.

 

[juicylips]

I understand where you are coming from Cassidy, I live there too.

I have the same issues with letting go, i lost my instruction manual on how you are supposed to go about doing that. I know its somewhere.

Good luck

Dawn

Thanks, Dawn...btw I have sis by that name

This thread is terribly uncharacteristic of me and I am somewhat ashamed. I think it is all the meds I have been on.

He showed up in my email this morning and it sent me on a whirlwind tour of past thoughts and feelings and hence, this stupid thread. He is the only one I have had problems dealing with emotionally. When I realized some time ago that there were feelings, I changed the aspect of my other online relationships and have avoided such problems. (Yes, I really can turn my emotions off.) I was very naieve at the time and so was he. I would rather keep him as a friend than not have him at all.

Cassidy,
who will be back to fucking normal SOOOOOOOOON

 

[Summery]

SR....don't say a fucking word!!!! LMAO......You know me too well.

Rotflmao!!! You know me so well. I just saw this and was so ready to jump all over it with a post......I shall refrain for you Juicy! Kisses Chickie

 

[Moridin187]

Yes.. I've been yo-yo'd both with "let's be friends"...

When I try to stay out of it, they just keep coming up with more and more descriptive shit, saying how they miss me, etc..

My last girlfriend, some of you may have seen me post the story about her.. Called me last night, I'm talking to her on AIM right now.

Another thing that sucks is waiting.. When someone tells you "I need time" and keeps drawing it out, the whole time flirting with other guys, getting new boyfriends without telling you, but keeping you on that string, keeping you waiting and hanging, hoping for the day that they'll come back...

That's hellish.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

He doesn't realize he does it actually. I am the dumb bitch that said, "why of course we can still be friends and talk about anything"

All I have to do is just say, Hey, I just don't want to hear from you anymore. I can't handle this and it is causing me pain.

But..do I do that????

Hell fucking no....

Oh wow... After reading this I feel like I am looking in the mirror. I am famous for this...Here let me lay down here and you just walk all over me...

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Just When I Thought I Was Over You

Rotflmao!!! You know me so well. I just saw this and was so ready to jump all over it with a post......I shall refrain for you Juicy! Kisses Chickie

I knew there was nothing you could say on here that you haven't already told me a hundred times before.

You have listened to me RAMBLE on and on about this whole stupid situation and I appreciate you so much!!!!!

That is what pulls me back on track, knowing I have lots of friends who only want whats best for me....ohhhh..and the few that like fucking me....

Cassidy

 

[Mike Hammer]

Ever thought a relationship was over and done with....

But....


He or she keeps fucking with your mind....??????

Pulled in..Pulled out....like a damn yo yo.

Frustrating??

Cassidy
]

You wanna talk Yo yo? I know this one chick that plays me like a slide trombone. She just showed up at my house one night, I really didn't know her that well at the time and she had been drinking, was a little tipsy, you could even say drunk. How it happened I don't really remember. I do remember fucking her though. Maybe I shouldn't have, in fact I had conflicting thoughts at the time, that little voice saying "Go for it, you know you want it" in one ear and "she's drunk" in the other. She was such a good tease that in the end I just couldn't physically resist taking advantage of the situation.

The next morning was great, I felt a little guilty for a brief second and then proceeded to fuck her again. I was relieved everything seemed cool, you know just two people and sex for the sake of sex kind of thing. It was perfect, a true beautiful fucking friend so to say, we could just hook up, talk, fuck, thank eachother and exchange a kiss until next time.

It sounded good at the time, but it never really goes that smooth, and the worst thing is, I already knew that. Did it stop me.....no. It's just hard to make a fucking friends relationship work between two people. We go back and forth, hot and cold all the time, just trying to keep a balance, trying not to fall off the fence. Even though we both know it would be impossible for anything more than friendship to work between us, the intimacy of the realationship tries to pull it deeper. It's a head game in itself, but it's a good game.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I can not help but prejudice of others,
as you are not as them.

How can words of others matter,
when yours penetrate, not just touch.

Is sleep necessary,
when thought of surrender freshens.

Should I take food for my being,
when your eyes I feed of,
your body I drink.

Is total surrender to drown or survive.


T.H. Oughts

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Just When I Thought I Was Over You

You wanna talk Yo yo? I know this one chick that plays me like a slide trombone. She just showed up at my house one night, I really didn't know her that well at the time and she had been drinking, was a little tipsy, you could even say drunk. How it happened I don't really remember. I do remember fucking her though. Maybe I shouldn't have, in fact I had conflicting thoughts at the time, that little voice saying "Go for it, you know you want it" in one ear and "she's drunk" in the other. She was such a good tease that in the end I just couldn't physically resist taking advantage of the situation.

The next morning was great, I felt a little guilty for a brief second and then proceeded to fuck her again. I was relieved everything seemed cool, you know just two people and sex for the sake of sex kind of thing. It was perfect, a true beautiful fucking friend so to say, we could just hook up, talk, fuck, thank eachother and exchange a kiss until next time.

It sounded good at the time, but it never really goes that smooth, and the worst thing is, I already knew that. Did it stop me.....no. It's just hard to make a fucking friends relationship work between two people. We go back and forth, hot and cold all the time, just trying to keep a balance, trying not to fall off the fence. Even though we both know it would be impossible for anything more than friendship to work between us, the intimacy of the realationship tries to pull it deeper. It's a head game in itself, but it's a good game.

You KNOW you couldn't resist me!!!

YOU?? Feeling guilty?? LMAO!!

You wanted to fuck me (drunk or not) as much as I wanted you.

Don't even try to leave my bed, you will freeze your ass off. No one keeps you warmer or is that HOTTER

The only balance I want in this relationship is the one where I am balancing myself on your cock. Again..and again.

Cassidy,
who misses you like fucking crazy

 

[SilverVeil]

Yup. Been there.

My last b/f and I were together 5 yrs. About the 4th year we were together, he started this thing of breaking up with me about a week before holidays or my birthday. That was so he did not have to get me a present. And believe me, money was not a problem for this man.

When I had enuff and broke up with him, he called me crying wanting to be friends. I said ok, but I knew it was not going to work.

He wanted a fuck buddy is all. I made it very clear that I don't fuck my friends.
Causes too many emotional hassles.

His attitude improved and we tried being together again, because I really did love him, but I got tired of the hurting all the time. When my birthday came around again, once again he broke up with me. I cut off all contact with him.
No calls, no e-mails, no return calls to him..... he showed up at my door 2 weeks later saying he was sorry and he had a gift for me. He bought me a DVD player. ( A really top of the line one too. ) I thanked him for the gift, asked him how he was, gave him some coffee and then let him go home ALONE.

I still have the DVD player, a new fiance, and a new home.
He is still alone and selfish.
I think I came out the better in this one.

 

[plasticman33]

Ever thought a relationship was over and done with....

But....


He or she keeps fucking with your mind....??????

Pulled in..Pulled out....like a damn yo yo.

Frustrating??

Cassidy

*this thread has NOTHING to do with anyone here on Lit, past or present, so quit wondering*

SR....don't say a fucking word!!!! LMAO......You know me too well.

Not exactly, but I do feel I'm on a rollercoaster ride sometimes!