Just want to share...

[Cruel2BKind]

About a month ago, I was a virgin. Now I've slept with two and a half guys. (one was a virgin by choice, and I only ever gave him a handjob.

They don't last for very long. The first guy didn't like not being in a serious relationship. The second guy was stubborn and didn't want me to win him over, and now the third one I'm still with and having a lot of fun.

I'm using condoms, so don't worry, I'm being safe.

I'm just wondering, do I move too fast? Do I have the libido of a teenage boy? Should I try to slow down?

I just want to have fun, but now I'm having those obnoxious 'moral' feelings.

Can anyone help?

 

[sr71plt]

Well, when you get into your stride, you can do two and a half in one evening.

You might want to ask this in the GBLT board.

 

[bronzeage]

The only way to tell if you are going too fast is when you can't make the turn and end up in the ditch.

A hand job counts as 1/2 of a virginity? I wish I had known that 40 years ago.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

The only way to tell if you are going too fast is when you can't make the turn and end up in the ditch.

A hand job counts as 1/2 of a virginity? I wish I had known that 40 years ago.

only 40? late starter were ya?

 

[bronzeage]

only 40? late starter were ya?

I was a sheltered youth.

 

[LettersFromTatyana]

They don't last for very long.

I hate that... oh, wait, I have a feeling we're talking about different things.

I'm just wondering, do I move too fast? Do I have the libido of a teenage boy? Should I try to slow down?

I just want to have fun, but now I'm having those obnoxious 'moral' feelings.

Can anyone help?

Um, you just started college, yes? So you don't have the libido of a teenaged man. You have the libido of a healthy teenaged woman, which is what you are, yes?

As for slowing down... if you hadn't asked, I'd say no. But since you did, I'd say maybe, since by asking it seems that you might revealing a bit of an insecurity or inner-questioning about this.

So think hard about what you want. If you want casual sex--if you like casual sex--go for it. If you don't, then find something more. It has nothing to do with morals, and everything to do with what makes you feel good, both in the moment and in the long run.



And I'm suddenly annoyed that I don't have any halves in my past.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

I hate that... oh, wait, I have a feeling we're talking about different things.



Um, you just started college, yes? So you don't have the libido of a teenaged man. You have the libido of a healthy teenaged woman, which is what you are, yes?


And I'm suddenly annoyed that I don't have any halves in my past.

lol, yeah, I'm a woman. Take that Sr71plt! Why do I need to go to the GLBT board? I'm a straight woman!

Sorry, just had to get that out, I thought he knew.

Confession time. I haven't actually bumped uglies with the third one yet. We've been messing around, handjobs oral sex, dry humping, because I have my period. Now that it's over, I have strep throat.

GAAH

 

[sr71plt]

lol, yeah, I'm a woman. Take that Sr71plt! Why do I need to go to the GLBT board? I'm a straight woman!

Sorry, just had to get that out, I thought he knew.

Confession time. I haven't actually bumped uglies with the third one yet. We've been messing around, handjobs oral sex, dry humping, because I have my period. Now that it's over, I have strep throat.

GAAH

Yeah, ya got me. From what you write . . .

 

[TE999]

About a month ago, I was a virgin. Now I've slept with two and a half guys. (one was a virgin by choice, and I only ever gave him a handjob.

They don't last for very long. The first guy didn't like not being in a serious relationship. The second guy was stubborn and didn't want me to win him over, and now the third one I'm still with and having a lot of fun.

I'm using condoms, so don't worry, I'm being safe.

I'm just wondering, do I move too fast? Do I have the libido of a teenage boy? Should I try to slow down?

I just want to have fun, but now I'm having those obnoxious 'moral' feelings.

Can anyone help?

It's your body and your life. You can become a Nun, fuck like a bunny rabbit or anything inbetween; your choice. Whatever you enjoy that isn't hurting anyone (including you), by all means indulge yourself. There are too damn many people out there who are judgmental and want to control how everyone lives. To them I say mind your own damn business and you should too.

 

[CarlusMagnus]

Sorry, just had to get that out, I thought he knew.

Why should he be the only one who thinks he knows? (Everything!)

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Why should he be the only one who thinks he knows? (Everything!)

Hey! Don't insult him!

I don't want this to attract lovecraft, if that happens, the entire thread will come to a blinding halt while the two of them bitch.

SR: Poser! blah! Child! Blah! Failure! Blah! Story that never ends! Blah! Idiot! Blah! Ignorant! Blah!

LC: Liar! Blah! You weren't a pilot! Blah! You're not gay! Blah! You never worked for the government! Blah! liar Liar LIAR!!!!! ... BLAHHHHH!!!!

SR: Fuck you!

LC: Blah!

That's what I see whenever I see them fight. and I hope that is all of the fight that happens here -_-'

 

[PennLady]

I'm just wondering, do I move too fast? Do I have the libido of a teenage boy? Should I try to slow down?

I just want to have fun, but now I'm having those obnoxious 'moral' feelings.

Can anyone help?

Well, not knowing your background, it's hard to know just what obnoxious moral feelings you're dealing with, but then, we all have them. And good for you for being safe.

As for moving too fast -- I think again, too little information. Have you dated before? If so, did things move at a speed you liked, or did you wish they'd slowed down or sped up? Everybody moves at their own speed, although you may need to make adjustments here and there.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

I was a sheltered youth.

as in juvenile delinquency?