Just turned 50: E-mail / chat / phone relationship?

EffBeeEss

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I'm missing a spark. Maybe you know what I mean?

Mostly, though, I want a connection and I want intimacy, because I haven't had either for a while. I want that excitement that comes with seeing that she emailed you, or that little thrill when you get the right text in a meeting during the day.

I want it to be totally safe, though: no expectation of meeting, no pressure, nothing. We can start with email and move to chat or phone or whatever when and if you're comfortable doing so. Whatever happens happens, of course, but just know I don't want you to come over right now. :)

Really, I'm seeking someone around my age (so between 45-55 would be good, though I'm looking more for the mind than the physical person, so that's negotiable), and since I'm a geek myself, someone with a geeky mind or appreciation for same would probably make for a good connection. And with a good connection follows, well, everything else. :)

About me: I'm 6'1", green eyes, short brown hair, HWP. I'm a pop-culture geek and most of the music I listen to is '80s-based. I am a big hockey and soccer fan, and I like to read and cook, though I haven't been doing so much of the latter lately. (More details on that as we get to know one another, if you want to know.)

I doubt there is a lot of spam representing as guys on Lit, but hopefully I have gotten across that I speak in complete sentences and that a spammer wouldn't go to this much detail to post an ad.

But let's start with e-mail and see what happens from there. If you're interested, I look forward to hearing from you!
 
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