Just relax?

[Some_Dood]

Hi I'm RK, I'm 19 years old, and I'm bisexual. I think. I've been with more girls then I should be proud of, and I only recently realized that I'm also attracted to guys. I've never done anything with guys before, but I've been dating this 26 year old (I know its a bit of a difference) for about 2 weeks and we're both ready to take the relationship further. I've seen gay porn before (Peter North is amazing btw!) and I think I know what I'm doing (my bf's explained everything to me) but I'm really very scared and I'm worried that my nerves will get in the way of having a good time. Is there anything I can do to be more calm, or am I just not ready for this or what's going on, is this normal?

 

[Nimbikarana]

Ask yourself, would you be nervous at this particular stage of a similar relationship with a female? I'm guessing you would. It takes courage to turn up the heat.

 

[human_male]

I think it'd be totally normal and understandable to be nervous as shit about it. I've never been in that position but I would guess just taking your time and not doing anything that you're not completely comfortable with would be the way to go. And if things don't go that well there's always the next time.

I wish you well.

So how do you get all these girls?

 

[brightondream]

He's older? If he's worth his salt then he will be patient and informative, he'll understand you being a bit nervous. He will be gentle and caring and he will listen to your words and have respect for your thoughts. If he doesn't, .................give ME a shout. Luck.